Now we know the reason behind Barka's apparent dislike of Baba...

So the reason is finally revealed...It seems that Barka blames Baba just like she does Nikhil for Akash's death. Obviously that would make sense because had Akash not been at Baba's house then he would be alive today, nah??? Her reasoning is maddening, she's trying to control fate... She figures if Akash hadn't gone to Sonvarsa he would be alive today and same with Nikhil's accident today.

If Laajo hadn't married Nikhil then they would not have needed to avoid having guests in their house and therefore Nikhil would have had no reason to leave the house. It's like a domino effect...

With that reasoning then, one could say if she never married Inder than Akash (who of course would not exist in the first place) would not have gone to the village to visit his grandfather and therefore would not have fallen off the roof... But of course we could just keep going back and saying if she hadn't married Inder then Akash would not have existed, therefore she would never have to face the pain of losing her son. Or better yet...if her mom didn't have her none of this would happen and so on and so on😆


Does fate have nothing to do with this? It was an accident (both were). She can't blame Laajo for Nikhil's decision to leave. Just as she can't blame Nikhil and Baba for Akash's death...

Parm barkha is a sort of a weak person who keeps on blaming the others for whatever happened.
She left her house at this age when the preparation of Ayesha wedding was going on she loves herself and nothing else.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Parm barkha is a sort of a weak person who keeps on blaming the others for whatever happened.
She left her house at this age when the preparation of Ayesha wedding was going on she loves herself and nothing else.

Very true Anju. Weak people do have that trait of blaming others... and that was the height of selfishness when she left the house in the midst of her own daughter's wedding preparations.

Very true..she blames everyone for the bad situations around first it was Baba now it's Laajo next it might be some other person...it is very important for her to understand the importance of situational factors that led to the accident can't keep on blaming ppl

Originally posted by: Parm.

So the reason is finally revealed...It seems that Barka blames Baba just like she does Nikhil for Akash's death. Obviously that would make sense because had Akash not been at Baba's house then he would be alive today, nah??? Her reasoning is maddening, she's trying to control fate... She figures if Akash hadn't gone to Sonvarsa he would be alive today and same with Nikhil's accident today.

If Laajo hadn't married Nikhil then they would not have needed to avoid having guests in their house and therefore Nikhil would have had no reason to leave the house. It's like a domino effect...

With that reasoning then, one could say if she never married Inder than Akash (who of course would not exist in the first place) would not have gone to the village to visit his grandfather and therefore would not have fallen off the roof... But of course we could just keep going back and saying if she hadn't married Inder then Akash would not have existed, therefore she would never have to face the pain of losing her son. Or better yet...if her mom didn't have her none of this would happen and so on and so on😆


Does fate have nothing to do with this? It was an accident (both were). She can't blame Laajo for Nikhil's decision to leave. Just as she can't blame Nikhil and Baba for Akash's death...

Originally posted by: bintus02

It just show what we have been saying all along in this forum that Barkha needs professional psychiatric help. She is a person who thinks that others are to be blame for any bad things that happens around her, faith doesn't come into it.

I wonder if she will blame Ishana when she gets to know Nikhil went out running after her and nothing Laajo could have done to stop him.

Unfortunately I do not think she will as it would not suit her current mission "Kick Laajo Out" nor what seems to be her immense dislike of Laajo. I wonder if she is even more hard and unwilling to budge on the Laajo situation because she too came from the same village that claimed her son's life (in her eyes that is)...In the end it will still be Laajo's fault for putting Ishana into her current situation.

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

Very true..she blames everyone for the bad situations around first it was Baba now it's Laajo next it might be some other person...it is very important for her to understand the importance of situational factors that led to the accident can't keep on blaming ppl

Agreed, and until she mourns properly for Aakash, she will never reach that point. She is living a very unhealthy life (mentally that is) and needs to grieve and let go (not forget as that is impossible to do) and understand that it no one was to blame for Akash's death and perhaps the same can be said for LaKhil's marriage. Nikhil just reacted to the situation and Laajo just did what was expected of her...