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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I don't think she'd go to her maayka either for some reason. She should know how PooBa will react :P

It felt so horrible seeing Kesar beg her to stay like that and then just her walking away. Even though I understand that all this is too much to handle for her, she was really harsh on Kesar. I guess no show can do without drama but I wish she treated him better :(

The way she left, it felt like she won't be back for a good while but I remember all those times when Gulaal expresses that her world was confined with those 4 walls, kind of like how mind & heart have been. Maybe getting out will bring some freshness to her thinking. I don't want KG to be apart for too long, they need more scenes together in order for their relationship to grow.

Can Talli disappear!

Kesar at this point begging and whatever would not have made a impact even though we need see some emotions on her face before she turned around - she was harsh, but then i think what really could of Gulaal done esp what just happened before
She does need time to think and away about all the things that bind her and that house, and think about what does she want - forget the house and Kesar at the moment, what does she want, where does she really see herself - some thinking and being away will be good for her, however much she hurts and Kesar hurts as well
For their relationship to grow, they need a starting point as i said before but i dont know now where from
I dont know if its me but i didnt like Kesar telling the whole family he loves her only coz i didnt want them to know just yet lol
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01



She's not saying that she wants to leave the house to make everything normal...even Kesar told her that...that her leaving won't change anything...it won't change his feelings, his soch for her...

But she has no rational explanation...all she keeps repeating is that she has to leave, she has to leave...the whole "main Kesar ko pati nahin maanti" is just a token excuse...she knows that nothing will change with her leaving...but she feels too guilty right now so she feels she has to leave the house.

Thanks for explaining 😊
Guilt is what she feels, everything that has happened in the last few days has taken its toll and Kesar's love confession was to much to bear and we saw that, she cant handle that bit
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

By the way, what about the panchayat's decision?? How come no one brought that up at all??😕...I thought maybe Dushyant would mention it...but Gulaal leaving like this...doesn't it mean that Motabha and family will be banished from the biraadari as well now?😕

Yeah i was wondering that - but who knows, but i think at the meeting Gulaal accepted it, and didnt say anything after what D said about them all leaving if she refuses, so in that terms everyone in the village thinks they are carrying on their marriage in a way Confused - i am wondering if that will be brought up and so on soon, and maybe that could be something that will bring Gulaal back at home, i am sure she doesnt want to see MB and everyone thrown out
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Posted: 14 years ago
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its hard for gulaal to belive, & specialy with the age gap.. she surly think its wrong

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prernacda

reality check...

i dont think she ever thought of him as husband or too much in love with ghost of vasant...
reason she is walking is that she cannot admit that somewhere in the process she did fall in love or he fell in love with her...
she had no right to make that decision years ago without understanding all the potential ramifications down the road,...but she knew it all...and now she feels that things have gone out of her hand, and unlike the great puppetmaster, she has lost control of the reins and strings to the puppets...so she is leaving for new beginnings and to reanalyze her feelings...or try to put someone elses life in order...or maybe she will run into vasant who is suffering from amnesia...after all other serials seem to be suffering from it at different times too ;) and kesar needs to grow up and realize that he is not the center of the universe and he needs to move out of his comfort zone and get in her orbit, if he wants the 2 to connect...

I agree with you here somewhat
Kesar i feel in a way does need to grow up (esp after todays episode, and i dont mean in a harsh way, in a good way) in the sense of trying to want to connect to her... - him begging like today and so on, is not gonna get him anywhere as such
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

We wont be able to see any good scenes of kes-gul. CVS KYNNN!!! we waited for the confessing for soo long!! and now this separation...😭 i hope something good happens by the end of this week. Without gul-kes together, this serial will be so boring!!!! but i would still see if gulaal really feels guilty on how she has behaved with kesar!!! plz some miracle must happen!🥺

Why does she need to feel guilty on how she behaved with Kesar, both got their own pov's and are somewhat right - does Kesar want her to feel guilty for him - No
Kesar i feel knows somewhat why Gulaal is leaving and like he tells - nothing will change, esp his feelings and so on
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post Lennie 👏

Ok, I am all for the Kes Gul relationship to move forward and I cannot wait for Gulaal to fall in love with Kes...having said that...

Sometimes when you don't want something...you just don't want it!! I don't know if this statement will make any sense but that is how I saw Gulaal react. A really nice guy fell in love with a friend of mine and all of us wanted them to get together BUT she had never seen him as a potential partner. So, the harder he tried to woe her...the more rude she was with him. It was sad to watch and when we confronted her about it and tried to make her see what a wonderful person he was...she just was not interested...end of discussion! It was so pitiful to watch them...everytime we would meet up and he would be in the same room..she would do everything to avoid him! He left for the US to go to college and believe it or not...that is when she started missing him. E-mails turned to text messages turned to phone calls...turned to a deep deep friendship which turned to love.

I know we don't understand Gulaal's reaction and we are feeling horrible for Kesar but at the moment his love is something she just does not want to deal with...hence the cold attitude. I can truly imagine her embarrassment when he professed his love for her in front of the elders. His love is somethings she just cannot get her head around and at the moment it probably is her worst nightmare come true. This is a very unconventional story and obviously I am not expecting Kes and Gul love story to begin anytime soon. It has in the making and it will happen but if it happens right now...this show will turn into a regular soap...

Something big has to happen for Gulaal to come to terms with the fact that she could possibly be in love with Kesar...even today when he was begging her to stay...it reminded of the young boy who clung to her to prevent her from leaving...I don't know where she is going to go because her mother is not going to let her stay at her maayka for too long...so this will be the time for Kesar and Gulaal to come into their own.

I cannot believe how selfish Talli and Sudha are. Even today, Talli's concern was that if Gulaal left, Kesar would not become hers...I got son angry when I heard that. Talli does not care about where Gulaal is going or what she is going through or what exactly she is going to do after leaving the house that she has dedicated her whole life to...instead...she tells Gulaal to go and she won't stop her. I used to find her annoying but now I think she has ALL the potential to become negative! The pre-cap was just so annoying. It almost seemed like she is trying to make Kesar feel guilty about the fact that he broke Gulaal's heart by not marrying Talli!! That scene made me a bit nervous because we know that Kesar will do anything to bring Gulaal back...so will he agree to marry Talli and free Gulaal of the deeyarvattu yo bring Gulaal back?? Gosh I hope not...that wedding week was tense enough and I so don't want to deal with any of that now...

Only other way I see Gulaal coming back is if Kesar falls sick, gets into the wrong company again or just starts destroying himself...She has to come back or else the story does not move forward...will be interesting to find out how...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ nureat01: i was also thinking along the same lines, wouldn't leaving the house will automatically result in the banishing of the family from the biraadari?

and i just hope that may be this separation will brought some sense into Kesar's mind, and he will show maturity in the future
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjalg

Nice post Lennie 👏

Ok, I am all for the Kes Gul relationship to move forward and I cannot wait for Gulaal to fall in love with Kes...having said that... I think we all are 😉😆

Sometimes when you don't want something...you just don't want it!! I don't know if this statement will make any sense but that is how I saw Gulaal react. A really nice guy fell in love with a friend of mine and all of us wanted them to get together BUT she had never seen him as a potential partner. So, the harder he tried to woe her...the more rude she was with him. It was sad to watch and when we confronted her about it and tried to make her see what a wonderful person he was...she just was not interested...end of discussion! It was so pitiful to watch them...everytime we would meet up and he would be in the same room..she would do everything to avoid him! He left for the US to go to college and believe it or not...that is when she started missing him. E-mails turned to text messages turned to phone calls...turned to a deep deep friendship which turned to love. Hit the nail on the head here, isnt this a real life situation, when you dont want it, you just dont want it, despite what anybody else says and its until you start seeing it yourself then no can do anything, i am glad your friend found her love, that in a way she took her time, and then valued it at that time and kept up the long distance thing and today she can say it was worth it i guess 😊

I have said about Gulaal, you cant pressure her into something she dont want, and also feel - Gulaal reaction right now is cold and thats the only way i see her dealing with Kesar and also dealing herself when with Kesar, coz she cant bear it

I know we don't understand Gulaal's reaction and we are feeling horrible for Kesar but at the moment his love is something she just does not want to deal with...hence the cold attitude. I can truly imagine her embarrassment when he professed his love for her in front of the elders. His love is somethings she just cannot get her head around and at the moment it probably is her worst nightmare come true. This is a very unconventional story and obviously I am not expecting Kes and Gul love story to begin anytime soon. It has in the making and it will happen but if it happens right now...this show will turn into a regular soap...
I also got her embarrasement as well and that in front of all of them, after everything - she had to deal with that, and couldnt even look at Motabha (you know MB told her back then that Kesar might get attached to her later on and so on, some of what MB said to her today is coming true) and after what just happened, its no wonder she doesnt want to talk to Kesar or see his face and no matter how much begging he does, she does feel some emotions she isnt gonna back down
Kes-Gul love story is too soon at the moment, coz lot has happened in the last few days - and Gulaal is feelings the brunt of everything in one go...

Something big has to happen for Gulaal to come to terms with the fact that she could possibly be in love with Kesar...even today when he was begging her to stay...it reminded of the young boy who clung to her to prevent her from leaving...I don't know where she is going to go because her mother is not going to let her stay at her maayka for too long...so this will be the time for Kesar and Gulaal to come into their own. Yes, even i thought of the little Kesar begging her not to leave, which i didnt want to think of the little Kesar thats why i said Kesar needs to change abit in that sense, coz today i got flashes of little Kesar in front of me lol
I do agree that something big needs to happened to give a jolt for Gulaal concerning Kesar and Kesar's love and her feelings i guess

I cannot believe how selfish Talli and Sudha are. Even today, Talli's concern was that if Gulaal left, Kesar would not become hers...I got son angry when I heard that. Talli does not care about where Gulaal is going or what she is going through or what exactly she is going to do after leaving the house that she has dedicated her whole life to...instead...she tells Gulaal to go and she won't stop her. I used to find her annoying but now I think she has ALL the potential to become negative! The pre-cap was just so annoying. It almost seemed like she is trying to make Kesar feel guilty about the fact that he broke Gulaal's heart by not marrying Talli!! That scene made me a bit nervous because we know that Kesar will do anything to bring Gulaal back...so will he agree to marry Talli and free Gulaal of the deeyarvattu yo bring Gulaal back?? Gosh I hope not...that wedding week was tense enough and I so don't want to deal with any of that now...
The thing i dont like about Talli from ages ago is how up and down she is in what she says, one minute she says something positive in a way that makes some sense and then she goes and says something silly lol
I hope Kesar doesnt destroy himself wholeheartedly - it would be nice to see him change and try to get Gulaal back in a mature, patient way and like a man


Only other way I see Gulaal coming back is if Kesar falls sick, gets into the wrong company again or just starts destroying himself...She has to come back or else the story does not move forward...will be interesting to find out how...
All i can say is Gulaal has to come back, i dont see how being away that long from the house - and also i do think at this time, she needs time on her own

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: FIRESafiReFIRE

its hard for gulaal to belive, & specialy with the age gap.. she surly think its wrong

At the moment its hard for Gulaal to even digest what he has said to her and keeps saying, that he loves her, it actually pains her to hear it and you saw that pain when she closed her eyes when he told everyone

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