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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnveshaAT

I read someone had written, whether it is to love or to hate, or to get angry or be close to, its only been GULAAL,GULAAL,GULAAL.

Infatuation will not be cariied forward in the person's absence for 10 long years. In spite of the hate he tried to develop, he has only loved her more. He is willing to live in pain without knowing the truth rather than losing her by knowing a disgusting truth if it was true. Now this is not infatuation. ITS LOVE


Exactly. His anger at Talli or anyone else even is all because of Gulaal.

This guy walks around as if every second without her is aching every heartbeat of his. You just can feel every pang whenever she ignores him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnveshaAT

I read someone had written, whether it is to love or to hate, or to get angry or be close to, its only been GULAAL,GULAAL,GULAAL.

Infatuation will not be cariied forward in the person's absence for 10 long years. In spite of the hate he tried to develop, he has only loved her more. He is willing to live in pain without knowing the truth rather than losing her by knowing a disgusting truth if it was true. Now this is not infatuation. ITS LOVE

Its love, its deep intense love
Like you say 10 yrs in his longing and yearning for her, despite wanting to hate he hasnt managed that, his love has overcome that, its unconditional love, and thats a unbreakable bond that they have, he has for her
His world starts and ends with Gulaal
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think I am convinced with your answers.
But another thing toubling me is even if Gulaal could ever fall for kesar or accepts kesar as her husband whom she once looked after as a kid (agreed not as her kid) whether the morality of the show will be questioned? Will it be justified?
Plz help me friends.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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if people feel dat wife falling in love vth her husband z immoral...den wats moral?
she wnt be having an affair vth hz dead husbands youngr bro
evrything changd da day she married ds young boy
marriage z a big thing nomater watevr circumstances it happens in
rather ppl shud respect her feelings wich she develops fr her' husband'..KESAR in due course of time
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Gulaal marrying a 12 year old was the most controversial twist in the show. Second will be Gulaal falling in love him. The writers of the show intended it to be a story between the two. As far as morality is concerned, thats up to the individual to decide.

If YOU as a viewer understand GK's bond then I think you would appreciate this progression. So it's better to decide for yourself rather than ask us because their relationship is one to be felt not explained.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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he was a kid wen she married him bt nw hez nomore a kid.hez a young man
n 10 years gap wud hav been big den fr he wasnt evn in a position 2 stand fr hz wife rather needed hz wife 2 stand fr him bt nw
he can very well protect n defend hz wife n giv hr support wherevr she needs
evn if kesar hadnt been in love vth gulaal den n hd married i wud hav still supported der bond nw
ppl need to respect bonds lik marriage...its a big thing
??is deyarvatu da real marriage
i dnt knw about ds thing neva hrd before
can anybdy clarify
Edited by mystikal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Morality lies in one's heart.

Gulaal performs the rituals of a married lady in whose name? Dead Vasant or the Living Kesar. The Tulsi puja is for husband's long life. Who's name is she taking then. She is not shown as atheist. The anklet twinkling is unheard of. Its a belief that they are showing. So I dont think they would make a mockery of marriage and its rituals through this show.
Edited by MeySimi - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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See the question of morality should not be addressed coz it is different for different individuals...just for a simple example same gotra marriages are banned in some communities as they are considered bro-sis but now with changing times nobody cares...Its for the individual to decide...If two mature ppl are in love and want to stay together there is nothing wrong in it...In case of Gul -KES ...its a unique bond...cannot be explained nor measured or tested according to any norms in the society...yes it is difficult for gulaal to accept him as for her he is still that little kid...but TRue love can even melt the toughest hearts...I hope Gulaal does not end abruptly...and want to actually see how they handle gulaal's emotions😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree. My question was can it be agreed by the society. Like marriage btw cousins are agreed in some religious communities but in some other it is not accepted but still not forbidden. But marriage between a brother - sister is against all morals and it is not justifiable.
But I wanted to know that whether there is any forbidden element in this case.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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See Alanta if you talk in the terms of society ..then kes gul alliance has nothing wrong as they are officially married through deeyarvattu and the society still wants them to perform rituals together as husband and wif...so society feels happy if they stay together

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