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Posted: 6 years ago
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These days it has become a real torture to write my opinions on this forum. For days I already observe that everyone who write their opinion, and is not positive about the series, is immediately called negativity. If someone has his own opinion and presents him, can that be called negativity. Or those who do not fall in the majority on this forum should just be mute or fake to agree with others opinions.

Is not this a forum where everyone can write their thoughts? I like this about the series, this one I do not like. I honestly begin to doubt this forum and freedom of speech. If my opinion is not like most, does that mean that I should stop writing my opinion on this forum. As far as I know, I did not blame nobody, or it was non-cultural. But if I write my opinion that does not the same as the other opinion, does this mean that I am spreading negativity. Sincerely, it's starting to bother me and I feel called by people who I do not even know.

I do not like this whole situation with Antara but here the whole forum is in the phase to justify everything that is happening. We should be grateful that this track is going fast. I mean what happens if I'm not grateful. Do I have the right to say without someone calling me after? I honestly avoided writing to this forum because of the calling me after that are happening. But now I thought why I must stop write my opinion, if a group of people do not like my opinion. It's not a must that we all have the same opinion, right?

I would ask that, from now on, if you can consider the opinion of the of all without any after argument and rebellion.

Thank you all.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumatra1234

These days it has become a real torture to write my opinions on this forum. For days I already observe that everyone who write their opinion, and is not positive about the series, is immediately called negativity. If someone has his own opinion and presents him, can that be called negativity. Or those who do not fall in the majority on this forum should just be mute or fake to agree with others opinions.

Is not this a forum where everyone can write their thoughts? I like this about the series, this one I do not like. I honestly begin to doubt this forum and freedom of speech. If my opinion is not like most, does that mean that I should stop writing my opinion on this forum. As far as I know, I did not blame nobody, or it was non-cultural. But if I write my opinion that does not the same as the other opinion, does this mean that I am spreading negativity. Sincerely, it's starting to bother me and I feel called by people who I do not even know.

I do not like this whole situation with Antara but here the whole forum is in the phase to justify everything that is happening. We should be grateful that this track is going fast. I mean what happens if I'm not grateful. Do I have the right to say without someone calling me after? I honestly avoided writing to this forum because of the calling me after that are happening. But now I thought why I must stop write my opinion, if a group of people do not like my opinion. It's not a must that we all have the same opinion, right?

I would ask that, from now on, if you can consider the opinion of the of all without any after argument and rebellion.

Thank you all.

everyone should have the right to voice their opinion. No one should feel that they can't express their views. What's the purpose then of a forum? We may all have differing opinions but should respect each other's view. I think anybody should be able to counter my thought and opinion and i should be allowed to do the same. it's ok to spread positivity and it's ok to also say you don't like the story. End of the day it's just a show and not everyone is going to like every moment. Just mutual respect is needed and healthy respectful debate.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshah1987

everyone should have the right to voice their opinion. No one should feel that they can't express their views. What's the purpose then of a forum? We may all have differing opinions but should respect each other's view. I think anybody should be able to counter my thought and opinion and i should be allowed to do the same. it's ok to spread positivity and it's ok to also say you don't like the story. End of the day it's just a show and not everyone is going to like every moment. Just mutual respect is needed and healthy respectful debate.

Precisely if were are respect each other's view then there would be no problems. This way if somebody writes something, that somebody not like it, it's immediately called negative. You and I had different opinions, but we managed to respect each other. Respect is only thing I ask for is nothing more and nothing less.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I completely agree with you , I have bene a victim of this in another forum, I feel once you start to have different perspective, people do get offended and term it as negative or spreading negativity, I understand what you are saying, the forum is meant to invite different thoughts, we all have different brain, so it is natural that, we process differently.

I have started to post my opinion less because of the very same reason as people start to judge you , for example, in Bigg Boss 12 Forum, I was active and used to share my views on a regular basis , I never used obscene, vulgar, inappropriate language neither did I disrespect anyone for what they feel, I always respect everyone and invited disagreements .

But, people started judging me by calling me weird, brainless, mentally unwell, PR of a certain contestant . People started backbiting and mocking against me in threads, I did went into depression because of that , the moment you start to turn against the majority, people start to feel as if the person is not normal .

People do tend to mock and I feel this happens in every forum, so I can relate to you so well . People think you have to write what they expect you to write, they do nto have to agree or understand what the opposite person is saying, but atleast they can be respectful .

For example I do not enjoy watching this Antra Track as well, but I won't judge anyone who enjoys watching this track, they have all the right to appreciate the track, but at the same time, people who do nto want to watch, they can also express their views, while both sides can atleast be respectful if not agree.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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If "the whole forum is in the phase to justify everything that is happening" its their opinion

We should be grateful that this track is going fast --- That's an opinion too

I mean what happens if I'm not grateful --- If that's in reference to my topic, then you should have read the next lines too.

At least I am thankful.

Baki aapki maarzi....

It was not an enforcement not hinted at that.

My topic is unedited so anyone can go back & check.

Just to clear this, I never let my topic deviate from subject & know to put full stop to when & wherever needed.

I opened a topic to lighten the entire mood of the forum & the silent visitors too who are kind off feeling suffocated here now. Also to take out my frustration in a light & fun way without any hint of offence to anyone.

If this is a response to my topic, then thank you for spoiling my mood. Enjoy your day 🍻

p.s. Solely responded only cause I felt reference of my topic is being made here. I won't be further responding to this topic & intent to pretend it doesn't exist following "my mood my responsibility"

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: captainplus

If "the whole forum is in the phase to justify everything that is happening" its their opinion

We should be grateful that this track is going fast --- That's an opinion too

I mean what happens if I'm not grateful --- If that's in reference to my topic, then you should have read the next lines too.

At least I am thankful.

Baki aapki maarzi....

It was not an enforcement not hinted at that.

My topic is unedited so anyone can go back & check.

Just to clear this, I never let my topic deviate from subject & know to put full stop to when & wherever needed.

I opened a topic to lighten the entire mood of the forum & the silent visitors too who are kind off feeling suffocated here now. Also to take out my frustration in a light & fun way without any hint of offence to anyone.

If this is a response to my topic, then thank you for spoiling my mood. Enjoy your day 🍻

p.s. Solely responded only cause I felt reference of my topic is being made here. I won't be further responding to this topic & intent to pretend it doesn't exist following "my mood my responsibility"

Why you take this personally or that is the answer to your topic. I just made my point. As far as I know, we two agreed to stop commenting on each other post. If you feel pronounced in my post it's already how you understand my post. I did not even mention you.

I asked questions and expressed my opinion. I did not insult anyone with my post. If you found yourself offended, it was not my intention. And as far as your mood is concerned, it did not ruin because me, its because you personally understood my post. Enjoy your day.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha786

I completely agree with you , I have bene a victim of this in another forum, I feel once you start to have different perspective, people do get offended and term it as negative or spreading negativity, I understand what you are saying, the forum is meant to invite different thoughts, we all have different brain, so it is natural that, we process differently.

I have started to post my opinion less because of the very same reason as people start to judge you , for example, in Bigg Boss 12 Forum, I was active and used to share my views on a regular basis , I never used obscene, vulgar, inappropriate language neither did I disrespect anyone for what they feel, I always respect everyone and invited disagreements .

But, people started judging me by calling me weird, brainless, mentally unwell, PR of a certain contestant . People started backbiting and mocking against me in threads, I did went into depression because of that , the moment you start to turn against the majority, people start to feel as if the person is not normal .

People do tend to mock and I feel this happens in every forum, so I can relate to you so well . People think you have to write what they expect you to write, they do nto have to agree or understand what the opposite person is saying, but atleast they can be respectful .

For example I do not enjoy watching this Antra Track as well, but I won't judge anyone who enjoys watching this track, they have all the right to appreciate the track, but at the same time, people who do nto want to watch, they can also express their views, while both sides can atleast be respectful if not agree.

People think you have to write what they expect you to write, they do nto have to agree or understand what the opposite person is saying, but atleast they can be respectful .

It's just such a feeling that I have to write what they want to hear.

That's exactly the case and it does not happen with me alone. I feel pronounced because I have my own opinion. And if my opinion does not agree with the majority at once, it becomes a problem. if I have an opinion. We do not have to agree with the opinion, but we can respect the other opinion.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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bang on post this is the only forum i find few against different pov ..

whenever we are honest they term us as negative ..

CV'S read our post ..

what we post is honest review ..

forum is to express ur views its simple ppl should open to everyones views and respect each others views ...

hope ppl get our point

thank u for this topic very much needed

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumatra1234

People think you have to write what they expect you to write, they do nto have to agree or understand what the opposite person is saying, but atleast they can be respectful .

It's just such a feeling that I have to write what they want to hear.

That's exactly the case and it does not happen with me alone. I feel pronounced because I have my own opinion. And if my opinion does not agree with the majority at once, it becomes a problem. if I have an opinion. We do not have to agree with the opinion, but we can respect the other opinion.

exactly why they have to be place hilter rules on us

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshah1987

everyone should have the right to voice their opinion. No one should feel that they can't express their views. What's the purpose then of a forum? We may all have differing opinions but should respect each other's view. I think anybody should be able to counter my thought and opinion and i should be allowed to do the same. it's ok to spread positivity and it's ok to also say you don't like the story. End of the day it's just a show and not everyone is going to like every moment. Just mutual respect is needed and healthy respectful debate.

exactly everyone is welcomed we respect that ..

but few call us negative spreaders this is realty in this forum ..

even if we are worried about particular tracks or not liking the tracks we are termed as bashers and hype ppl /groups ..

few even wish we should exit from the forum as if they own the forum ..

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