Nikhil

Originally posted by: _innocent_

OK! First of all just because Barkha is his mother, it does not mean he has to do everything to please her egoistic nature! Now you must be wondering, WHY? Well, because till date Nikhil has not received the love of a mother, all because Barkha is stupid enough to blame a small child for letting go of his brother's hand! (She calls him a murderer, emotionally blackmails him, and yet he should be bothered by her feelings?- Lets not forget he did try to obey her emotions when she took Lajjo back to the village based on her shitty excuses, but because he could not commit an injustice, he is not the perfect son! So, if tomorrow someone married Barkha's daughter-Aisha- and then dumps her because his mother asked him to, then would that mean Barkha would be happy? :S If so, then she as a character should not forget she too has a daughter- but alas its double standards in that house-)

Also, Ishaana wanted to kill herself and so she tried! Unless Nikhil took the knife and personally cut her veins, he is nowhere to be blamed for that! Ishaana, alone is to be blamed for her suicide, as she did not consider her mother's feelings, and thought a boy had more importance than her own mother! (People should stop victimizing themselves and make something better with their lives-)

Lajjo did not force Nikhil to marry her, Nikhil did that based on his grandfather's insistence and emotional blackmail! Had you watched the show, you would not have missed this important information! Lajjo's only fault is that she keeps behaving in an immature manner, but I guess its because she is only 18, and gradually she will mature. ---

Originally posted by: pamela01

Sooner or later they would have got their son married and his wife would have been brought home to live with them so I don't see how you could refer to Nikhil's wife as a complete stranger even if they do not approve of her.

Barkha is not the only one in pain, afterall a father also lost a son, a brother lost his sibling and a sister lost her brother. It is purely selfish of the mother to think that she alone can feel the pain of loss. But not only that, she is inflicting this pain on her surviving son.

And you don't need to be a psychiatrist to see that Barkha needs a serious psychological help.

Edited by bintus02 - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: pamela01

If you were in Barkha's situation then would you like a complete stranger to come and live in your house?

Barkha has told Nikhil that she does not want Laajo in her house so he should find alternative accommodation for her. fair is fair

It is ok for all you critics but only Barkha knows the pain she has to endure. As for those who thinks that Barkha needs psychiatric treatment , maybe she does and maybe all you you who have come to the conclusion that she needs psychiatric treatment then maybe you are all psychiatrists to diagnose a person. No one like to be labelled as having such a problem.

Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

I agree with the TM, because if you are living with your parents you have to follow the rules of that house if you can't follow the rules and get married without your immediate family attending the wedding, you should be thrown out of the house, Barkha couldn't stay in the house with Laajo, well that's what she should have done throw them both out, if he is unable to take care of his wife, he would have taken her to the grandfather you convinced him to marry her and it would be grandfather to take care of them.