A Shakesperean end - Page 2

Originally posted by: rightnow

There is nothing wrong if bhabhi and devar fall in love and marry when they do it at a certain common age, some years more or less, but belonging to the same age group. In this case, Kesar was shown as a child in the beginning when gulal entered with Vasant. And at that time, she must have nurtured motherly or sisterly feelings towards Kesar. Like the film Lamhe where a child of Sridevi starts loving Anil Kapoor. Which was rejected at the box office.

You must be referring to Astitva Ek Prem Kahani which is one of my most favourite serials. Simran suffered when an younger woman entered the husband's life and simran's life went haywire.

Gulal at such an young age showed so much maturity and responsibility. But now she is at cross roads. It is not simply loving an younger man which by itself is not disputable. Our Sachin Tendulkar himself is a shining example. And Nargis sunil dutt, Ash and Abhi all of them are celebrities and make it easy for many to take decisions.

Gulal must first gather courage to express her feelings. For that first her burden of Talli's feelings must be taken care of by Talli herself. When everything is settled, What will happen if Vasant returns at the wrong time How Motaba will take all these things??

Originally posted by: rightnow

I respect your viewpoint.

At that time, Gulaal did not marry Dushyant because she did not want marriage in the real sense that is sexual Marrying a full man like Dushyant means accepting Dushyant as sexual partner.

Many women when they enter their in laws house, have young devars who will eventually grow up into young men. But Bhabhis still consider devars as sons. that is why that term Bhabhima has come into existence. In YRKKH, we have Varsha and her young devar. Can Varsha ever think of marrying him at any point of time? There are scores of such situations.

Gulal is shown to be very particular about her promises. And she always promised Talli that Kesar would marry her.

I also believe that once a woman loves so deeply a person like Vasant, she just cant think of another person taking his place though Vasant might have died. One can live with memories.

Dushyant also loved her from the beginning and went to the extent of killing Vasant.

Love and feelings are good as long as they also ensure some sort of responsibility.