Originally posted by: Snowfally
I simply can't understand why Sai has sympathy for this abuser! After seeing that Sai was the only one who could take care of Vinu, he is still trying to distance her from him. Why is the strong Sai ghum? Also fed up that Vinu is always getting favoured over Savi. Vinu is always going to be in trouble because of Chavans, Savi doesn't deserve losing time with Sai because of this. Ever since the 'witch' track, Savi is getting sidelined. Sai makes time for Vinu but Virat doesn't do it for Savi. While Sai was with Vinu, why couldn't Virat go to Adhikaris for Savi or request Sai to bring Savi with her next time. Sai is taking responsibility for both the kids while Virat is busy playing victim and creating further messes.
Hi, I shall try to answer your question. Hopefully, you shall have the patience to survive the long essay from an oldie 🥺
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to why women may become attached to abusive relationships, as there are many complex and interrelated factors that may contribute to this phenomenon. One probable theory is trauma bonding, whereby abuse creates an intense emotional bond between the abuser and the victim. The victim may feel dependent on the abuser for emotional support or a sense of security, which can make it difficult to leave the relationship.
In Sai's case, Virat came into her life when she was grieving her father, and their relationship grew slowly and intensively. However, love can make it harder for women to leave abusive relationships. It is important to remember that love is a complex emotion that can involve many different factors, such as attachment, loyalty, and a desire to help or "fix" the abuser.
Women who are in abusive relationships may genuinely love their partner, despite the abuse they are experiencing. In this case, the abuser has also used expressions of love or affection as a way to manipulate the victim into staying in the relationship.
For many people, it can be difficult to forget their first love. This is because first love is often associated with intense emotions, new experiences, and a sense of novelty that can be hard to replicate in future relationships.
That being said, everyone's experience with first love is unique, and some people may find it easier than others to move on from this relationship. It is important to remember that it is normal to have lingering feelings or memories about a past relationship, but it is also possible to find love and happiness in future relationships. With time, self-care, and support from loved ones, it is possible to heal from the pain of a past relationship and move forward with your life.
That's why I am curious to see Saiya bloom. The duality, residual feelings, and dichotomy in both Satya and Sai's minds will make an interesting story. Satya has the capability to heal, and he isn't traumatized or bitter from his past. He isn't seeking attention but instead is a giver in the relationship, which is a striking contrast to the Sairat relationship. Virat was dealing with Pakhi's reminiscent feelings when he got married to Sai and lacked the basic care that needs to be given to someone who is grieving or dealing with death. Satya, on the contrary, has the grounded sanity of empathy, which makes him an ideal partner and lover for the future. I can't wait to see his passionate side when this slow burn bursts into flames
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