Originally posted by: Akshata2010
She never cried because Durga said something mean. She did answer back sometimes. And the reason she doesn't over do it is because of Durga's ideal image in her head. That she does well for the family. That she will always support her when it comes to family.
Most of all, Durga is Durga Kishore Jindal. Which means she is FAMILY. Even when she does not behave like one. It's not only with Guddan, it's with AJ too. He can see the facts, why isn't he connecting the dots? Because like Guddan, he thinks good of her even though both know that she doesn't think much of Guddan. Both are unaware of Durga's greed and lust for Power and Control over the house.
And it's not only with GTNHP, all family oriented shows telecast scenes where a Wrongful Member of the Family is forgiven because they learn their lesson or because they are FAMILY. And family is forever. If the Member is a Distant family member then he/she usually goes away.
You misunderstood me.
I agree that the family is the most important. But this does not mean that the family can say and do whatever they want, and to be forgiven only because the family. If we look at this, then Angad should be forgiven. there is no logic to forgive him for everything he has done, just because he is a family.
I have a problem that Guddan do not defend herself as she knows how to defend herself. If Guddan could hold the AJ lesson, I do not see the reason why she can not do that when it comes to Bahu. Ok Durga, let's take this into account, was she part of that same family when she sold Guddan, or when she told her that Guddan was the second woman. These are the things that Guddan should answer immediately and in a short time. Because Guddan did not say things on time, now there is a big problem for her alone. Durga, Saru do not take Guddan seriously. I have no problem for them to forgive them, this is a series, but I have a problem when Guddan is a modern girl who knows how to defend himself, and then after that suddenly old thinking only is heard and that is all for the benefit of her family. The family is the people who value you, love and respect. It may be that your blood is or not but they're your family. But families like each other, respect each other.
Nothing personal, this is my opinion, I think that Guddan should finally begin to defend herself when it comes to Bahu.
Edited by sumatra1234 - 6 years ago