Neil's expessive best: Kesar's final goodbye - Page 7

Originally posted by: Anjalg

Dudettes...to each her own right? Ganga and I are not just bothered by Vasant or the accident because all that stuff is superficial...I have always championed Gulaal but since the janmashtmi episode...nahhh...not liking her. She can see through him at times and when it is convenient she will look right at him. Family comes first, good for you then you should have no problems letting him move on...like Ganga said, she is not a kid...she knows what she feels and she knows she is in love with him and that is where Vasant and the gang come in. Is Kesu's love not enough or powerful enough for her to acknowledge it? Why does she need a push...of any kind at all?? Does he have to be on his death bed for her to realize?

Like I said...to each her own😊

Ofcourse to each their own, Anjal😊

But I'm honestly wondering why so much anger TODAY at why she needs the push...we've known this since a week now...and we know the show is coming to an end...there's very less options anyways...so I personally wonder why we fixate on the WHY of the push at this point...everyone gets their push in different ways...Why did Kesar wait until the very LAST phera to get the 'push' so to speak to not go ahead with his wedding to Talli??

Originally posted by: nureat01

@bold: Very valid point👏...That's what it all basically comes down to.

And like you said, Kesar himself has asked her this many times but she has no answers...this is just the way she is. ...

And honestly to me, the fact that she couldn't go meet Kesar today DOES make him her priority...if he wasn't, she would have easily gone and met him...he is her priority in a sense without either of them realizing it...she just has a different way of showing it.

Reemz: He was her priority as a child so the moment he said : I love you Gulaal...she does not want to give him priority anymore?? Dushy said that to her yet she protected the secret and made him a priority in terms of making him a better person and turning his life around...?? She will love, cherish and respect everyone except Kesar...why is that again?

Originally posted by: Anjalg

Dudettes...to each her own right? Ganga and I are not just bothered by Vasant or the accident because all that stuff is superficial...I have always championed Gulaal but since the janmashtmi episode...nahhh...not liking her. She can see through him at times and when it is convenient she will look right at him. Family comes first, good for you then you should have no problems letting him move on...like Ganga said, she is not a kid...she knows what she feels and she knows she is in love with him and that is where Vasant and the gang come in. Is Kesu's love not enough or powerful enough for her to acknowledge it? Why does she need a push...of any kind at all?? Does he have to be on his death bed for her to realize?

Like I said...to each her own😊

Originally posted by: nureat01

@bold: Very valid point👏...That's what it all basically comes down to.

And like you said, Kesar himself has asked her this many times but she has no answers...this is just the way she is. ...

And honestly to me, the fact that she couldn't go meet Kesar today DOES make him her priority...if he wasn't, she would have easily gone and met him...he is her priority in a sense without either of them realizing it...she just has a different way of showing it.

Originally posted by: nureat01

Ofcourse to each their own, Anjal😊

But I'm honestly wondering why so much anger TODAY at why she needs the push...we've known this since a week now...and we know the show is coming to an end...there's very less options anyways...so I personally wonder why we fixate on the WHY of the push at this point...everyone gets their push in different ways...Why did Kesar wait until the very LAST phera to get the 'push' so to speak to not go ahead with his wedding to Talli??

Nur...I am not angry!! The show ends in a day...Kesu had his push and he got the time (episode wise) to go from the dark side (when he was all pushy and aggressive with Gulaal) to the good side. Just two days back she accepted flowers from him, a day later she would not even ask about him and today she still won't accept it when he is leaving. One episode to make a stubborn woman like Gulaal realize what she feels for Kesar when we have been waiting for a couple of months? I don't like the way she is with Kesar is all...I don't like the fact that the CV's had to put the character through an accident for Gulaal to realize...

Originally posted by: Anjalg

Reemz: He was her priority as a child so the moment he said : I love you Gulaal...she does not want to give him priority anymore?? Dushy said that to her yet she protected the secret and made him a priority in terms of making him a better person and turning his life around...?? She will love, cherish and respect everyone except Kesar...why is that again?

Anjal: Yaar kehne ko toh we can hope and dream for a lot of other things, a lot more fleshing out of this realization but I guess since we aren't getting that, within the time constraints toh kuch aisa hi hona tha...

Again, I'm not taking the previous two epis into consideration...so I'm not going to think about what she did in the pooja etc. scenes...Monday was on track and her reactions today were very much in sync with the way she is.

Kesar went through his turmoil in his own way and Gulaal is going through it in her own way...I guess we have to accept that difference will always be.

Honestly I'm not sure what you didn't like about her emotions towards Kesar today...there was so much pathos, poignancy...I can understand the previous two days put you off but the way she was today was so emotional I felt.

Anjali - if the priority he had for her as a child is what we're discussing - he could have it the moment she was NOT in love with him again. That priority was as a responsibility for Kesar - when he wasn't her equal. Today he is. She has come through stages and stages to finally let him be an equal. If we went back to THAT priority - it would be a shame.

TBH realisations toh end mein hi hote hai which is why you wait for that high-point where it finally clicks in heroine's mind that she is in love with the hero. But of course this show is zara hatke because Gulaal very much knows that she is in love with Kesar but keeping in sync with her character, they have yet to remove that final mental block and peel that final layer.

^^ talk to me - I think I should call it night and not even try typing anymore on the phone of all things!