Originally posted by: shwetha85
The same way I also feel yaar when I used to write and analyze the episode,character analysis and very few people answered or commented on my post so I left writing and nobody bothered to ask me why am I not writing!!!!!
You are so right Shwetha🤗, it takes a lot of hard work, time and mental exercise to create good threads, discussion topics, analyses and games. And when we do any of the above and post, we wait eagerly for people to read, like and comment.😊 In a way, feedback and comments is the only reward for all the hard work.
At the same time, we also know that this is a voluntary, public forum where people gather from all over the world, with different backgrounds, free time, family life and work committments. So unless, members are real friends who stay in touch even off the forum (i.e. through pm's etc), it is kind of hard to keep track. Plus, there is always the danger of thinking that we are being too intrusive or pressurising someone to do something that they perhaps don't have time or inclination to do. So when someone doesn't post for some time, the logical assumption becomes that they are busy in real life, or have lost interest in the show.
So please, I am sorry that you feel you were not sufficiently appreciated and please forgive me. I may be mistaken here, but I seem to recall that you had mentioned u were going visiting family in Texas? I, for one, thought that u were busy there..........though I did miss you😳
Hope this explains things a little better and you will be active once more. We are all on this forum because we are united in our love for the show, let's be together in other ways too.😃
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