Sai doesn't want to be Sai Chavan page 6 - Page 25

Originally posted by: Micheal_Farzi

Sai should learn from Ayesha

Seriously 🤣

Originally posted by: janecastle

As fans, some of us fought so hard for Sai and her right to not take shit from Virat and walk away. But now she is determined to prove that she deserves no support from her fans, especially the way she runs back to that cheating piece of crap. Having a soft corner, some residual feelings is different form declaring full on that she cannot live if something happens to him. That's not something you say to person you are trying to move away from, a person who has abused and hurt you from the age of 18.

The problem is Sai doesn’t understand abuse.

She understood it in case of Jagtap probably.

But since Virat had been her husband and she had been fed by Ashwini and Usha that he loves her, she thinks this is all normal.

He has done all these because of his extreme love for her.

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Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

@bold

If she does that, it would be being disloyal to Satya.

Loyalty isn’t always physical.

It’s emotional, mental and psychological as well.

In alpt of ways she has been disloyal too him already I'm not liking it one bit

Satya still may love Girija.

But he has started feeling for Sai as well.

Girija will always have a different place in his life and Sai a different place.

I don’t think Satya will place Sai in Girija’s place and vice-versa.

Both have made separate places in his heart due to different qualities of each.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I am confused on one reaction of Sai though.

Why did she have tears when Virat first said ‘ I love you and then accused her of cheating and I hate you’?

If she isn’t sure that she loves him still or not, she shouldn’t be crying after what he said.

Her words and her actions differ in this case.

That scene pissed me soo much lol

Satay is saad in making

He will be the one collecting Sai up and healing her ever time vorat hurt her

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Poor Satya

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Satya still may love Girija.

But he has started feeling for Sai as well.

Girija will always have a different place in his life and Sai a different place.

I don’t think Satya will place Sai in Girija’s place and vice-versa.

Both have made separate places in his heart due to different qualities of each.

So why don't you have the belief that over time Satya will also carve out a place in Sais life even though her first love was V. Today despite that love for V she is married to Satya, she didn't go back to V even though V proposed, she didn't go back even just to play family because of kids.

Sai hasn't moved on as quickly as Satya has but Satyas past is dead and he doesn't have kids with her as a living reminder either, yet he took so long to give a second chance to life and love. But Sai has 2 kids and is confronted everyday by her past.

My opinion regarding how could Satya move on this fast from Girija.He has been suffering and being in love with Girija even after her death for 8 years so this moving on is not so fast.His love for Girija is still better than Virat's instant yoga love for Pakhi which only lasts for few days.Didn't Virat also fall fast for Sai when he said he will always love Pakhi.All the ML's of this show have forgotten their first love too quickly becoz of Sai lol.Satya is just in the nascent stage of love he has spent lots of time(having romantic scenes with Sai) and also seen Sai taking stand for him & his family this has made him fall for her.He also didn't have Girija with him to distract him for moving on.I know him falling for Sai is random but his love for Girija isn't timepass nahi toh it wouldn't have taken him 8 years to move on.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

There is difference between having residual feelings and acting on it is soo different

Satya Sai both have feeling for their ex partner

But only one of them is giving those looks to that ex partner while being married to someone else

Sai is the one shouting that she can't live without virat while being married to satya

Sai holding Virat Hand while being married to satya

I'm so sorry but even if Sai isn't hiding these things from Satay and doing it on his face that doesn't make it right

Probably makes it less problematic in some ways

But it's still wrong

If Satay was doing that woth girja it would have been wrong too

Virat did exactly this with Sai too

Sai knew Virat was in love woth pakhi and he used to hang out woth pakhi be this bestie give pakhi those sad looks in front of Sai

Lol

Girija is dead so he can't hold her hand like Sai is doing. So he was doing what was possible - holding her things, her memories. Hallucinating about her . In front of Sai he showed her the box of her things, her photos. He mentioned her name in the OR too.

So Sai thinks he is also still in love with Girija only. She doesn't know about his changed feelings.

If Sai had a dream of V, Satya had dreams of Girija too.

Just because he's moving on quicker than Sai doesn't mean that Sai will never move on.

Comparing V to Sai is very wrong.

Sai and Satya are not Sai V. V led on an 18 yo orphan with a contract of 5 years until her studies were finished. And blatantly lied to her and watched her be insulted by his family. Sai is not doing that to Satya. Their arrangement is different.

If she wanted to act on her residual feelings she'd have gone back to V and no one could've stopped her.

And calling Sai worse than P is appalling. P is s criminal. She used to plan to be physically close to V, get in bed with him even though both she and him were unavailable and married to others. Sai is not doing any such things. She's trying to stay away but her circumstances have been extreme and keep forcing her back into facing V everyday. She's not been like P and accepted Vs lies.

I have faith that Sai wont be turned into a V. She's better than him in every way.

Satya has a past - but she's dead and gone. And he has no daily reminders about her except for his memory box, dreams

Sai has a past but he's in front of her every single day, she has 2 children as living breathing reminders of him too.

So comparing Satya and Sai and their ability to move on isn't fair.

With a dead Girija if Satya was so involved in her memories and hallucinated her everyday, touched her things everday, imagine what it'd be if Satya had a similar past like Sai. We'd never know. But theres a good chance Satya would do everything Sai is doing if he were in her shoes or maybe more . who knows. so theres absolutely no comparison of Sai with Satya in terms of the past- yes Satya shouldnt be cheated and Sai should be more conscious to move on with him and away from V and not hurt him even if its a deal but we cannot compare Sai to anyone else. she has never wronged anyone- even the people who have hurt her like V, P, CN folks. She would not wrong those who have been by her side then- like Satya and his family. thats my belief. if the makers do butcher her then no option but to curse them and quit watching.

Originally posted by: Nja91

So why don't you have the belief that over time Satya will also carve out a place in Sais life even though her first love was V. Today despite that love for V she is married to Satya, she didn't go back to V even though V proposed, she didn't go back even just to play family because of kids.

Sai hasn't moved on as quickly as Satya has but Satyas past is dead and he doesn't have kids with her as a living reminder either, yet he took so long to give a second chance to life and love. But Sai has 2 kids and is confronted everyday by her past.

I am not saying I don’t have belief/ hope that Satya will carve a place for himself in her life.

But till now, her actions have not indicated anything like that.

She said she wants to care for her children as Sai Joshi.

And that she can’t imagine her children’s life without Virat.

Where is Satya in all this?

That’s why I am yet doubtful of her giving or rather allowing any place for Satya in her heart.