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Its always a struggle to put situations and experiences in those two categories. Reality is living while Fiction is creating, but both need each other to exist. You cannot create without experiences, and you live to experience what you have created.
Im harping on I'm sorry. Its just that reading the article on Keser agreeing to marry Talli made me think about other dramas. I'm new to watching indian soaps, I began watching SNS, CCBM, GULAAL, PRATIGYA, mid stories, and all of them have one think in common.
How they make a mockery of the rituals and traditions of marriage!
Im feeling very old for my 31yrs, dispite a painful past, I still believe in the sanctuary of marriage, I believe that its a bond between two people, fused to be together, who live together, love together, laugh together, to know that each others shoulder is there to cry on, to support, and then gifted by god, to create a child half of them, to be part of them.
When I was a child, reading was my window in to fiction, people come together, a situation is created, followed by misunderstandings, then a solution is found, working together it is resolved. End of story.
With a continuing soap opera the stories must flow, each one as exciting as the other, so to gain viewers, glued to their seats. Situations are raised causing misunderstanding, causing situation, causing misunderstanding. Amidst that you get small moments of happiness and a feeling of hope that it will come right in the end. YEAH RIGHT!
I can see I harping on again so I'l get to my point of irritation, I am sick of marriage being potrayed as a means to revenge, the distructon of a person or famliy. Is it really sooo acceptable for people to believe that marrying someone, either being forced to, or forcing others, is easy. To bind yourself, or others to you, physically, emotionally, socially in every waking moment!!
deyvervutu, if ive spelled it right, had not heard of it, but from what ive read is a noble and honouring tradition. Giving a place to a women when all else is lost. Given gulaals situation I could understand her reasons for marrying kesar, but it was a marriage!!! not an adoption.
Age does not matter when there is a strong bond between two people, how truely lucky are people who have that. Kesar sure felt something but it turned to love when he spent more time in gulaals company, before that it was... I have no words to descride it.
oh but lets ignore that, lets marry them to others!!!
Talli, very one has a desire to be loved, especially when they have your heart. but if after all her suspicions she heres of her impending marriage and goes back in la la land, then she deserves all the pain coming her way, surely she learned somthing by watching her stepmother sudha!! but no lets get married
Im getting sooo angry right now and losing the point im trying to make, might as well post this before I lose my nerve.
Apologies to antone ive offended.
