Guddan Frustration Thread - Page 6

Originally posted by: RISH1234

1. Thw biggest flaw of ths track is the Age factor....it has nevr been constant...alisha entered as 16 yr next wk she becmes 18..thrs no consistency in writing...
2. Now coming to your question..whts wrong in youngest maa concept...thrs nthng wrong as such......bt for me timing of ths trck is defntly not correct...i would hav appreciated if thy wuld hav introduced ths daughter once antras truth ws reveald nd antra playng ths trump card...antras final card ws to kill guddan...why did she thnk tht whn she hd ths biggest trump card...so for me d base itself is weak of ths track...i dnt fnd ne continuity in ths trck...nd also m not able to connect to it...youngest saas had a gud convincng reason....nt youngest mom i find it forced.....also smwhr its difficult to watch wife nd daughtr of same age concept...but still tht can v digestable...Also honestly i dnt find chemistry betwn AJ nd Alisha....thrs still a little chemistry between Guddan and Alisha...
3. I thnk thy could hav still shwn youngest mom concept by introducing guddans pregnancy track..she is still young only to b a mother...and also a mother is a mother..thrs nothng called as young and old....and if its all abt the age then m sorry to say exactly tht has been d MAJOR REASON of drwback of ths trck...
4. And as a viewer after antra track....i defntly wanted to c sme gud change in storyline...How much r u gng go vth AJs past...i needed change but unfortunatly its just extention of antra track...
5. And coming to real egs given by you like raveena tondon and all....i would just say one thng ths is a compltyly a fiction shw...u vl hardly find ne Guddan in real world....ys d story is defntly inspired frm bollywod though Raveena thn Sushmita thn Kareena....
6. Btw Alsiha ws born whn AJ ws 18 19 yrs old...so he adopted d sons around tht age...

Ths is compltly my pov....

1. This week Alisha age will be revealed to the audience in her birthday track. Lets see what CVS show if Alisha is 16 or 18. I had a feeling that Alisha had a fake document regarding her Age remember Pervy is Ex Cops and he has contacts and overnight he can get the legal document printed. If you have contacts it not Big deal to get your age changed.
2. Well Antara was cunning woman, she always had a back up plan. In my opinion I didnt think killing Guddan easily was part of her plan, Antara always had the Trump Card inform of the child. After the exposure off Antaras true face infornt of the Jindal Family, Having Alisha as triumph card makes sense because she can emotional blackmail AJ & Dadi with Jindal Waris. For me I dont find Wife & Daughter of same age hard to connect but here Guddan is 23 and Alisha is 18 years old they 5 years age difference. With my Cousin Mami & I share 3 years of age difference, out of respect of Realtionship I call her Mami while her husband I are 10 years age difference I call him Mama and I never call them by their name. In realtionship age shouldn’t matter respect should be given because of the Auda a person realtionship status in the family. The concept of this track is not being the youngest mother but the main concept here is dealing with responsibilities that challenges one's age that comes with being the 2nd wife of Husband who is 18 years older then you. Right after the Engagement Announcement at his home AJ told Durga, his Bahus & Sons that a person proves themselves with their Karam how they handle their relationships & responsibilities not obliged by a persons Age or Experiences. In our show Bahus learned to let go of Guddan Age & Inexperience respect her Auda that she is the Eldest Bahu of Jindal Family & Thier Saas because she married their Sasuraji Akshat Jindal the eldest living son of the Family.
3. I am sorry to say Guddan being 23 is not youngest mum concept. At 23 if girls a married this is the age they plan their motherhood and decided with their husband when they want a child. 2.) If Guddan was 18 a teenager and going to college then it would have been a youngest mum concept and this concept was already explored in old serial Ek Ladki Anjani Si. 3.) I am waiting and looking forward to when CVs explore Guddans pregancy track and give AJ 9 months of Tantrums and AJ will be pampering and every strict with her. 4.) I also agree with you Mothers age doesn’t matter whether they are young or old a mother is a mother. Same goes with Guddan and Alisha even though Guddan is her Sauteli Mother in Staus because she is married to ALisha Fahter she is Alishas Stepmother/Mother whether she likes it or not. Alisha will learn that you dont need to see Mothers Age or her Experience but you have to see her love for their child and what she can do. 5.)Hema Malani & Stepson Sunny Deol share 8 years of age difference, Leena Chandavarkar & Step son Amit Kumar share age difference of 2 years they are Humumar too.
4. In my opioion CVS are trying to explore and and extract all the what if from AJs past. He is 41 years old, since the beginning of the show it was mentioned he had dark past, guilt, baggage with him. One of the baggage is his ex wife and their biological daughter from his first marriage he cannot just walk away from his resposnibilties or nelegect her.
5. I agree this is a fictional show we shouldnt be comparing anything with Guddan show or characters to the reality. I also agree we may hardly find a Stepmother like Guddan who is understand and kindhearted but Stepmothers/2nd wife/other woman do exist in Real World. In both American & Indian Culture. (Hema Malani, Shabana Azmi, Leena Chandavarkar, Kiran Rao, Kareena,)
6. I dont think so that Alisha was born when AJ was 18 or 19 years old. I have feeling AJ and Antara met in high school or first year of college when they were 18, and thats why Antara and AJ mentioned they have known each other for a long time. Antara & AJ got married when they were 21. In 2019 AJ turned 41, if Alisha is 18 years old he & Antra must have been 23. Its been 16 years since Antra fake accident so when Antra left, AJ he was 24 and 25 years old. Last year Durga mentioned that AJ adopted 3 sons 15 years ago so when he was around 24-25.
   

Here a fact the youngest mother in the world history is of 5 year old:

Lina Medina. Lina Marcela Medina de Jurado (Spanish pronunciation: [ˈlina meˈðina]; born 23 September 1933) is a Peruvian woman who became the youngest confirmed mother in history, giving birth at age five years, seven months, and 21 days. Source google and Wikipedia.

I don’t know. Honestly I’m just tired of antara and anything related directly to her. They need to try a new track now. Bring on someone new or a male entry or even have guddan go back to acting. This track is too heavy and tedious. I don’t necessarily have any real issues with it. In fact I’m even fine on how AJ is handling it, guddan on the other hand I just feel annoyed at her maahanta, which is why I loved when AJ told her to shut up. Someone needed to say it to her.

I’m just bored honestly. It not really more than that for me. I will say though. There is no parental chemistry between AJ and Alisha. I see no connection at all, it just feels incredibly forced on that side. Guddan does have good chem with her tho. That’s about it. And why is Revti and perv in the JM still? That I don’t get at all. That is also annoying.

I feel in this track guddan is forcing herself on Alisha.She is way too serious in proving herself that she is a good mother.She is way too pressurising herself to be a mother.whenever she talks she keep on saying "humari beti hei" "maa hun mein uski" she need to tone down this.

In initially episodes guddan took her own time to accept herself as a SaaS.. slowly slowly she got used to it,and to be a wife,she took her own good time ..but why now Maa banana humse hopayega from day 1.i know she was like that only when somebody says tumse na hopayega she is hell bent on proving that she can do it..but this is not a task it is to mend a relationship

And guddan forgiveness also irritating nowadays, she is been shown over matured, her big big dialogues especially during that karwa chauth track..

For Revati also I feel guddan should take a stand.Revati is like a spoiled body part..the more you keep it with you it will infect the whole body similarly keeping revati .she should be cut off from her family otherwise whole family is getting infected from her.

Nobody becomes mother overnight,even biological mother prepare herself 9 months mentally that she is going to become a mother ,she will have a child..in this case it's a teenage daughter who got many misconceptions about guddan so she should not force herself to become a mother or to prove herself as a good mother.

My another concern is the way they are showing the teenager, and why I dint liked this track was,though knowing her past and all we can say Alisha behaviour is justified.but this is a prime time show I think in India it is aired during 8:30 which is primarily dinner time for most of the families and mostly kids who watch television while having dinner.here the way Alisha is behaving and the words she is using for her father ,stealing things in her own house ,firing crackers to irritate her parents are not at all funny and will have negative impact and the way guddan supporting her as a mother comparisons start in their young minds .kids will take only the things which they see and understand which is attracting to their ears and eyes so they will start thinking that behaving like this fine and mother should support them.I don't mind to a certain extent if they are showing all this in a 9:30 or 10:00 show or early timing like 6:30 or 7:00.

I remember some years back peppa pig was banned in some countries as it was having bad impact on young kids..right now am not sure about this but television which is widely in reach of common people do have impact on young hearts.

Not only this show I oppose all the shows which portrays kids in bad light.

Ok my rant abt age still continues though...

So the age has jumped from 16 to 18 directly...

Epi 298 Alisha was 16 yrs old...

Epi 306 Alisha turned 18 yrs old...🙄

Now on Monday thy r celebrating Alishas 18th birthday....🤭

Also in one of the intrvws Nishant said Alisha ws born when he ws around 18 to 19...that means AJ is around 36 and not 40 or 42...m not getng d link or else i wuld hav pasted here....

Where has 17th year gone🤔

This is not logic but basic thing..

Originally posted by: Piku_S

1. This week Alisha age will be revealed to the audience in her birthday track. Lets see what CVS show if Alisha is 16 or 18. I had a feeling that Alisha had a fake document regarding her Age remember Pervy is Ex Cops and he has contacts and overnight he can get the legal document printed. If you have contacts it not Big deal to get your age changed.
2. Well Antara was cunning woman, she always had a back up plan. In my opinion I didnt think killing Guddan easily was part of her plan, Antara always had the Trump Card inform of the child. After the exposure off Antaras true face infornt of the Jindal Family, Having Alisha as triumph card makes sense because she can emotional blackmail AJ & Dadi with Jindal Waris. For me I dont find Wife & Daughter of same age hard to connect but here Guddan is 23 and Alisha is 18 years old they 5 years age difference. With my Cousin Mami & I share 3 years of age difference, out of respect of Realtionship I call her Mami while her husband I are 10 years age difference I call him Mama and I never call them by their name. In realtionship age shouldn’t matter respect should be given because of the Auda a person realtionship status in the family. The concept of this track is not being the youngest mother but the main concept here is dealing with responsibilities that challenges one's age that comes with being the 2nd wife of Husband who is 18 years older then you. Right after the Engagement Announcement at his home AJ told Durga, his Bahus & Sons that a person proves themselves with their Karam how they handle their relationships & responsibilities not obliged by a persons Age or Experiences. In our show Bahus learned to let go of Guddan Age & Inexperience respect her Auda that she is the Eldest Bahu of Jindal Family & Thier Saas because she married their Sasuraji Akshat Jindal the eldest living son of the Family.
3. I am sorry to say Guddan being 23 is not youngest mum concept. At 23 if girls a married this is the age they plan their motherhood and decided with their husband when they want a child. 2.) If Guddan was 18 a teenager and going to college then it would have been a youngest mum concept and this concept was already explored in old serial Ek Ladki Anjani Si. 3.) I am waiting and looking forward to when CVs explore Guddans pregancy track and give AJ 9 months of Tantrums and AJ will be pampering and every strict with her. 4.) I also agree with you Mothers age doesn’t matter whether they are young or old a mother is a mother. Same goes with Guddan and Alisha even though Guddan is her Sauteli Mother in Staus because she is married to ALisha Fahter she is Alishas Stepmother/Mother whether she likes it or not. Alisha will learn that you dont need to see Mothers Age or her Experience but you have to see her love for their child and what she can do. 5.)Hema Malani & Stepson Sunny Deol share 8 years of age difference, Leena Chandavarkar & Step son Amit Kumar share age difference of 2 years they are Humumar too.
4. In my opioion CVS are trying to explore and and extract all the what if from AJs past. He is 41 years old, since the beginning of the show it was mentioned he had dark past, guilt, baggage with him. One of the baggage is his ex wife and their biological daughter from his first marriage he cannot just walk away from his resposnibilties or nelegect her.
5. I agree this is a fictional show we shouldnt be comparing anything with Guddan show or characters to the reality. I also agree we may hardly find a Stepmother like Guddan who is understand and kindhearted but Stepmothers/2nd wife/other woman do exist in Real World. In both American & Indian Culture. (Hema Malani, Shabana Azmi, Leena Chandavarkar, Kiran Rao, Kareena,)
6. I dont think so that Alisha was born when AJ was 18 or 19 years old. I have feeling AJ and Antara met in high school or first year of college when they were 18, and thats why Antara and AJ mentioned they have known each other for a long time. Antara & AJ got married when they were 21. In 2019 AJ turned 41, if Alisha is 18 years old he & Antra must have been 23. Its been 16 years since Antra fake accident so when Antra left, AJ he was 24 and 25 years old. Last year Durga mentioned that AJ adopted 3 sons 15 years ago so when he was around 24-25.
   

Here a fact the youngest mother in the world history is of 5 year old:

Lina Medina. Lina Marcela Medina de Jurado (Spanish pronunciation: [ˈlina meˈðina]; born 23 September 1933) is a Peruvian woman who became the youngest confirmed mother in history, giving birth at age five years, seven months, and 21 days. Source google and Wikipedia.

1. Alisha ws introduced as 16 yr old...AJ dialog had cleared ths...epi 258..CVs hav not cleared the fake documentation part...audience cant kp assuming thngs...cvs need to close d loops
2. Agree Antras immediate plan ws not to kill Guddan...but if u check Antras last few epi scenes i remeber she herself said bas ab is guddan ko mein aur nai bardasht kar sakti...iska waqt khatam...smthng like tht...i dnt remebr he exact words...u can watch prior dasera scenes...Also thr r few dialogs of youngest mom...so ys thy r stresing on ths concept as well..for me yougest saas ws easy to connect cause d thy had a convincing reason enough..bt mom m realy sorry m not able to connect it at all...nd ys i agree about d responsibilty part...Ok personaly i am still not marid but i am already a dadi..i am also bua to kids who r almost my age or elder thn me bt thy call me by name so i agree to auda nd respect part..
3. Exactly my point as well...being 23 is not being youngest mom....girls at ths age do have kids....but because of d age difference cvs r stressing on ths part...well me too waiting for guddans pregnancy track...hope v get soon...
4. AJs age is not cleared yet...Well his ex wife hs been in d serial frm very first day itself nd v all knw she wuld b bk in d serial...so connecting vth hr ws easy....nthng ws mentioned abt d daughter....thn antra reality ws shwn still not a word of daughter...and she died...so for me AJs past was ended there itself...he cnt just carry ths baggage for lifetime....but thn suddenly frm nowhere daughtr ws introduced..nd no i nver mentioned tht AJ should leave his daughter just like tht..infact if she is not evn hs daughter he cl treat he like hs own..Also v all knw the age factor is still a question mark and it keeps changing acc to cvs convinience...
5. Completly agree Step mom 2nd wife nd all do exist in real life...no doubt in tht...
6. How can Alisha be 18 if Antra faked d accident for 16 years and AJ adopted d sons 15 years ago???? Also nishant himslef in one of d interws said tht Alisha ws born whn he ws around 18 or 19....he is a young father...i am not getnt d link....if i gt it i vl surly paste it here...

Piku i complty undrstand wht cvs r tryng to shw....like parrallel of Guddan hvng a stepmom nd guddan herslef is nw facing d same problm...then Guddan at early age being mother of hr own age daughter...but if thy had introduced hr earlier whn antra ws thr still it ws a bit logical....but introducing hr aftr antras death makes no sense...it is actuly looking forced....AJs past should hav been over aftr antras death....she ws a major part of his life...aftr hr death its all over....u cnt kp seeing same thngs agn nd agn...Has antra really gone.??? my only point is cvs need to move on nw frm AJs past story....guddan hs fought a lot v hav seen evrythng bt nw its time to shw Akhsan present nd future story...

If Alisha was in jail for the past 6 years how come she knows Vikrant ?

An 18 year old falling for an older man of her fathers age just to take some crappy revenge is not my cup of tea CV's. Please have some almonds or Mentos for Jalaoing your dimag ki batti for some fresh and entertaining ideas !!!!.

Why can't we have some Akshan romance as for Guddan it's her first marriage and AJ is head over heels in love with his cute wife so as a natural progression shouldn't the so much in love couple have some time for themselvesASAP . They need a heart to heart talk about their relationship , their life and romance with passion for some pyaar wale feelsva , itna toh deserve karate he hain na Von aur sath mein hum bhi !!

CV's this forum has some amazingly outstanding writers like Saranya ji , Piku ji , captain sahib , Shailu ji , Francisji ( I don't know many of the names so pl bear with me ) Riya and Meenakshi ji , Rishi and so many others with such great imagination and ideas for the enhancement of the story that pl pl if you stalk the forum you will know . It would be great if you took up this forums ideas for making your show lovable once again .

Other than revenge drama or separating the lead couples,is there nothing to show in the serial??

Antara want to seperate guddan n Akshat,revati revenge and want to seperate them,alisha want to seperate them and revenge of her mother death and now this new entry..not soo sure but lagta hei he is also intertwined in this whole alisha- Antara drama.

Instead of focusing on future and living the present ..the CVS are more interested in digging the past things ..rather than introducing any entry who will altogether create a new drama..they focussed on the entry who is related to the past.come on CVS ..get well soon from Antara and her daughter.

How past keeps you haunted and how it spoils your present is all they are trying to show..if at all this Vikrant turns to be a negative character and is connected with Antara as his BF or lover.

my only frustration is boredom and there are way too many villains on this show.

Agree with you Komal .Actually positive characters are there but enough screen space is not given for positive characters. All the screen space is given to negativity.

Durga was sharp and intelligent but now even she became like a prop getting nicely dressed and just praising guddan..Lakshmi and dadi and sons ..what to say about them..

Every positive character acts or behaves as guddan says and even AJ.

Originally posted by: rockingcouple12

Agree with you Komal .Actually positive characters are there but enough screen space is not given for positive characters. All the screen space is given to negativity.

Durga was sharp and intelligent but now even she became like a prop getting nicely dressed and just praising guddan..Lakshmi and dadi and sons ..what to say about them..

Every positive character acts or behaves as guddan says and even AJ.

don't get me started on the misuse of bahus and their husbands. they truly are just props. They only become important if they are needed for the track. i can count on my hands, as to how many words Kishore and the other one have said in 300 episodes.

I said this before, and i was proven right again...AJ wasn't entirely wrong in his method on how to treat Alisha but like i thought he would, he folded and apologized to guddan, which don't get me wrong, i loved the scene as a guddan fan but he had no reason to apologize let alone touch her feet. I dont' think i've ever seen a male lead on an itv touch his wife's feet as much as AJ has 😆.

He's a good husband and his love for Guddan is clear but he really has a right to his input, it's his daughter. But Guddan wears the pants, and runs the show, so AJ will always eventually fall back in line.