May 17th: Akshan Confrontation Scene Analysis Mujhe Rula Diyađđ
Thank you rs-shailu & TC_FC for the GIFSđ¤ Phew I am finally done this was such a beautiful scene that I hope I did justice with it.
Nishant Malkani was just phenomenal in the ending scene, expressing a variety of emotions through his character Akshat Jindal. đ Kanika Maan was excellent in supporting him, keeping up with an experienced actor. đ
Yesterday May 16thAkshat Jindal told his Dost that âTeri Harkum Sar Aankhon parâ their hands were holding, indicating its a promise that he will follow and listen to all the orders that his Patni Guddan Akshat Jindal says.
Today May 17th
Phir kyun teri yaadon ne
Mujhe rula diya oh
Mujhe rula diya
Teri yaadon mein likhe jo lafz dete hai sunayi
Beetay lamhe poochte hai kyun hue aise judaa
Khuda, khuda mila jo ye faasla hai
Khuda tera hi ye faisla hai
Khuda hona tha woh ho gaya
Jo tune tha likha
After hearing his wife's decision, Akshat Jindal entered their room to confront her while Guddan was engrossed in her packing her back was facing him, he held her arm turned around to face him, question her on her decision to leave the house, when told her that they could leave the house, especially since his wife is Innocent.
- When AJ was speaking to Guddan it was with authority tone, that he has the Haq to know the answers to his question as her Husband. He was mad at Guddan for disobeying his order of not leaving his house.
- He didnât care about his family nor their feelings, the only person that mattered to him was his Dharam Patni, who made his heartbeat, made him alive & broke his shell of solace, his wife Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal his better half, his Dost.
- But today the husband, not the friend fought his wife who is precious and priceless to him more than anything in the entire universe. He fought Guddan Akshat Jindal: Saas& Bahu of Jindal Parivar for his Patni Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal who is part of him, for their relationship and their togetherness, their Kasme Vade of their 7 Vachan their wedding vows. He didnât care about the world, the only two people mattered was him & her. After 15 years Akshat Jindal started to embrace the world, life because of his wife Guddan Akshat Jindal, she fought him, she is his breath of fresh air, she is his Guardian Angel, she is his light and she is his Apna.
Guddan told her husband: I came after them in this house, they had more Haq than me. The expression on AJ told another story.
- His heart & mind wanted to scream and declare âno Guddan you are wrong, you have more Haq than them because you are my Dharam Patni Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal.
After Guddan refused to listen to his plea of not leaving his house or him, said No Jindal Saab you will listen to my Marzi.He was furious at her for taking a decision of leaving him, her friend, her Pati, walking away from their relationship their foundation that they worked so hard to build. The patience he had in himself broke, replaced by raw emotions that were emerging from his heart similar to lava that erupts from a volcano: "Teekh hai tum sab jao yahan se, mujhe kisi ki zarurat nahi hai main pehle bhi akela teekh tha aur aage bhi akela teekh rehâ
- Jindal Saab erupted, he voiced his feeling, that before meeting his wife he was Lonely, Alone and after she leaves he will once again become Akela. Indirectly through his anger, Jindal Saab told his Dost/ Wife that without her he will be nothing, he will stop living & he will be Akela having no one of his Own even in his crowded house. In the past 7-8 months, she has become part of him, Guddan flows in Akshat Jindal as his oxygen without seeing Guddan in their home or room, he will not get any Sukoon, he will become restless
- After the death of his Deceased Wife Antara Jindal, Guddan leaving him, is also opening a fear of losing another person that matters to him most, who is his companion, who he shares an emotional bond with of mind, heart & soul, he has attachment for her, and she is precious n part of his life.
- Akshat Jindal mind was running whirlpool of emotions, it was like his past and present colliding.
- Deep inside his heart he is afraid of loving someone that he will loose them due to the circumstance of time and he will be alone after they are gone.
- "Bohut samjdhar Hogayi ho tum Guddan apne faisley Khud kar Sakthi ho mujhe baat bhi karna zaroori nahi samjhathi. " Pati is angry at his wife, for easily taking a decision that will affect him too, it wasn't fair to him that she took a big decision of leaving him & their house without consulting him, and it just shattered him into pieces.
- Toh Tik Hai, when he handed her the suitcase said "yeh lo Jao tum" he broke, it pained him to say that.
Her Assurance, Her Reminder
She guided and led her upset husband to the mirror. She told and reminded to him that her friend told her that she has to be believe in herself & listen to her heart. She also told him she knows she has hurt him, but to trust him. Give an example of Sitaji going to Vanvas for the sake of her family happiness and she is Guddan.
When we are hurt, or going on the wrong path or doing something wrong, or having hard time understanding a situation, a persons better half is the one who shows them the Mirror of Truth. Similarly thats what Guddan did, n love how she used his words on him, assuring him to Trust Her.
Even though she gave an example of Sitaji she is not Sita, she is Guddan. I love the fact that Guddan reminded her Jindal Saab that she is Guddan the person who is famous for taking crook roads and turns instead of following the straight path in her life.
It was such heartwarming and breaking scene, when Akshat Jindal & Guddan Jindal realized even though they are parting they are holding hands. When they let go their hands it was reminder, that in the few seconds they will not be together, they will not have each otherâs support. This was the last time Guddan held her hubbys hand on top of his.
When Guddan let go of AJâs hands, darkness came into the room, reminding AJ that your light, your Sunshine, your Dhoop is leaving you forever, without her you will have blackness in your life. Without your Soul (Guddan) you will be a shadow, outer shell of Person remaining.
Shadows
Yeh Ishq Nahi Aasan played while Guddan was slowly walking away from her Life Support her Husband Akshat Jindal, and making her way out to face the world.
With an heavy heart, determine Guddan Akshat Jindal is walking away from her shadow, her protector, her lifeline, her mentor. She wants to make him proud, by following his teaching and path, that she can take the right decision on her own and be firm on it without his support.
Guddan is moving but it is AJ who is following her, because it has become his habit to be her protector, he is not willing to let go of her because he will be lost without her. He will not have any Ray of Hope, or Reason to live without her.
Leaving the Shadow Crucial One
Top Center Guddan lets go of her Pillar of Strength hand, if you follow the mini pictures from Top Left to Right, and then Bottom Left to Right there is progress of Guddan walking away from the shadows of Her Protector Akshat Jindal her Mentor & Her Husband & Her World.
Even though it deeply hurts to go out of his protection but she is determined to move out, keeping his guidance in mind to help her become a strong person and gain her confidence back.
Guddan letting go of AJâs shadow will help her become more strong, gain her confidence, believe in the decision she takes, that she doesnât need the help of her husband Akshat Jindal all the time to fight her own battle. He can be her pillar of strength and support her but she will be the one taking a decision of her life whether wrong or right but keeping his advice in her mind.
Guddan journey, her determination of being independent and not frequently relying on the advice or guidance of her others will help her build her character strongly over the time. But she will also rise in the eyes of her husband, where he will come to rely on her, see her as his pillar of strength which she is already to some extent. But he is going to see her as Woman, right now its 50-50, he sees her as Young Woman, who he likes to pamper, show affection, guide, protect and think of regular typical youths from todays generation.
After she finds her confidence, he is going to see beyond the exterior of Todayâs Generation Youth where he will realize that Guddan Aksaht Jindal is not typical 20-22 year old woman but she is matured woman because his guidance, their marriage, her past experience, circumstances in her, his, their life has made her mature with time and her understanding is different.
Crucial Two AJ holding Pallu
Guddan is letting go of his shadow & support to make her own decision in life, in contrast her Akshat Jindal who is confident, successful, Rules & Regulation Man, is now starting to hold her Pallu. He is slowly getting read to embrace his Guddan Akshat Jindal his wife in life and with time, patience, understanding he is going to give her the place in his heart and life that she deserves as his Dharam Patni in all sense.
Without meeting or looking back, which deeply devasted Akshat Jindal, that she was not looking at him, and walking away. He pulled her Pallu to remind her that whom she is leaving and walking away from her is not only a her Dost but her Jeevan Saathi, Her Pillar of Strength, Her Husband Aksaht Jindal who she fought for to bring him back inside their home, and whom she gave wedding vows to.
Akshat Jindal the man of few words, whose action speaks better than words, held his wifeâs Pallu in order to tell her to stop her.
But when she pleaded with him saying Please Let Me Go, he cleverly put her pallu on his Fitbit.
Akshat Jindal has to be direct and verbal tell his Wife Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal in clear words I dont want you to go because you are my wife, my life and I cannot survive with you. Because Mrs. Guddan Aksaht Jindal when it comes to reading anything besides his Eyes, she cannot figure out how to read his gestures
Because when she turned around saw that her Pallu was stuck to the watch she said: She thought he was trying to stop her (which he was) said she is Jhalli before leaving she made a fool out of herself. (Hey Bhagwan)
Did you notice how AJ slowly raised his left hand with the Fitbit watch? Remember that Akshanâs fit bit watch runs on their heartbeats. The the ring finger on either side right or left hand is connected to the heart. AJ heart was trying to stop his Gudiya from leaving him but unfortunately she pleaded, repeatedly said âPleaseâ he being the man of Sanskar, Gentleman, he will not to anything against his Guidyas wishes. Remember âAapke Humkum Sar Aankhon Parâ Right now he knows that they are Dost but she and him are not ready, he doesnt want her to do anything against his wishes, so he let her free her Pallu from him.
But when the time comes Akshat Jindal the Husband will secure the Dhaaga of her Pallu so tightly that his wife Mrs. Akshat Jindal will never be able to unite and go away from him .
Absorbing her Amrit as Vish,
Guddan Aksaht Jindal sacrificed her happines, his Saath, gave him the Amrit of his family who she knows his part of him just like she is equally part of him.
After he saw Guddan leave, he was emotionally broken, he closed his eyes to absorb his pain, drink the poison of her approaching separation & firm decision. In the bottom picture you an see that even though AJ has closed his eyes, his jaws are set, like he is also trying to cool his anger down, because everything is going out of his control which he hates.
The sun rays are reflecting on AJâs face to help, guide him, to give him a ray of hope in finding a solution to his problem, where he doesn't need to let go of his wife and keep their family also happy.
He is not Ram that he will let his Sita go alone to Vanvas
Akshat Jindal the husband listened to his wife, and let her leave the house. After listening to her reason, her assurances, he made a decision from his heart to be with her in Sorrow Time. Akshat Jindal cannot be happy man without knowing how is Gudiya, his precious Wife is doing. He respected her decision but if Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal thought that she could leave him easily and free him from her Vachans, she was wrong. She misunderstood her hubby.
Akshat Jindal knows that he has raised, educated his son Vardan & Kishore Jindal well, they can survive without him, and they have their wife with them too. His sons dont need him. Now its time for Akshat Jindal to be little selfish and concentrate focus on what matters to him most, that is his Unique Precious Gem, His Wife, His Soul, His Sukoon, His Everything, His World Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal.
In the room Guddan indicated she is not Sita, hear verbally Akshat Jindal declared to Guddan and their family He is Not Ram that he will sacrifice his Innocent Wife for the Happiness of His Family.
The top scene was just epic because its like a clash of Titans, a Husband and Wife both of them are long-heads with each other for each otherâs happiness. Akshat Jindal the husband is determine and is not willingly to let go of His Wife, His Life with out a fight, if she leaves the house, he will go with her, he wll make sure that all the Vachan he promised her, will be fulfilled no matter where they are in their life.
The wife Guddan Akshat Jindal is shocked at her husbands decision, that for her sake he is willing to let go of his family that means so much to him but she will not back off of her decision and is firmed on it.
Mujhe Rula Diya
Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal made one of the toughest decision of her life by leaving her house, shook her backbone to the core, her pillar of strength, her foundation her Jindal Saab the great Akshat Jindal her Pati. Unknowingly she hurted her Jindal Saab shattered him into pieces. The compose Akshat Jindal because of one decision of his wife made him portray many emotions from being shock, hurt, devasted, anger, pleading, broken, he was lost a child in a man's body.
She sacrificed her & her husband's happiness for the happiness of their underserving Family Members.
Both Mr & Mrs. Akshat Jindal were equally broken, shattered into infinite amount of pieces, with their approaching separation, it shook them both but Mr. Aksaht Jindal was shaken to core because its the second time that is going to loose a valuable & precious companion in his life.
Guddan decision right or wrong?
It depends on how you view her perspective!
As Jindal Bahu and Saas one of Guddan responsibility is to keep her family together as One in her house despite their differences.
If her Sons & Bahus leave the house, despite the situation, Guddan knows that society will speak ill of her husband, disgrace his name, which she never wants to happen.
On Valentine's Day, Guddan admits to her Sons & Bahus & Her Hubby that she has given because Jindal Saab the Man he consists of is her husband.
Many times, especially after wearing AJ ka Naam ka Kangan her husband Name, Respect, Dignity & Honor mean the world to her because she knows how hard he has worked to earn the Name & Fame he has today. Guddan is not a selfish person for her own happiness will who will outcast her children and live happily with her husband, she will be worried and she knows n understands that her husband despite his anger will be worried for his children too.
Was it easy for Guddan to take this decision?
No her Jindal Saab is her world, its never easy for a woman to choose between her children & her husband, or Husband &Family, no matter who she chooses its always loose loose situation.
She didn't want to look into her Jindal Saab's eyes because if she looked she knew she could fall weak, she wanted to be strong. Each step that she took towards her exist, was breaking her heart in millions of pieces because she knew her decision has also hurt her Jindal Saab n she can never think in her dreams to hurt him.
What should Guddan & Akshat Jindal work on?
Both Akshat Jindal and Mrs. Guddan Aksaht Jindal know where they stand as Head & Lady of the house, as Saas-Sasur, Bahu-Beta of Jindal Bhavan!
Now they need to make some ground rules for their Neev/Foundation in their relationship as Pati-Patni.
Its very clear both Guddan and Akshat Jindal need time and patience in their relationship before moving to the intense romance level and then to a physical relationship.
But has a couple, they need to set some ground rules in their relationship to secure the Foundation that they have built and worked so hard on facing many ups and downs in their marital journey and close to losing each other.
The facts are:
-Akshan have accepted each other as Pati-Patni whole heartily without any Majboori.
-Both Akshan has given each other vows.
-They are friends, are willing to give their relationship time and patience so they can understand each other better, and their spouses Generation POV.
-Facts is both are emotional person, they need time to understand the developing feeling between their spouse, maybe both of them understand its not Dosti phase. In their first date, we have seen some of the insecurities rising: for AJ matching up to Guddan's generation, Guddan living and matching up to Akshat standard because he is perfect and she makes a silly mistake.
But I want, after Guddan Akshat Jindal returns, Akshat Jindal the experience and mature husband should talk to his Wife and explain to him some of the rules they should have regarding their Pati-Patni relationship because the decision one spouse makes it impacts both of the spouses because husband and wife have the equal right to disagree and agree on decision that impacts their marital life.
A ground rule in a relationship is very important and crucial because it helps the couple, children or anyone involved in a relationship understand where they stand.
Naina lageeyan baarishan
Te sukke sukke sapne vi pijj gaye
Naina lageeyan baarishan
Rut birha de badlan di cha gayi
Do pal tujhse juda tha
Aise phir raasta muda tha
Tujhse mein khone laga
Juda jaise hone laga
Mujhse kuch mera
Tu hi meri liye ab kar dua
Tu hi iss dard se kar de juda
Tera hoke tera jo main na raha
Main yeh khud se kehta hoon
Tujhe bhula diya oh
Tujhe bhula diya oh
Tujhe bhula diya oh
Phir kyun teri yaadon ne
Mujhe rula diya oh
Mujhe Rula Diya
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