I really do not feel for the Gulaal. If Kesar is obsessed so she is too.
She had choice to leave the house yet she chose to do deyaarvattu with Kesar out of her choice and now she does not have guts to respect her own decision. She was warned by motabha once that things may turned out as you planned in future but she shrug off this warning. She has not realised her mistake yet.
Why poor Keshar only should suffer if he has done anything wrong? Yes he did hurt Talli but it was not too late. He realised soon that if he get married to her, she will get more hurt by it. He has been sensible.
Gulaal on the other hand, has succumb to her pride and obssessed love for Vasant that she can not feel for Kesar tears once she used to cared for so much. Where is that bond she used to feel for Kesar?
She is being too selfish for her selfish motives and not seeing others' pain.
How can she claim that she is fulfilling her late husbands' dream and leaving Kesar in such desperate situation. She should have convince Kesar in whole lot different manner and matured way but her pride did not let her and left house with maharani attitude. If Kesar is acting desperately then she is sole cause for it.
Why does she feel for talli is bit surprising? how seeing Talli happy fits into her late husbands' dream ? Her priority has changed and she has changed to biased woman and she needs a strong lesson and only Kesar can provide it.
I hope that she realise her mistake soon. She can not play with other lives for her own selfish motives.