Was Gulaal Right?! =\

Originally posted by: maybe-just

Loving: Gulaal's Mum and Jamna Kaki 👍🏼

Hating: Gulaal, Sudha, Talli etc etc! 👎🏼

Just my thought and everyone probably knows why I'm hating on Gulaal and the rest! 😆

To the topic: I was just thinking that Gulaal made a decision about Kesar and Talli ( I don't know when since I only started watching this drama when kesar entered) however she did make her mind up about getting them both married.

But I have a big problem, if Gulaal was going to do this then why exactly did she go through with the Deyarvattu? I mean did she not think of the consequences that getting married to Kesar would have? (yes I know about the whole saving the family from harm thing but really? Gulaal couldn't find another way?)

To the point, Gulaal hasn't really thought about Kesar's feelings in all this, only Talli's feeling have been counted without even a thought about what Kesar might want or feels? Let's face it he was away for studying, she didn't even think that he'd like anyone there whilst he was away studying (not mentioning Gulaal since this bachi is a bit blind at the moment 😆 dear god she doesn't see the way Kesar looks at her 😳 They haven't even asked Kesar, nor does Kesar know about what's brewing and Gulaal just assumed things (worst mistake ever 😳)

So do you all think that was Gulaal right in her decision to think that Kesar-Talli should be married? And to give hope to Talli as well as Sudha?

Now please do try and think about this from various POV's instead of just an audience, look from the perspectives of Gulaal, Kesar, Talli etc etc! I'd love to know what you all think!

😉

Hi

Nopes she was not right back then and and she is not right now... No amount of glossing or theories can change that. Forget Kesar and Talli, she is not right even when it comes to Kesar's parents and her own parents...a marriage and family relations is serious matter...not a chessboard where you decide moves thinking from your perspective only...

Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Hi

Nopes she was not right back then and and she is not right now... No amount of glossing or theories can change that. Forget Kesar and Talli, she is not right even when it comes to Kesar's parents and her own parents...a marriage and family relations is serious matter...not a chessboard where you decide moves thinking from your perspective only...

so lets treat it as a tv story and move on ...😳

That is my view which I expressed a few times...athough expressing that view here attracts the comment that one is single minded, without realising that the alternative theories are also single minded😆😆😆...

So now I do what is best and sensible...I watch the serial, enjoy the acting and the chemistry between various sets of actors👏👏, I love the cinematography and screenplay😳, ...

I treat it as a TV serial, come to the forum here and have some light minded chatter with a few friends😃...and move on to my life😊

Originally posted by: Charu_Usha

May be she was not right then, but then were others around her right!! Is it right to give a widow just two choices: get out of her husband''s house or marry your dewar you basically killed your husband. In a society where you are allowed to live your life the way you want it, you may consider her decision wrong, but in a society where decisions are forced upon you, I am not sure if you can really take a rational decision. She just took the decision that seemed the best to her at the time, considering the whole situation and the way everyone was forcing her to marry Dushyant. Since no one was behaving in the "right way" of the modern world, we can't really call her decision wrong either.

Originally posted by: Kasturilover

So now I do what is best and sensible...I watch the serial, enjoy the acting and the chemistry between various sets of actors👏👏, I love the cinematography and screenplay😳, ...

I treat it as a TV serial, come to the forum here and have some light minded chatter with a few friends😃...and move on to my life😊

Originally posted by: maybe-just

Loving: Gulaal's Mum and Jamna Kaki 👍🏼

Hating: Gulaal, Sudha, Talli etc etc! 👎🏼

Just my thought and everyone probably knows why I'm hating on Gulaal and the rest! 😆

To the topic: I was just thinking that Gulaal made a decision about Kesar and Talli ( I don't know when since I only started watching this drama when kesar entered) however she did make her mind up about getting them both married.

But I have a big problem, if Gulaal was going to do this then why exactly did she go through with the Deyarvattu? I mean did she not think of the consequences that getting married to Kesar would have? (yes I know about the whole saving the family from harm thing but really? Gulaal couldn't find another way?)

To the point, Gulaal hasn't really thought about Kesar's feelings in all this, only Talli's feeling have been counted without even a thought about what Kesar might want or feels? Let's face it he was away for studying, she didn't even think that he'd like anyone there whilst he was away studying (not mentioning Gulaal since this bachi is a bit blind at the moment 😆 dear god she doesn't see the way Kesar looks at her 😳 They haven't even asked Kesar, nor does Kesar know about what's brewing and Gulaal just assumed things (worst mistake ever 😳)

So do you all think that was Gulaal right in her decision to think that Kesar-Talli should be married? And to give hope to Talli as well as Sudha?

Now please do try and think about this from various POV's instead of just an audience, look from the perspectives of Gulaal, Kesar, Talli etc etc! I'd love to know what you all think!

😉