vasant or kesar ??? - Page 2

I would love a vasant/gulaal jodi again! Complete dream come true for me in regards to the show! But if this does happen I hope the writers don't lose track of the kesar/gulaal bond.
We make many relations and bonds in life, some we are born with i.e. family, others we make ourselves i.e. friends, and those that we gain though love and marriage i.e. our partners and their families.
Gulaal and kesar bond began through their mutual love and respect for vasant, and grew through their grief of his loss in their lives. I've said before that they mirror each other in so many ways. For me the coin kesar keeps tossing about is symbolic. IMO it represents kesar and gulaal they are two sides of the same coin, they are more than just friends they are soulmates.
No one else understands kesar as well as gulaal does, and vice versa. Cvs shouldn't mess up their bond in their attempts (if any) to bring vasant back.
Actually bizarre I know, but you know what kesar and gulaal's bond reminds me off? ET and Elliot from the film Et! Yeah I know it's a sci-fi film, but seriously for those of you who have watched watch it, try and remember the symbolism in it. Et and Elliot mirror each other throughout the whole film because they are bonded. Elliot knows when et is pain; et sacrifices his life for Elliot, and on and on...
And taking what the director of Et said in regards to film and applying it to gulaal, It sums up to
'if gulaal is the heart of the show, then kesar is surely the soul of the show'
(I'm going to stop talking about et now before I get laughed off the forum!)
Anyway in conclusion I want vasant back because I like to believe that miracles do happen and that god rewards those who are good. And as gulaal is a miracle-worker herself as she finds water with her payals, and a good person at heart, she deserves to have her own personal miracle. This is to have her beloved vasant return to her, along with all the colors and joy in her life. And I'm sure that kesar will be the one to bring vasant back.

Originally posted by: peacefulblossom

@ JC

If Vasant dream was a happy family then they have to show a family bonded family at the end. Lets see how the story shapes up.

@JC
Firstly, can I just sat thank you for understanding my POV, before, I thought people might think I had a screw loose the way I was rambling on about ET! (Btw I watched that film again with my nephew last night, and cried buckets at the end when Elliot is like 'stay et' and ET said 'come'. Too sad :(
Secondly love your predictions, I hope that happens, all the characters (expect maybe jamuna kaki) deserve to have such a happy ending.
But seriously I have to admit to struggling, a bit on this forum as no one seems to understand and/or like my POV's in regard to the kesar/gulaal relationship.
I have nothing against their relationship being the focal point of the show; I just don't understand why it has to be geared towards developing into a romantic one. Are all good lead TV/Film relationships romantic?

I mean look at the nom.1 watched show across the globe 'House', the main highlight, most critics agree is the central character (Dr House) friendship with his best friend Dr. Wilson. People like his on/off romantic relationship with Dr.Cuddy, but its House's scenes with Wilson that makes up the core of the show. As it's there that you see House bare his soul, to the one person he trusts most, his truest and dearest friend, Wilson.
Look at Chandler and Joey from 'Friends' too. We all rooted for a Monika/Chandler to get together, but we loved Chandler and Joey's 'bromance' scenes more.

Again, I'm probably giving everyone incentive, to get me a one-way ticket to the Looney bin, but what about the Toy Story trilogy? At first glance you think it's all about woody and buzz. Only in the final scenes of Toy story 3 do you realize that it's really all about woody and Andy. Woody's unflinching loyalty to his 'pal' Andy is what makes the films what they are.
Think of Vasant as Andy, Gulaal as Woody and Buzz as Kesar.
Woody and Buzz would do anything for Andy, and as a result of their love for him they become closer, and soon develop a close friendship of their own. We all know what perils and mischief's they go through. But their main goal was always to keep Andy happy, at the end Woody stayed with Buzz, but you know that if he had the choice he would rather play with Andy any day of the week.

IMO even if gulaal and kesar do develop a romantic Jodi, I honestly believe that the show would still end with gulaal gazing over a lush, thriving and beautiful telesgra, going 'I've fulfilled my promise to you vasant. I made your dreams come true, I've made you happy'.
So for me the show would still be about gulaal and vasant, and all that gulaal had done in the name of her love for vasant.

I really am sorry, if I offend or upset anyone with my views, but I do struggle, knowing how their relationship began, to see the appeal in a romantic kesar/gulaal Jodi.
Like you said JC it would not be consistent to Gulaal's character for a start, for her to fall for kesar. She's said several times 'I was vasants, I am vasants and will remain vasants'. So how can she maintain this stance whilst falling for kesar?
Or if she somehow does manage to do both, is it really fair to kesar, to be with a woman who can't give him her full heart? Doesn't he deserve better?
I've already said that kesar is gulaal's soulmate but vasant is her one true love. So I can't see why we can't have a non-romantic kesar and gulaal. Can't we make their bond the highlight of the show in non-romantic sense. Are we so regressive in our thinking, that as gulaal is a female and kesar a male, automatically there must be some romance between them?

I honestly don't know what the show holds in the future but I sincerely hope your predictions come true JC.