If you are Ishana what would you do?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well we all know that Ishana's mom doesn't want her 2 keep her relationship with Nikhil & doesn't want her 2 meet him & now Ishana is upset with Nikhil coz he returned with Lajjo.
Would u move on or would u still accept Nikhil considering that people will consider u as the 2nd women in his life (Ishana's mom also mentioned it yesterday),

If I'm Ishana no matter how I love Nikhil & that I know that he married another girl without any choice, 2 save her I would try my best 2 move on coz after all he's married. Whether he or his family accepts it or not, he did marry another girl in front of all the village people, and even if they don't share a husband-wife relationship, she's still his wife & live in his house. I won't like my mother to be upset bcoz I decide 2 be with a guy who's married even though we still love each other & people will say that I'm the 2nd women in his life (but here in the story it's Lajjo who's the 2nd women in Nikhil's life).
Yes it does hurt but if he decides 2 be separated from her maybe i would give him another chance, but I would never do like Ishana. 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Like you said, when she was happy that he has taken her back, he returns back with her, fully intending to stay married to Laajo despite he stringing along Ishan, I would be thinking it is time to move on from Nikhil and leave him.

Initially when she was recalling what he was saying before he went to the village in a flashback that he will marry a girl from the village as they are better etc, but Ishana knew he was just joking as they have known each other very long since childhood, she has faith in Nikhil that he loves her and only her and all their family know this is a fact, it was understood by both Nikhil's side of the family and her mother that they would eventually marry, so if I was Ishana I would ask Nikhil exactly what occurred at the village exactly, and when he told her, I would ask for a family meeting and everyone give their 2 cents, even Laajo to be there at the meeting, then for the elders of the family to accompany Laajo back to her family and the truth be revealed to them in Sornbasa, if Laajo's family are concerned about Laajo being a divorced woman at the village and ostracised and abused by the people there, if Nikhil was going to take her back, then okay for them to arrange for her to go live elsewhere and look for a groom for her and arrange a dowry and have her marry that guy, they are wealthy this is possible for them. She could have stayed with Nikhil's grandfather whilst they look for someone to marry her, she is still untouched etc, not such a big issue, but Nikhil is holding onto his rights to make the decisions regarding this marriage but he is stringing along Ishana, so clearly he is not capable of fixing the issue himself, he is unhappy being married to her but is burdened with her responsibility when he loves Ishana surely the only way forward is for the elders to take charge here and take into consideration all the factors at the village and nikhil, ishana feelings etc...but that's not going to happen, because Lakhil attachment will grow and Ishana will walk away at the end heartbroken for a little while and Kunal will console her and they will marry.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nikhil and Ishana are just 21, and they are talking about love of their life, life is too big. They can remain friends for now and if they are meant to be together it will happen no matter, otherwise they can go to separate paths.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would try to forget him, above all love who unite us. He is married man, and he doesnt want leave his wife.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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noo m lajjo n m olready married to nikhil

lol

so i cant b ishana

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: massu91

noo m lajjo n m olready married to nikhil

lol

so i cant b ishana

Hahaha 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would advise Nikhil to send Laajo to a good college so she can stay there and study well to become a doctor as its what Laajo wants .. In that everyone will be happy..Nikhils family wont have to bear her.. Laajo's family would think shes at her sasural.. And Laajo would also be happy studying at a good college.. And then i would pair up with Nikhil
Once laajo's studies are done..would get her married to a good man
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will leave from Lakhil's life and will move on...with thoughts that

Nikhil is married now and he shud be with his wife.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would leave...even though I luv him soo much...in the eyes of the people I will be the other women...so i would advise nikhil to stay with his wife even if he doesnt love her...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hana89

I would leave...even though I luv him soo much...in the eyes of the people I will be the other women...so i would advise nikhil to stay with his wife even if he doesnt love her...


Agree, I'll also do the same!

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