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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi me back,. wonderful topic dreamy.. and ur sidda vista all have written everything

i wud just come to this point
unconditional love

if i take literal meaning uncondtional means without any condition

if love has conditions set to it then how wud it survive

in daily life a person wud say i love u thousand times but has conditons attached. u get me this then i say i love u
u do this then i love u.. its more like a deal or compromise not a real love or true love or as u say uncondtional love..

i again say the meaning of true love has been shown here in a fictional love story..

i always wondered what exactly is true love how do u define it

so this is it

the love arpita has for avdesh is selfless love from heart soul mind and body.. she is not expecting anything in return. she loves him regardless of anythng. yes she said she wont support a criminal but as sidda or vista said the love is stil there its not gone. she wants her love safe and on right path.. and more is shown that she is suffering on verge of dying but till her last breath she wud take avdesh name.. if her dying wud reform avdesh then she knows she has done her bit.


avdesh has yet to fully understand that love and he is responding now whereas before he wud shout and ignore her bt deep inside he knows that arpita is the only one who he has feelings for and this is the first time he has felt that love. all the time with guns he never knew there r roses too

gosh dont know from wher i got this reference

it meant abt love and hatred two differnt aspects of life

unconditonal love is what these two have and as arpita said yday and was repeated here

even god cant stop them meeting each other



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lovely post Dreamy, agree with chatter di, if love has all sorts of conditions then it will not be true love at all. Arpi no matter what has stood by Avi in his times of need. She loves him from the bottom of her heart and does not want anything in return except somewhere in her heart she wants to see Avi lead a normal live and not that of a gangster.

Whereas Avi is still discovering the meaning of love. No doubt he loves Arpi a lot but has other responsibilities too to take care off. Dont know if true love does exist in the real world?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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😛Hey Dreamy,

U r really sweetheart n determine.

Thanks for the awesome DOTW.

"Unconditional Love"

"True love begins when nothing is looked for in return."

More Antoine de Saint

The love story of Avita faces very unusual circumstances. There are less people around them who favours them, which very common for any love story. But the unusual thing about this love story is the unconditional love Avita posses for each other. Lets see one by one how Avita regard their love.

Avdesh Singh Thakur:

"Love is unconditional. . . Relationships are not."

Grant Gudmundson.

This line suits to Avi as he was the man who never thought of falling in love. The time he encounter magical eyes of Arpita soon his heart started filled with very strange feeling which he can't understand was LOVE. He was ignorant of its vigour inside him till he came to know about arpita getting married to someone else.

As soon as he get an idea of same feeling the girls have for him n need his help, he jumped in and take her Lady love, fighting with all odds around them. They tie knot of "satt janam" to live their life filled love, care n regard, but here comes the reality of Avi's life , which he was leading till date can be called as Revenge Ride. He has to fulfil certain conditions of his relation with his father, brother n more importantly BJ whom he treat as mother. The vow of taking revenge of his father and brother brutal murder by Lal Singh the so called enemy of his family. The swear which left his love all alone n furious. The guilt of not keeping his promise to arpita and can't reciprocate her love makes him more frustrated. But the one he love is not an ordinary girl, she give her life, love, morality for his existence n love.

Therefore I think Avi love is not 100% unconditional coz he is man who's actions are situation driven but yes he can make heaven and earth one for one he loves.

Arpita Singh Thakur:

"Love expects no reward. Love knows no fear. Love Divine gives - does not demand. Love thinks no evil; imputes no motive. To Love is to share and serve."

Swami Sivananda

She is the girl who loves Avdesh before meeting him n strength of her love was soo strong that without knowing his feeling for her she asked him to rescue her saying that" agar hum apke nahin huye too aur kisi ke nahin honge". This line shake Avi to the core of his heart that whom he was thinking ditched him is soo much in love with him n trust him completely. She went with him like as boat flows in river stream. As she enter in his life she face the reality of her love, that life she thought of with Avi is not at all bed of roses but rockey, hard, n such though that can tremble her determination, love n trust for Avi. Although, Arpita's love went through all hardship came out as real winner coz whatever happened around her, who so ever against her she never let het her trust, love, respect for Avi.

So, in my view its Arpita love who creates such aura that Avi bound to come back from his revenge saga n start taking responsibility of lover, a husband.😳

"There is a special bond between twin soul mates--unconditional love, respect for each other, bringing out the best in each other, and highly compatible.

Mettrie L.

Sorry 4 making it so long


Komal

Edited by komalSingh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey komal nicely defined what u said here..


if u see none of them have set any conditon to each other.. even when arpita wants avdesh to come on right path she hasnt said if u dont do this i wont love u..

she only says i love u but icant see you in trouble..

meanings change here

and if u see simple's love here for jagat which as of now we dont know but for sake of talking if simple loves jagat she is setting conditions to him

is that unconditional love. its more of compromise love a deal isnt it

for avdesh it has always been taught guns revenge violence but deep inside is a heart which wants love and to be loved..
the jungle scenes were example of it that he loved the feeling of being taken care of and affection


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes ur right CB, even I m also saying that Arpita love is unconditional from the beginning n that leads to changes in Avdesh life and thinking process.( like jungle sequence u hv mentioned)

As of now Simple n Jagat love story only simple is conveying her love but Jagat will certainly take time understand what actually is love all about
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Posted: 14 years ago
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u both are right
as she have look avi as pati now
arpi turn home maker she want take back form path full of danger
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sidda, Nila, CB, Mony, Komal🤗
Girls, please take a bow........for you all are getting a standing ovation from me👏👏👏👏👏👏
Great, great points. Will comment later on each one of you.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Wow!

Everyone, Lovely responses!👏
I can't wait to read them all and do my reply...but in the meantime do continue...

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