I feel for Patralekha - Page 7

Originally posted by: Vlover

Actually ma'am you would have got the gist of the sympathy that you are possessing for Pakhi in the course of hate that everyone have for her and I am also the one but since this question is about PL as mother and not as what she was as human, it's totally okay for you to feel bad for her though you started watching it recently . I am not the one who can answer this because I somehow liked Virat and that subconscious impressions are still with me and the other point is that I am a boy 19-20 so this factors makes me inadequate of sensibility and maturity in this regard. But then also I just want to ask ladies about this ,that they really hate pakhi this much that they are okay with whatever pakhi is going through after leap and infact want even more because if I will consider from my end I also felt Pakhi is the root cause of every problem and the reason that quadrilateral being terribly formed but for me though the mode she is using is wrong definitely after when she knows about what this situation wants from her and why Virat and Vinu is not able to atleast move from the position they are standing from the last 8 years ,she is not totally wrong there I believe in karma but for me the way most of the women just in the love of one character gives her hate and this way when they are two totally different scenarios, it really feels horrible though it's harsh but truth. Karma is karma I agree but when Sai went through all that pakhi was negative and Sai was positive and now the situation is totally opposite they both are mothers if PL would have been negative, a reserved mindset in my brain then also would have had pity for a mother, for a moment imagine if jagtap would have had a daughter and that old avatar and therefore when this is not even the case the pain she is going through I don't think so it is right when she is really left with no one.......

Yes, for being the adopted mother of Vinu, i have sympathies for her. However, where was her sympathy when she took away a baby from his mother, the mother who was declared that she will never have a child. Where was her sympathy as a woman when she kept a mother away from her child throughout the nine months of pregnancy?

She doesn't reflect on her actions. She just thinks that the world revolves around her and only she feels pain. She is selfish to the core.

Now what about Sai who lost her husband and who lived with the pain of losing her son all these years? Wouldn't a mother want her son who she thought was dead? N that too now in the hands of a vile, lusty and selfish woman!?

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

. Maybe I would have pity for her if she didn’t wanted Sai to leave Nagpur after Savi’s truth came out. She was simply selfish there and was not a mother. After leap when she thinks that Sai have child with someone else she was okay with them but when got to know about Savi being Virat’s daughter she took complete u turn there. After vinu’s truth Sai was greatful to her but she only thought about herself and feed jaadugarni story and scared the child so much that he didn’t wanted to come out from his room. How was she a mother thare. She broke Savi’s nameplate which woman who is a mother do that. She just wants to hold Virat and it is not possible without Vinu as she herself told Sai. That is the only reason for her love for Vinu. After Savi truth just say one thing that she did from without being selfish.

I can say on this because I am not the who loves Sai though because of certain limited reasons and therefore not possess that much hate what others feel for pakhi but dealing it collectively when you dealt with PL wrt savi

Shock- because for me why a woman will not be in a shock when she will get to know about all this in a situation that from the last 7-8years, the ex wife for whom his current husband was initially for about one year depressed, drinking all the time and wanted to suicide and was listening to no one means no one then atlast his mother gave him her kasam and somehow he found an orphan kid to be the reason to live his life and then only for that he married her and had not even allowed her to touch him for these many years let aside love and babies and the only one whom she got love from is the kid that she adopted and nurtured with love so if suddenly that lady will come with a baby then also a sense of insecurity arises when this is his husband's history and definitely you will be in a position bolte hai na pairo ke neeche se jameen khisak jaana when his ex wife is with the daughter who also belongs to her husband that reaction was definitely normal from a wife as per my aspect if I am wrong pls correct me and yeah one important aspect is that at one side she is the one who was only being associated with Virat because of an agreement I should say just for co parenting and an adopted kid whom she loved and the other side I described what sai was for Virat and then his daughter so her reaction was totally understandable

Savi-Sai's departure: It was not like she wanted Virat and Vinu was and is the agent ,no ma'am it's not that she loves him as mother it can be clearly seen and the reason why she wanted sai to leave with savi was just a bholi ma somehow matlabi residing in her because she didn't want Vinu to get treated as orphan though she was wrong wrt Virat he was just so happy after getting his daughter that somehow Vinu indirectly got treated like that but she did only for that yeah she was selfish there not once thought of Virat and Savi but being a mother and nothing else if you consider any further things like breaking name plate, dyan wali story to Vinu, etc it was all somehow her anger and her fear of Vinu getting away from her it's not this easy though yeah this was all from her and nothing else and when you talked about gratitude towards PL for vinu for me this little repeatative gestures from Sai matters when the action is of this magnitude that she also wanted Vinu without having a little sensitivity towards other mother where her only enemy is her past.......last point I don't know why you linked everything with this statement and with a different meaning when PL said Sai that it was not what you said infact she said that

you feel that you are the only one who is smart here, you know that Virat will never be residing there where his children are not be there mera pati bhi mera bachcha bhi aur ye ghar bhi

This was the line as far as remember she wants her family and definitely Vinayak because she knows Virat never loved her and will never gonna love her whatever may......

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

If she was a mother she would have known that Sai is the real mother of vinu. A mother would know a child's health is more important than winning over a race. A mother should have known other mothers feelings A mother should have known a child's heart. A mother should have known child's trauma and how to protect him and help him to overcome it. A mother should have known her happiness is in her child's happiness . I can write long essay but have no time . PL is putana , a bitch in the name of mother who paints herself as yashoda maiyya.she is, was and always a pathetic being who will never ever be sympathized by the viewers.

Ma'am what I can really sense in your message is the hate for PL as woman and as the one who destroyed Sai's life every dimension mainly her married life and her children and I really respect this because I am not in your position where I can really sense this all to the extent that you are doing so but if you are saying all these, you are forgetting about savi what she had gone through its all being mentioned by you only because of Sai's decision with no real definite appendages and ego factor, I know it's really hard to be neutral with favourites but you can definitely be, and when you talk about PL being there in all these situations you mentioned most of them are because Sai came back otherwise she was the one who kept herself aside whenever the topic was about Vinu.........pls don't call her bit*h and putana she was bad but not is this is not even close to what she was I was a pakhi hater once but I believe that if jagtap can be forgiven then why not PL......

Originally posted by: Vlover

Ma'am what I can really sense in your message is the hate for PL as woman and as the one who destroyed Sai's life every dimension mainly her married life and her children and I really respect this because I am not in your position where I can really sense this all to the extent that you are doing so but if you are saying all these, you are forgetting about savi what she had gone through its all being mentioned by you only because of Sai's decision with no real definite appendages and ego factor, I know it's really hard to be neutral with favourites but you can definitely be, and when you talk about PL being there in all these situations you mentioned most of them are because Sai came back otherwise she was the one who kept herself aside whenever the topic was about Vinu.........pls don't call her bit*h and putana she was bad but not is this is not even close to what she was I was a pakhi hater once but I believe that if jagtap can be forgiven then why not PL......

It's good to see a different POV from a different gender and age group. However I will disagree that PL should be forgiven the same way as Jagtap. The emotional and physical damage done by Pakhi from the surrogacy track cannot be compared with Jagtap. I might sound harsh but only a mother can understand the pain Sai went through when Pakhi did the illegal surrogacy. On top of it her husband snatched away the baby from her and gave to Pakhi again. Also Sai didn't leave the house due to ego. She definitely knows that her kid is not safe in this dangerous regressive family and so she took a decision to raise the child on her own far away from these idiotic clowns. That's what I call a "mother" who prefers her child's safety and security more than anything else unlike Pakhi who keeps a gun with her and secretly takes away the child from the family, gets him house arrested thus physically and mentally damaging kid as well.

Please try to understand that Pakhi is a psychologically imbalanced person and needs treatment asap. None of her actions are justified in the name of "mother's love".

I can also say on everything you mentioned but I am not interested .By the way for your information i tagged you in reply for your post. I have a son of your age .A mother knows better so ask your mother if she feels for the character of pakhi. When wrong things are shown in positive light this is how it influences the young minds which fail to differentiate between right and wrong This is what the makers have done .Thoo Thoo Aaa Thoo . Idiots This is the reason I always say that karma should pay them back in real.

Domestic violence, character assassinating, snatching the child,inducing childhood trauma,confining a child in room cannot be justified in reel or real...

Savi is safe and sound because she was away from chavan niwas.She thinks independently and questions her mother when she doesn't agree. She doesn't hesitate for anything.As for sai It is not ego but loss of a child and a feeling of abandonment and unwanted and also the safety of the child which was growing in her womb and as the time passed the feeling that she has nobody who ever searched for her .I don't stan any actor but I hang on this show because of Sai the character and also the actor playing it makes it viable for me. You don't get into this .Focus on better things most probably your studies which is more important . What ever clownery the real couple does offscree doesn't matter to me but the role of patralekha is pathetic and inhumane . It is not only her but even Virat and his family are pathetic.Even when you see National geographic or discovery channel you see a humane side in even preying animals but her .

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

I can also say on everything you mentioned but I am not interested .By the way for your information i tagged you in reply for your post. I have a son of your age .A mother knows better so ask your mother if she feels for the character of pakhi. When wrong things are shown in positive light this is how it influences the young minds which fail to differentiate between right and wrong This is what the makers have done .Thoo Thoo Aaa Thoo . Idiots This is the reason I always say that karma should pay them back in real.

Utmost respect to you ma'am and definitely when you are with this position wrt to me but by this message actually I really didn't get what you say but as far as I can think you are saying that I made my these views just because I got subconsciously diverted because of my age and being just a fresh mind to all what happened actually there by the makers that if somehow I will be looking at all this in one frame I will be able to see the main vision behind why karma getting back because if you can be the one then definitely somehow you are the one and this factor should not be ignored for future so for this if you are really saying this I am not with the point that PL should be forgiven infact she should really be given a reality cheque about all those what she did in the past but for me all these cases should not be complicated till the extent of police and law but inside the four walls and that's how she paid for it in CN yeah definitely wrt considering her past, future decisions should really be taken with care but just wanted to ask you, my views when I am neutral not emotional or something is that I believe that forgiveness is the ultimate tool that you should opt for when the other guy is guilty not being over achcha but atleast not every Karma deserves to be reflected when the situations are not the same but the past should always serve in decision making process infact I am really appreciated by everyone at all this because whenever I see everyone is going with what is shown and if here particularly start treating FL like devi I am among those who rates every aspect towards ultimate vision that should have healed every wound just clear that I am really able to balance my eq and iq and keep aside the man or what I would have been programmed till now from every dimension of my life and just be a human and respond not being arrogant pls don't take anything like this but really want the experience in you to let me get conscious about all this to get me to a different view pls if possible respond🙏🏻......

I will give my reply to everything but give me some time and then if possible respond altogether 🙏🏻.....

I also used to feel for her in initial episodes when she entered CN after marriage, but only until she started conspiring against Sai😆