Sai doesn't want to be Sai Chavan page 6 - Page 13

Originally posted by: pratyay

Mujhe laga thodi khushi hogi forum mein. Satya is still intact to some degree. Why are we not happy for this small mercy, it can be snatched away but now it is here and enjoy it? Imagine Satya becoming Pakhi 2.0....HA doesn't deserve it. We don't deserve it.

Let's be happy guys till it exists

The clips before episode were released lol that destroyed things 🤣

Alot of people don't even want to watch episode after seeing virat Jaap 🤣

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Sad for such characters. In the end, they get nothing and are bumped off from the show unceremoniously.

Right now Sarya is looking like Samrat 2.0 in making. Give silently- knowing ITV ka pyar for cringe OG ships he may meet the fate you said. I hipe not though and Sai see difference in two men.

PS: This does not mean that I am saying Sai is PL- No never

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

A week haven’t passed since he got married and he has already forgotten about girija. Bhai kaisa pyar tha tera or were you just pretending to be lovesick🤔

Ghum ka time line me this could be months.

Remember Sai became doctor in one year- based on that its roughly ~5 times of whatever is shown so we can assume Satya and her spent atleast 5 weeks

Originally posted by: Sab07

@Bold
This could have come out because of her internalized fear that she is not likable due to how Virat and Chavans treated her. And Virat also told her that no one will love her. (As always I wish this came w some FBs or monologues, but Sai’s emotions are always kept bottled up)

Remember she said this under her hallucinating state after Vinu’s rejection that is she so bad that everyone wants to leave her?

She needs help- serious help. Hope Makers now show that through Sai and Satya and focus on it- rather than cringe love someone no matter what.

At this point of time expecting anything from them is useless

Lol I really don't think they will ever bring Sai the justice

They are doing completely opposite instead they trying to white wash virat at the expense of both Sai and Satya

This show has one thing from day 1 is there way of white washing virat without any redemption Arc or any change action on vorat part

Just send him on mission or blame Sai for everything or Pakhi

This is cringe fest I will quitting this show soon honestly

I wanna focus on the positives because ghum has pathetic writing, direction.

Sai technically has reason to follow them because if these guys in bomb squad, V get injured, SaiYa have to manage their medical conditions

What wasn't necessary was the - tumhe meri kasam, utho. But thankfully she did not say ILU, mere liye utho. I wish she had given only bacchon ki kasam.

The holding of Vs hand also was very unecessary and made me angry. I was disgusted by it.

But in the conversation with Satya , Sai's feelings are explained. Basically she loved V genuinely always, she can never wish ill on him, she wants him to be happy and move on and she believes that love isn't enough in her relationship with V because everything has gone wrong. In one moment V says ILU , Sai believes him but he always destroys it all by CAing Sai, misjudging her, not prioritizing her and disrespecting her. She has been in that vicious cycle too many times. So she no longer knows how to label her feelings for V because its definitely parvaah but maybe not Pyaar. She will never stop caring because for her it was the first time she loved so those feelings were intense. Unlike us audience Sai doesn't recognize Vs actions as abuse because she's been gaslit so much. Thats why she cant get out of it. But she definitely recognizes that they aren't good for each other coz she says sab galat hi hua hai in V and her relationship.

Satya asks her straight up questions today - including - don't you think about going back to him. P is now out too.

Sais response is clear - I don't want to be Sai V C. I want to be Sai Joshi and raise my kids. And I don't wanna go back. Thats the crux that I'm holding onto.

Makers made the episode very unappealing in many bits but Ayeshas acting salvaged it. She didn't make the scenes of her panicking over Vs health when the blast happens or afterwards to be cringe. But even so I dont like watching Sai say meri kasam to V, or holding his hand.

But she's honest with Satya about her dilemma, her confusions and also what she wants and what she is sure of - she does NOT want to be Vs wife. She may not love Satya but she doesn't think love is enough reason to reconcile with V. Thats a start.

Sai loved V. Sattu loved Girija. Sattu has found love again far too quickly though. Sai needs to get to that point too.

In the precap shes making sure there's no disrespect to Satya and i hope that unlike V, Sai will genuinely move on with Sattu. She needs time but she'll get there.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Satya is being used as a shield by Sai to not get back to Virat for her promise to Vinu..Bas that's his only existence in her life, baaki she will keep getting back to Virat momentarily whenever "situations force" her to..

Sai Bai on her way to become two timer.

Although I don't trust ITV Makers at all, one thing that ITV doesn't do is make their FLs a two-timer, at least not a typical dramatic show like GHKPM, where the TV target audience doesn't go much into depth, they just take things on face value, & where the pulling factor is the FL.

Sai has been in a toxic relationship with Virat for way too long, it will take some time for her to get over that relationship, & to take the second chance that life has given her through Satya. It's not like she doesn't notice Satya, she does, but her residual feelings for Virat, the constant hurt, and trauma he has given her clutches her tightly. This is exactly why things transpired the way they did today, for Satya to realize that Sai is far away from where he is at this point, & she will need him back by her side, as a friend to reach a common point in terms of their relationship. To really start afresh, Sai has to heal, which seemingly only Satya could do, with his patience (well, only if makers don't ruin him to whitewash Virat). Plus most importantly, Sai might be able to trust the DCP Virat, because she has seen him working, but she is most probably unable to trust him in general. & they didn't let Satya be in any denial or any delusion. He now has clarity after speaking to Sai, & I think Sai was being honest with him about her confusion. She just wants to look after her kids without being Virat's wife. Because being Virat's wife has just given her a great amount of pain, but being a mother to her kids has given her solace, something she really wishes for. But they eventually come with a connection to Virat as their father which she simply cannot snap because of how much her kids love him. She told Satya that she never considered going back to Virat, & in all honesty, she never did. But the question here is, Why? With Paakhi gone & Vinu adopting her as his Aai, & Satya not holding her back, she had the choice to go back, but she chose not to. There is something stopping her from going back to Virat, & it's not about Vinu, Savi, or Satya anymore. There is a part of Sai that doesn't wants to go back to Virat because of how he has hurt, betrayed, and disappointed her in more ways than she could even keep an account of. She knows that their relationship is soo badly demented that even coming back together will not sort things out between them, it is never going to be the same. Also, sometimes we still care about people who have done nothing but bad to us, just because they are related to us and we have loved them deeply in the past. But the wounds run soo deep that in spite of having feelings for them, a major part of us is unwilling to go back to them, is unwilling to put ourselves back into the same position where the other person has the capacity to hurt us all over again. The reason Sai married Satya was what she exactly said today, running away from Virat, hence also running away from his toxicity. & that part of Sai really wants to move on, she actually doesn't want to feel what she feels for Virat, because that part of her realizes Virat's toxicity & lack of respect for her. & her self-respect is an important element in that part of Sai. Satya should try and heal Sai, instead of trying to make her fall in love with him & stay back with him. Once Sai is healed, he should leave the choice to Sai, whether she wants to be with him, go back to Virat, or even just stay single. & there have been multiple signs of Satya being Sai's healer, & her being his protector. Also, for Sai this is a deal marriage, she will take her own time to react to the idea of her & Satya being a couple positively. One thing they sorted out today is that Sai has given up on the hope of Paakhi coming back, so at least the stress of finding her is off her head. Now she could focus on other things that matter.

Also, I do feel they are not going back to SaiRat again, because there is nothing left to show there, they have completely exhausted that angle & it's too late to reunite them back. SaiYa is a fresh angle, fresh story, bought in with new characters, even if they only focus on SaiYa, they at least have 1 year's worth of content right there. Plus Harshad & Ayesha seem to have good chemistry, & seemingly audience has accepted them. Most TRP audience doesn't care about Virat's DDP, they enjoy it, for them Sai's DDP is supreme. Plus they have connected Satya to Chavans in a way that doesn't involve Sai. So there is drama too. Also, Virat has been the only ML for more than 2.5 years, & audiences have seen enough of him, there is nothing new, it's always just his monotonous majboori, zimmedaari, so called pyaar & missions going in circles, & now he is Devdas. & Romance is also a key factor to keep any ITV show running, giving Sai any kind of romance with Virat at this point would be cringe. They have to resort to SaiYa for that (exactly what they have been doing). Even today, if they gave the scene with Sai panicking for Virat, they also gave the scene with Satya-Sai talking about it, with honesty & without any inhibitions. I know they will make Sai pendulum between Satya & Virat for a while, but from a logical POV & as a writer myself, there is nothing left for Sai & Virat as a pairing. What the makers are most probably doing right now by giving Sai & Virat scenes is to keep the old viewers intact & simultaneously develop SaiYa, because SaiRat has been there for way too long & they simply can't finish it off in a span of few episodes, especially when SaiYa has just begun. They have kept the whole angle of Satya being related to Chavans, just to keep Virat & Chavans relevant to the story once Sai starts falling for Satya because then there is no going back to Virat once that happens. Plus the current introduction of the show doesn't mention Satya as being obsessive & insecure but Virat. Obviously, they will try to show that even though Virat is obsessive, he is a so-called good DCP through all the "missions" (Whitewashing toh honi hi hai) & Sai's reaction to it will keep evolving with time.

PS. SORRY FOR MY BIG RANT. HAD A NUMBER OF THOUGHTS GOING THROUGH MY HEAD AT ONCE. I HOPE I WAS ABLE TO ARTICULATE IT PROPERLY. (Professional hazard. Can't stop writing once I get into the flow.)

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

Sai will fast for Virat 🤡

I'm 100% sure

She will imagine virat or will say his name or will think about virat while fasting 😆

Just wait and watch 😎

Chalo Kaku can be happy now, there is atleast one commodity who will take care of Virat's long life, despite hime being a drunkard. Sacha pyaar wala sacha upwaas.

Satya is seriously like im soo done with this when can I leave 🤣

I am also upset at Sai holding Vs hand. That was completely unecessary.

but her dialogues to Satya salvage it. I hope Sattu can get Sai to commit one way or another. She needs to be more clear in her head why she's chosen to reject V and renind herself of those reasons. Remind herself of why she left him in the first place. And Sai needs help to recognize that what she went through was abuse.

I do not like agree with terms like doormat or masochist because it perpetrates victim shaming which is an extremely problematic thing to do.

she does not recognize V as an abuser like us audience and many educated women also are stuck in similar situations. They cant label what they face as abuse.

Originally posted by: CrazieChiraiya

Although I don't trust ITV Makers at all, one thing that ITV doesn't do is make their FLs a two-timer, at least not a typical dramatic show like GHKPM, where the TV target audience doesn't go much into depth, they just take things on face value, & where the pulling factor is the FL.

Sai has been in a toxic relationship with Virat for way too long, it will take some time for her to get over that relationship, & to take the second chance that life has given her through Satya. It's not like she doesn't notice Satya, she does, but her residual feelings for Virat, the constant hurt, and trauma he has given her clutches her tightly. This is exactly why things transpired the way they did today, for Satya to realize that Sai is far away from where he is at this point, & she will need him back by her side, as a friend to reach a common point in terms of their relationship. To really start afresh, Sai has to heal, which seemingly only Satya could do, with his patience (well, only if makers don't ruin him to whitewash Virat). Plus most importantly, Sai might be able to trust the DCP Virat, because she has seen him working, but she is most probably unable to trust him in general. & they didn't let Satya be in any denial or any delusion. He now has clarity after speaking to Sai, & I think Sai was being honest with him about her confusion. She just wants to look after her kids without being Virat's wife. Because being Virat's wife has just given her a great amount of pain, but being a mother to her kids has given her solace, something she really wishes for. But they eventually come with a connection to Virat as their father which she simply cannot snap because of how much her kids love him. She told Satya that she never considered going back to Virat, & in all honesty, she never did. But the question here is, Why? With Paakhi gone & Vinu adopting her as his Aai, & Satya not holding her back, she had the choice to go back, but she chose not to. There is something stopping her from going back to Virat, & it's not about Vinu, Savi, or Satya anymore. There is a part of Sai that doesn't wants to go back to Virat because of how he has hurt, betrayed, and disappointed her in more ways than she could even keep an account of. She knows that their relationship is soo badly demented that even coming back together will not sort things out between them, it is never going to be the same. Also, sometimes we still care about people who have done nothing but bad to us, just because they are related to us and we have loved them deeply in the past. But the wounds run soo deep that in spite of having feelings for them, a major part of us is unwilling to go back to them, is unwilling to put ourselves back into the same position where the other person has the capacity to hurt us all over again. The reason Sai married Satya was what she exactly said today, running away from Virat, hence also running away from his toxicity. & that part of Sai really wants to move on, she actually doesn't want to feel what she feels for Virat, because that part of her realizes Virat's toxicity & lack of respect for her. & her self-respect is an important element in that part of Sai. Satya should try and heal Sai, instead of trying to make her fall in love with him & stay back with him. Once Sai is healed, he should leave the choice to Sai, whether she wants to be with him, go back to Virat, or even just stay single. & there have been multiple signs of Satya being Sai's healer, & her being his protector. Also, for Sai this is a deal marriage, she will take her own time to react to the idea of her & Satya being a couple positively. One thing they sorted out today is that Sai has given up on the hope of Paakhi coming back, so at least the stress of finding her is off her head. Now she could focus on other things that matter.

Also, I do feel they are not going back to SaiRat again, because there is nothing left to show there, they have completely exhausted that angle & it's too late to reunite them back. SaiYa is a fresh angle, fresh story, bought in with new characters, even if they only focus on SaiYa, they at least have 1 year's worth of content right there. Plus Harshad & Ayesha seem to have good chemistry, & seemingly audience has accepted them. Most TRP audience doesn't care about Virat's DDP, they enjoy it, for them Sai's DDP is supreme. Plus they have connected Satya to Chavans in a way that doesn't involve Sai. So there is drama too. Also, Virat has been the only ML for more than 2.5 years, & audiences have seen enough of him, there is nothing new, it's always just his monotonous majboori, zimmedaari, so called pyaar & missions going in circles, & now he is Devdas. & Romance is also a key factor to keep any ITV show running, giving Sai any kind of romance with Virat at this point would be cringe. They have to resort to SaiYa for that (exactly what they have been doing). Even today, if they gave the scene with Sai panicking for Virat, they also gave the scene with Satya-Sai talking about it, with honesty & without any inhibitions. I know they will make Sai pendulum between Satya & Virat for a while, but from a logical POV & as a writer myself, there is nothing left for Sai & Virat as a pairing. What the makers are most probably doing right now by giving Sai & Virat scenes is to keep the old viewers intact & simultaneously develop SaiYa, because SaiRat has been there for way too long & they simply can't finish it off in a span of few episodes, especially when SaiYa has just begun. They have kept the whole angle of Satya being related to Chavans, just to keep Virat & Chavans relevant to the story once Sai starts falling for Satya because then there is no going back to Virat once that happens. Plus the current introduction of the show doesn't mention Satya as being obsessive & insecure but Virat. Obviously, they will try to show that even though Virat is obsessive, he is a so-called good DCP through all the "missions" (Whitewashing toh honi hi hai) & Sai's reaction to it will keep evolving with time.

PS. SORRY FOR MY BIG RANT. HAD A NUMBER OF THOUGHTS GOING THROUGH MY HEAD AT ONCE. I HOPE I WAS ABLE TO ARTICULATE IT PROPERLY. (Professional hazard. Can't stop writing once I get into the flow.)

Wow this is such great feedback 👏🏾

Thanks soo much for putting this forward

You bought some amazing points

There is no story left of Sai Virat

Sai isn't eveb comfortable with the idea if going back to virat

Satya really need to be the secure pillar for Sai he have to be patient with her

He can actually heal her and help her realize that what it's like to be in a non toxic relationship

Let's see what the story unfolds