Monday Precap Maang Filling

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Mamta Singh

@Piku_S

Alumni

+ 7

Posted: 6 years ago

CVs please give me a logic reason

I was confused with the Monday Precap and I asked my mum who has more knowledge in this, since she is from traditional Brahman Family.

Background regarding Maang filling of Widow

My mum is like traditionally & Olden Time, a Woman who becomes a Widow, her Maang is filled only once that to by the first husband only and second husband is not actually suppose to fill the maang.

The second marriage of a Widow is not actually suppose to happen similar to her first marriage. Pandit should be alerted that Woman is Widow because some of the customs and mantras will be altered for the benefit & life of the second husband. My mums says traditionally the second husband is not allowed to fill their wife's maang if she was a widow, she has to do it herself, he can purchase sindoor for her but not fill unless its Durga Navami or Diwali time. But with Modern times this custom is changing

But in movies & TV Lands remarriage of a woman are shown similar to their First Marriage.

The second husband can fill the maang of Divorcee Woman because her ex-husband is alive or was alive during the divorce.

When my mum saw the promo she was 😲, and 😡 because she is like what logic is CVS trying to show and prove.

Without Guddan removing her Sindoor her Suhag ke Nishani from her first marriage, the sindoor from Angad's hand in her maang will be invalid because:

The sindoor is still of Akshat Jindals Name in Guddans Maang
No matter what excuse Angad gives it will be invalid until sindoor is not removed from Guddan's maang
There is actually suppose to be a waiting period for 1 year. The Barsi is suppose to pass but this is TV Land no logic🤪

My mum and I can be both wrong regarding the Maang filling. My mum only knows the traditional one that she learned from her family. My mum is not aware of the Modern Customs for the Widows.

Edited by *Piku* - 6 years ago

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Ajgud

@Ajgud

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

I told you guys you no body believed that backstaber Filled gudus maang with sindoor this was master plan by Durga

Dekhlo tamasha

Piku 🤣seriously dear in tv land it's no matter a man filled a women's forehead with sindoor chodo sindoor even it's Abeer then he is his husband or they are bound to marry doesn't matter if the women is a widow or carrying first husband sindoor or first husband passed away few hours back

Welcome to the world Of Vedraj pagalpanti officially this show is also become victim of thier mahan famous stupidity 👏and idiotness

As a experience audience I would only say You are very innocent regarding telly shows especially Ved Raj show

😆

See I was always against Akshat brother entry they played thier card very well in the land the Man married to a FL no matter what circumstances is is the Male lead ..

They used this tactis when they have to change the ML convinently

This is called haath ki safayi ...

See This show is finished ...that's for sure

They have keep AJ alive only for N popularity that's it ...Bhai purane jankar aur bhokbhogi hai hum is Vedraj show ke so

All I can say just wait and watch all the cringness and madness

This is just the beginning ! 😊

Waiting Nishant to free soon !

😊

He deserve surely better ! 😊

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Akshu

@AK_2010

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

I completely agree with you about this. I know that a woman has to wait for an year to remarry another man after first husband's death. Lekin TV isfast forward express 😆 Ek saal wait kaise kar sakte hai... AJ ko wapas bhi toh lana hai...

Many communities are still so backward that they do not allow widows to remarry. Only widowers can do so. Aur yaha toh Guddan ne AJ ka sindoor hataya nahi ki Angad line mei lag gaya... 😡

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captainplus

@captainplus

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

Don't know much about hindu marriages but, I guess it varies from region to region, family to family, etc. but the basic remain same.

But in TV & BW land sare ke sare same che i.e. no basic & ultra fast wedding 😆

+ Jitna jaldbazi Angad karega, utna jaldi, Jindal sahab lautenge 😛

So here logic ka na hona, is good for us 😉

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Minig

@Minig

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

well piku idk about traditional marraiges & old customs.well i have no knowlege regarding the same.but i just want to share my experience which i see in hindu marraiges.

see i know someome who lost her husband at a very young age.she was just 23 when she became widow.& after 2 years she did again remarraige.i visited her im second remarraige function

& she was also from same community i.e jindals.she completed each & every rituals of marraige except pheras ( 7 rounds of marraige ) .because in that community people believe

ladki agar pheron mein aa jaye to parai ho jati hai.& pheree bhi ek bhi baar leti hai.

so she can compelete her ritual only once time in her life

&mostly ms ritual also didn't happen in aggarwal community

but sindoor rasam she did.so i just want to say every ritual of marraiges different according to different communities.

& it is not necessary girl should wait for an year for remaraige.she can do remarraige after the 13 days of her husband death.

ok i am telling which i see

& baat rahi logic ki so in tvland logic is always out of the window.

sometimes i couldn't calculate what is the exact age of angad . 🤪

cvs are always like in case of logic :-

Hum pagal nahi hai bhaiya hamara dimah kharab hai!

Edited by Rosellia - 6 years ago

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Posted: 6 years ago

Dumbo pest commmenting repeatedly that someone may notice her 🤣

Kudos to you all for ignoring the pest

As if Nishant is so stupid to quit a lucrative show on Basis of one idiot comment somewhere in some obscure site HAHAHAHAHHA joke of the decade 🤪

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

piku thanks for info🤗

in the show cv's have gone mad showing same thing again ..

kalash ritual 2,sindoor2,marriage done 2 ...but still thats for aj it was ok but remarriage with devar...😡🤢bad taste...

cv's are overconfident that this track will work wonders on trp ...

but trp rises if akshan are max onscreen not away ..

ruined the show bit by bit ...

note--marriage has become a piece of joke on tvland

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Kavya

@kavya1994

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+ 38

Posted: 6 years ago

I don't know much how second marriage rituals take place, but I have heard from my family members

about the tradition where younger brother marries elder brother's wife, if he's single (or sometimes with consent of first wife due to some major circumstances) when she's widowed, because a woman was never supposed to remove her sindoor etc, once married.

Also in some customs it is allowed for a widow woman to continue putting sindoor if her demised husband had asked her to do so as his last wish.

Also I have seen my science teacher who used to put sindoor after her first catholic arranged marriage, but never put sindoor after her second marriage which is love marriage in Hindu style.

On the other hand, my computer teacher when I was in 4th std, who lost her husband just after 1/2months of marriage always wear faded clothes, no bangles, no rings, no earrings(except small tops that too occasionally) & only a small black bindi. Still she looks so beautiful with that simplicity.But when I saw her after her second marriage I was completely mesmerized, wearing a red saree, with 1&half dozen bangles, jhumka, designer bindi and her hair partings fully filled with sindoor. She's is looking more beautiful than before.

In our tradition also, one year is the waiting period after death of anybody in the family, before any auspicious work took place in the family.

But with changing time it has reduced to only till all death ceremony functions are completed.