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Nishh🤗..........and all 😳😳😳

Sorry if this sounds mushy or boring.......and also that its off topic...please close thread if required😊
I was quite disturbed yesterday night and today morning........Also because one of the nicest people I know .......you... were feeling ruffled......and I felt inadequate that I could not come up with anything sensible to tell you.........Also that none of the serials I watch and thier characters seem to have it easy.
Well then today morning....someone forwarded a message today in the office .....about the achievements of a young man Naresh Karutara who has passed out of a premier engineering college in India; IIT Madras.
http://www.funenclave.com/reality-bites/naga-naresh-karutura-fighter-banks-godavari-20773.html
Reading his interview, helped me ....and restore my belief that at the end of the day.......hard work does pay off, so does nicety.........and that we cannot control what happens to us..........but we can control how we react to it😳😳...........So hopefully ......our Rishi😳😳.....and Simarto 😳😳 do find thier own way to deal with it.
take care girls.........see ya later.
Pasta ......(today I resemble Penne....area between the eyes and forehead is blank😆)
PS:
Nishhh......some more hugs🤗🤗......chal gimme a smile😊😳
Anishhaaa🤗🤗......do one of your crackling posts.........We really need a good laugh😊😳
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N aga Naresh Karutura has just passed out of IIT Madras in Computer Science and has joined Google in Bangalore .

You may ask, what's so special about this 21-year-old when there are hundreds of students passing out from various IITs and joining big companies like Google?

Naresh is special. His parents are illiterate. He has no legs and moves around in his powered wheel chair. (In fact, when I could not locate his lab, he told me over the mobile phone, 'I will come and pick you up'. And in no time, he was there to guide me)

Ever smiling, optimistic and full of spirit; that is Naresh. He says, "God has always been planning things for me. That is why I feel I am lucky."

Read why Naresh feels he is lucky.

Childhood in a village

I spent the first seven years of my life in Teeparru, a small village in Andhra Pradesh, on the banks of the river Godavari . My father Prasad was a lorry driver and my mother Kumari, a house wife. Though they were illiterate, my parents instilled in me and my elder sister (Sirisha) the importance of studying.

Looking back, one thing that surprises me now is the way my father taught me when I was in the 1st and 2nd standards. My father would ask me questions from the text book, and I would answer them. At that time, I didn't know he could not read or write but to make me happy, he helped me in my studies!

Another memory that doesn't go away is the floods in the village and how I was carried on top of a buffalo by my uncle. I also remember plucking fruits from a tree that was full of thorns.

I used to be very naughty, running around and playing all the time with my friends. I used to get a lot of scolding for disturbing the elders who slept in the afternoon. The moment they started scolding, I would run away to the fields!

I also remember finishing my school work fast in class and sleeping on the teacher's lap!

January 11, 1993, the fateful day

On the January 11, 1993 when we had the sankranti holidays, my mother took my sister and me to a nearby village for a family function. From there we were to go with our grandmother to our native place. But my grandmother did not come there. As there were no buses that day, my mother took a lift in my father's friend's lorry. As there were many people in the lorry, he made me sit next to him, close to the door.

It was my fault; I fiddled with the door latch and it opened wide throwing me out. As I fell, my legs got cut by the iron rods protruding from the lorry. Nothing happened to me except scratches on my legs.

The accident had happened just in front of a big private hospital but they refused to treat me saying it was an accident case. Then a police constable who was passing by took us to a government hospital.

First I underwent an operation as my small intestine got twisted. The doctors also bandaged my legs. I was there for a week. When the doctors found that gangrene had developed and it had reached up to my knees, they asked my father to take me to a district hospital. There, the doctors scolded my parents a lot for neglecting the wounds and allowing the gangrene to develop. But what could my ignorant parents do?

In no time, both my legs were amputated up to the hips.

I remember waking up and asking my mother, where are my legs? I also remember that my mother cried when I asked the question. I was in the hospital for three months.

Life without legs

I don't think my life changed dramatically after I lost both my legs. Because all at home were doting on me, I was enjoying all the attention rather than pitying myself. I was happy that I got a lot of fruits and biscuits.

'I never wallowed in self-pity'

July 28, 2008

T he day I reached my village, my house was flooded with curious people; all of them wanted to know how a boy without legs looked. But I was not bothered; I was happy to see so many of them coming to see me, especially my friends!

All my friends saw to it that I was part of all the games they played; they carried me everywhere.

God's hand

I believe in God. I believe in destiny. I feel he plans everything for you. If not for the accident, we would not have moved from the village to Tanuku, a town. There I joined a missionary school, and my father built a house next to the school. Till the tenth standard, I studied in that school.

If I had continued in Teeparu, I may not have studied after the 10th. I may have started working as a farmer or someone like that after my studies. I am sure God had other plans for me.

My sister, my friend

When the school was about to reopen, my parents moved from Teeparu to Tanuku, a town, and admitted both of us in a Missionary school. They decided to put my sister also in the same class though she is two years older. They thought she could take care of me if both of us were in the same class. My sister never complained.

She would be there for everything. Many of my friends used to tell me, you are so lucky to have such a loving sister. There are many who do not care for their siblings.

She carried me in the school for a few years and after a while, my friends took over the task. When I got the tricycle, my sister used to push me around in the school.

My life, I would say, was normal, as everyone treated me like a normal kid. I never wallowed in self-pity. I was a happy boy and competed with others to be on top and the others also looked at me as a competitor.

Inspiration

I was inspired by two people when in school; my Maths teacher Pramod Lal who encouraged me to participate in various local talent tests, and a brilliant boy called Chowdhary, who was my senior.

When I came to know that he had joined Gowtham Junior College to prepare for IIT-JEE, it became my dream too. I was school first in 10th scoring 542/600.

Because I topped in the state exams, Gowtham Junior College waived the fee for me. Pramod Sir's recommendation also helped. The fee was around Rs 50,000 per year, which my parents could never afford.

Moving to a residential school

Living in a residential school was a big change for me because till then my life centred around home and school and I had my parents and sister to take care of all my needs. It was the first time that I was interacting with society. It took one year for me to adjust to the new life.

There, my inspiration was a boy called K K S Bhaskar who was in the top 10 in IIT-JEE exams. He used to come to our school to encourage us. Though my parents didn't know anything about Gowtham Junior School or IIT, they always saw to it that I was encouraged in whatever I wanted to do. If the results were good, they would praise me to the skies and if bad, they would try to see something good in that. They did not want me to feel bad.

They are such wonderful supportive parents.

Life at IIT- Madras

Though my overall rank in the IIT-JEE was not that great (992), I was 4th in the physically handicapped category. So, I joined IIT, Madras to study Computer Science.

Here, my role model was Karthik who was also my senior in school. I looked up to him during my years at IIT- Madras.

He had asked for attached bathrooms for those with special needs before I came here itself. So, when I came here, the room had attached bath. He used to help me and guide me a lot when I was here.

I evolved as a person in these four years, both academically and personally. It has been a great experience studying here. The people I was interacting with were so brilliant that I felt privileged to sit along with them in the class. Just by speaking to my lab mates, I gained a lot.

'There are more good people in society than bad ones'

July 28, 2008

W ords are inadequate to express my gratitude to Prof Pandurangan and all my lab mates; all were simply great. I was sent to Boston along with four others for our internship by Prof Pandurangan. It was a great experience.

Joining Google R&D

I did not want to pursue PhD as I wanted my parents to take rest now.

Morgan Stanley selected me first but I preferred Google because I wanted to work in pure computer science, algorithms and game theory.

I am lucky

Do you know why I say I am lucky?

I get help from total strangers without me asking for it. Once after my second year at IIT, I with some of my friends was travelling in a train for a conference. We met a kind gentleman called Sundar in the train, and he has been taking care of my hostel fees from then on.

I have to mention about Jaipur foot. I had Jaipur foot when I was in 3rd standard. After two years, I stopped using them. As I had almost no stems on my legs, it was very tough to tie them to the body. I found walking with Jaipur foot very, very slow. Sitting also was a problem. I found my tricycle faster because I am one guy who wants to do things faster.

One great thing about the hospital is, they don't think their role ends by just fixing the Jaipur foot; they arrange for livelihood for all. They asked me what help I needed from them. I told them at that time, if I got into an IIT, I needed financial help from them. So, from the day I joined IIT, Madras , my fees were taken care of by them. So, my education at the IIT was never a burden on my parents and they could take care of my sister's Nursing studies.

Surprise awaited me at IIT

After my first year, when I went home, two things happened here at the Institute without my knowledge.

I got a letter from my department that they had arranged a lift and ramps at the department for me. It also said that if I came a bit early and checked whether it met with my requirements, it would be good.

Second surprise was, the Dean, Prof Idichandy and the Students General Secretary, Prasad had located a place that sold powered wheel chairs. The cost was Rs 55,000. What they did was, they did not buy the wheel chair; they gave me the money so that the wheel chair belonged to me and not the institute.

My life changed after that. I felt free and independent.

That's why I say I am lucky. God has planned things for me and takes care of me at every step.

The world is full of good people

I also feel if you are motivated and show some initiative, people around you will always help you. I also feel there are more good people in society than bad ones. I want all those who read this to feel that if Naresh can achieve something in life, you can too.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: JWMRK

Nishh🤗..........and all 😳😳😳

Sorry if this sounds mushy or boring.......and also that its off topic...please close thread if required😊
I was quite disturbed yesterday night and today morning........Also because one of the nicest people I know .......you... were feeling ruffled......and I felt inadequate that I could not come up with anything sensible to tell you.........Also that none of the serials I watch and thier characters seem to have it easy.
Well then today morning....someone forwarded a message today in the office .....about the achievements of a young man Naresh Karutara who has passed out of a premier engineering college in India; IIT Madras.
http://www.funenclave.com/reality-bites/naga-naresh-karutura-fighter-banks-godavari-20773.html

Pasta 🤗 thanks for this...well i know...how does it feels...hardwork pays off...😲....i will believe this when...i feel see it happening with me...and whom i love...not before that....
i dont know and hate to be the way i am...very emotional...😡 why i am like this...😭..you know my friend...wont name him was always of very helping nature..he used to help anyone..any accidents on road nd he is the first person to get the person admitted in the hospital...gives blood...a month back...he found a guy on road...he took him to the hospital...nd when he volunteered to give his blood...hisblood test showed him..that he is Hepatitis B+ ........he is a software engineer...very bright student...only son and now this...we all know about this..except his own parents...he doesnt want to tell them....so why this happend with him ????
he is now..pursuing everyone os us to get a vaccicne for the same...as he missed it...i am too scared of needles ...but he is trying hard to convince me😆....so this is life
hats off to the guy you mentioned....👏we all are very fortunate to get everything easily in life yet cribbing..esp me.😆..who always had the laurels of everything... i accept am i spoil brat.....trying to change myself...trying..for sure😊
thanks for sharing this...and sorry ..you know for what..😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: JWMRK


.and restore my belief that at the end of the day.......hard work does pay off, so does nicety.........and that we cannot control what happens to us



Oh yeah, I find this so true..Just work hard for yourself, coz it'll be you who benefits after...I always believed this 😃😳..and yup well sometimes things are just beyond our control, but then again we HAVE to fight it..😕😃

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Nishhh......some more hugs🤗🤗......chal gimme a smile😊😳



Oye gadheri..gimme smile..say CHEEEEEEEESEEEE muhahaha 😆



Originally posted by: JWMRK



Anishhaaa🤗🤗......do one of your crackling posts.........We really need a good laugh😊😳



Ahan..later after the episode for sure 😃😛...laughter is the besto medicine 😃..ju also smileeeee😃

Originally posted by: JWMRK

I never wallowed in self-pity.



^^ that line there is so true..no one should do that 😕 that makes things worse sometimes 🤔

Originally posted by: JWMRK



The world is full of good people

I also feel if you are motivated and show some initiative, people around you will always help you. I also feel there are more good people in society than bad ones. I want all those who read this to feel that if Naresh can achieve something in life, you can too.



^^ woahh this one is so true as well 😃😃...just work hard and I know for sure people will get to their destination 😃 Just be something in life..and this guy showed anything is possible..just keep at it 😃

Thankoo so much for sharing this article JW..its really nice and to hear these kinda stories showing us what people have been thru to get to where they are today....😳 I read it like 3 times 😆😆😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nishtha

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i dont know and hate to be the way i am...very emotional...😡 why i am like this...😭..



Oye now why are you saying this..Grr..I never use this emo 😡 but I won't use it 😛😛 coz ish ju...ummm well don't say "why I am like this" 🥱🥱...Just be proud of who and what youu are 😃..I told ju before..Everyone is different

Originally posted by: Nishtha



you know my friend...wont name him was always of very helping nature..he used to help anyone..any accidents on road nd he is the first person to get the person admitted in the hospital...gives blood...a month back...he found a guy on road...he took him to the hospital...nd when he volunteered to give his blood...hisblood test showed him..that he is Hepatitis B+ ........he is a software engineer...very bright student...only son and now this...we all know about this..except his own parents...he doesnt want to tell them....so why this happend with him ????



^^ thats really sad..😕such is life...duno why but this kinda stuff always happens to good people 🥱🥱

Originally posted by: Nishtha


he is now..pursuing everyone os us to get a vaccicne for the same...as he missed it...i am too scared of needles ...but he is trying hard to convince me😆....so this is life



Yeahh well he's just trying to make sure your spared from it..coz obviously it takes ones experience to influence someone else...

Originally posted by: Nishtha


we all are very fortunate to get everything easily in life yet cribbing..esp me.😆..who always had the laurels of everything... i accept am i spoil brat.....trying to change myself...trying..for sure😊



Oh yeah, we sometimes take things for granted..but just appreciate what you have and where you are and thankoos to whoever helped you get there 😃😃...well no harm in trying 😳😃but like I said, just be PROUDD

Hmm duno if I should be saying all that stuff to you Nish 😕😕 but cholly 😕😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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shut up burger😡.😆.cant reply in length😆..but you HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SAY ANYTHING😳...dare u ask this again..man...i have to do something to get the laughter back to this forum😕😆...nd i am Proud of what i am.....but i cant see...my lovedones in trouble...thats it😊....
chalo..no more...pitty piitta post.🤢😆.lets dissect..Simarto and Maneater..again😆😆😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hawww 😆😆 no..me dont wanna sharap 😆

well laughter is already here..unleash urself too 😆😆😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Burgers laughter dose

Nish stop acting upset like ur rishboat and smile!!

JW :lovely post!!

Luv,

Shagun
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Posted: 17 years ago
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@Chips: Stop crying fr once...
@JW: Awesome post..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Yes i am not crying anymore 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ehh what laughter dose 😆😆😆

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