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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I agree at bold...as CB di said, she needs to somehow strike a balance between the fear and getting on with things.

I think the fact she burned all her bridges when she came with Avdesh, also plays on her emotions. What will happen to her if he is dead?...certainly no place at maika, and no place at the haveli...she comes from a small town, where people know what she did...life would be really difficult for her. But off course the biggest fear factor is because she wants him safe and sound...

When I said bhootni taking the bullet, I meant here we are expecting Avdesh to be hurt, or that Arpi will get there on time and perhaps take the bullet for him....but the twist could be bhootni gets hurt saving Avdesh...not a mortal wound...but enough for her to tighten the binds of obligation even more on him....

Oh no Dreamy I didn't think of that. 🤢 (the bold part)

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: chista

weak?...as in break apart or become so fearful and not the strong woman Avdesh deserves?

...love makes us vulnerable and pray to fears, even the intangible ones...

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I feel Dreamy, Arpi is really terrified she is trying to come to terms with the fact that this is the life of Avi, but not able to some how see Avi taking the bullet. RV's words keep on ringing in her ears that he can kill Avi and show it as a false encounter. She loves Avi from the bottom of her heart and can do anything for him, fall at anyone's feet and beg for his life and as u said even take the bullet for him as long as he is safe. Guess that will be the turn in Avi's life the path of reformation. If Avi is safe and sound sure BJ will start her drama again and make sure she convey's to Avi that Arpi is not strong enough to share his life with him.

And BJ taking the bullet😆 will be the ultimate twist for all the viewers. We all are waiting for it.

I agree at bold...as CB di said, she needs to somehow strike a balance between the fear and getting on with things.

I think the fact she burned all her bridges when she came with Avdesh, also plays on her emotions. What will happen to her if he is dead?...certainly no place at maika, and no place at the haveli...she comes from a small town, where people know what she did...life would be really difficult for her. But off course the biggest fear factor is because she wants him safe and sound...

When I said bhootni taking the bullet, I meant here we are expecting Avdesh to be hurt, or that Arpi will get there on time and perhaps take the bullet for him....but the twist could be bhootni gets hurt saving Avdesh...not a mortal wound...but enough for her to tighten the binds of obligation even more on him....

Oh no Dreamy I didn't think of that. 🤢 (the bold part)

well I hope it won't come to that but bhootni is always looking for a chance to get closer....to bring Avdesh closer to her ....so she is learning from Arpita and will be on the lookout to show her 'caring' side.....😡😡😡

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: chatterbox
naa at jagat weddign her snake father wud insult her totally

she is not happy any place if u see her condition

she is firm on her love but she is breaking into pieces.

bhootni mayb right in her own way that this is the life and this point she cud use against arpi

and tell avdesh how unsuitable she is for u and all
and as u said avdesh just might send her to her maika for few days but that doesnt seem fit as of now

arpita took huge step and defied her father

and now she is facing huge reality and constant fear

and if reality of live u see
everyone lives in constant fear of things and how they overcome that sets an example

thhis is what mayb we need to see

arpita overcoming her fear and using tact

and she wud need shikha help then

bt where the hell is shikha

MAGIC is d word u spell wid ur writing 👏👏👏👏. i agree dat Bhauji will definitely use her fear n inability 2 be Avi's wife as she can't handle /accept d way they live.Arpi needs 2 come out of it n CV's need 2 get Shikha soon 2 help n support Arpi 2 come out of her fear n be more strong n face Bhauji n reveal her true face.

Avi sending her back 2 her house .....did he not say that she has nothng 2 do wid d house. But ya there mite b a rift but then Avi needs 2 help, support n understand her fears n make her come out of it....just by sayng DONT FEAR , does not make d person's fear go away, u need 2 give a SOLUTION n then stupid Bhauji taunting her is not helping in any way instead adding to her misery, fear. 😡😡😡😡

The way Arpi behaved yesterday , i thought hope she does not lose her mental balance....Bhauji toh will b very very HAPPY 😡😡😡😡

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Posted: 14 years ago

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ok i got busy to ans few msgs here

first of all arpi situation somehow in a bit reminds me of shiv parvati story

or one of their other names

parvati had defied her father and married shivji
and she was sort of boycotted from her parents home

but when her father was having some big yagya he had invited everyone but his own daughter and son in law

parvati wants to attend the yagya and doesnt listen to her husband who says u hv not been invited why go for insult

bt she is adamant and goes

and there she is insulted big time by her father and in end goes in fire and become sati

story of avdesh and arpi is not that really but my point here is that

defying her father and marrying a gunda she did big big step
and u think her father wud stop taunting her or make her feel any better

no way he wud insult her in front of guests and all..

so here arpi has to come to terms with her condition and overcome constant fear and be strong

she is strong bt since coming to haveli bhootni had tormented her day in day out and avdesh or anyone else hasnt really much supported her

she is stil young and since its not reality its just a story we hv to wait and watch what more twists and dram\as wud happen

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Posted: 14 years ago

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hey dreamy sorry to butt in with other thngs

would u design the first post for member of the week thing

we can start it this friday

what say and we get soem gm to make it sticky for the week

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
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deamy,
u r absolutly right,
but arpi dosent realize her situation yet. she wants a calm life & i think she is very realist.she sense danger for avi coz she knows he isnt God & invulnerable but bahuji is very selfish & she live in 14 years ago & thinks she has to fight against enemys of TK khandan forever. i think her courage
& her audacity blinds her eyes. she trust to avi as a god & she thinks he is a superman.

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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: chatterbox

hey dreamy sorry to butt in with other thngs

would u design the first post for member of the week thing

we can start it this friday

what say and we get soem gm to make it sticky for the week

*gulp!*...I did say that, didn't I?😃😆😆...ok, will do one....as much as I can seeing that I'm a complete techophobic...

And I love your above post, I heard that story a few times well....can see the similarity.....you say they won't go to the wedding and I agree but I also think Simple will do her best to ensure they come.....so yeah, maybe Avdesh will be insulted....or Arpi herself...

But more than anything, she is young and she needs to learn, needs someone supportive so once again....Where is shikha?!😡

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hmm as much as we saw of simple as yet i think she cud also be her support as well as shikha

bhootni shud hv got someone like simple to understand the right things

ya and abt the design

see if uget time then u can put up this friday

if not we do next friday and privately decide who to put on hot seat

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Dreamygal301

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MAGIC is d word u spell wid ur writing 👏👏👏👏. i agree dat Bhauji will definitely use her fear n inability 2 be Avi's wife as she can't handle /accept d way they live.Arpi needs 2 come out of it n CV's need 2 get Shikha soon 2 help n support Arpi 2 come out of her fear n be more strong n face Bhauji n reveal her true face.

Avi sending her back 2 her house .....did he not say that she has nothng 2 do wid d house. But ya there mite b a rift but then Avi needs 2 help, support n understand her fears n make her come out of it....just by sayng DONT FEAR , does not make d person's fear go away, u need 2 give a SOLUTION n then stupid Bhauji taunting her is not helping in any way instead adding to her misery, fear. 😡😡😡😡

The way Arpi behaved yesterday , i thought hope she does not lose her mental balance....Bhauji toh will b very very HAPPY 😡😡😡😡

Hi sboy,👏

I agree expecially with the 2nd para....I think Avdesh will realise she is too scared and that will worry him, make him think maybe she will be better of without him or at least away from this place and so on....as to whether he does anything about it, that is still a matter up for debate....he too loves her, he may not be that demonstrative, but I think that would ensure his hesitancy in getting her out of there....no matter how much Bhootni pushes....he has often said she is young, she just needs to learn our ways and etc..

I too worry, that she finds a balance...constant fear isn't good for health...

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