Originally posted by: Anjalg
Nice post Lennie 👏
Ok, I am all for the Kes Gul relationship to move forward and I cannot wait for Gulaal to fall in love with Kes...having said that... I think we all are 😉😆
Sometimes when you don't want something...you just don't want it!! I don't know if this statement will make any sense but that is how I saw Gulaal react. A really nice guy fell in love with a friend of mine and all of us wanted them to get together BUT she had never seen him as a potential partner. So, the harder he tried to woe her...the more rude she was with him. It was sad to watch and when we confronted her about it and tried to make her see what a wonderful person he was...she just was not interested...end of discussion! It was so pitiful to watch them...everytime we would meet up and he would be in the same room..she would do everything to avoid him! He left for the US to go to college and believe it or not...that is when she started missing him. E-mails turned to text messages turned to phone calls...turned to a deep deep friendship which turned to love. Hit the nail on the head here, isnt this a real life situation, when you dont want it, you just dont want it, despite what anybody else says and its until you start seeing it yourself then no can do anything, i am glad your friend found her love, that in a way she took her time, and then valued it at that time and kept up the long distance thing and today she can say it was worth it i guess 😊
I have said about Gulaal, you cant pressure her into something she dont want, and also feel - Gulaal reaction right now is cold and thats the only way i see her dealing with Kesar and also dealing herself when with Kesar, coz she cant bear it
I know we don't understand Gulaal's reaction and we are feeling horrible for Kesar but at the moment his love is something she just does not want to deal with...hence the cold attitude. I can truly imagine her embarrassment when he professed his love for her in front of the elders. His love is somethings she just cannot get her head around and at the moment it probably is her worst nightmare come true. This is a very unconventional story and obviously I am not expecting Kes and Gul love story to begin anytime soon. It has in the making and it will happen but if it happens right now...this show will turn into a regular soap... I also got her embarrasement as well and that in front of all of them, after everything - she had to deal with that, and couldnt even look at Motabha (you know MB told her back then that Kesar might get attached to her later on and so on, some of what MB said to her today is coming true) and after what just happened, its no wonder she doesnt want to talk to Kesar or see his face and no matter how much begging he does, she does feel some emotions she isnt gonna back down
Kes-Gul love story is too soon at the moment, coz lot has happened in the last few days - and Gulaal is feelings the brunt of everything in one go...
Something big has to happen for Gulaal to come to terms with the fact that she could possibly be in love with Kesar...even today when he was begging her to stay...it reminded of the young boy who clung to her to prevent her from leaving...I don't know where she is going to go because her mother is not going to let her stay at her maayka for too long...so this will be the time for Kesar and Gulaal to come into their own. Yes, even i thought of the little Kesar begging her not to leave, which i didnt want to think of the little Kesar thats why i said Kesar needs to change abit in that sense, coz today i got flashes of little Kesar in front of me lol
I do agree that something big needs to happened to give a jolt for Gulaal concerning Kesar and Kesar's love and her feelings i guess
I cannot believe how selfish Talli and Sudha are. Even today, Talli's concern was that if Gulaal left, Kesar would not become hers...I got son angry when I heard that. Talli does not care about where Gulaal is going or what she is going through or what exactly she is going to do after leaving the house that she has dedicated her whole life to...instead...she tells Gulaal to go and she won't stop her. I used to find her annoying but now I think she has ALL the potential to become negative! The pre-cap was just so annoying. It almost seemed like she is trying to make Kesar feel guilty about the fact that he broke Gulaal's heart by not marrying Talli!! That scene made me a bit nervous because we know that Kesar will do anything to bring Gulaal back...so will he agree to marry Talli and free Gulaal of the deeyarvattu yo bring Gulaal back?? Gosh I hope not...that wedding week was tense enough and I so don't want to deal with any of that now...
The thing i dont like about Talli from ages ago is how up and down she is in what she says, one minute she says something positive in a way that makes some sense and then she goes and says something silly lol
I hope Kesar doesnt destroy himself wholeheartedly - it would be nice to see him change and try to get Gulaal back in a mature, patient way and like a man
Only other way I see Gulaal coming back is if Kesar falls sick, gets into the wrong company again or just starts destroying himself...She has to come back or else the story does not move forward...will be interesting to find out how...
All i can say is Gulaal has to come back, i dont see how being away that long from the house - and also i do think at this time, she needs time on her own