Originally posted by: Svt611
But that gives her brownie points only. Sai ka gussa hai but apni beti ke zehen main uski baap ki galat chavi nahi jayegi…
My mom always said one thing to me since I was a kid which I hold dear to me- whatever my relationship with you father, dadi, Nani, bua, massi is yours is different so never hold my grudge or my anger towards them. My relationship with them is very diff from yours and you have no right to judge them from my pov.. this was something she always told me about my dad when she fought with him. She always said when I got upset that he said something to her that as my father he fulfills all his duties and loves me unconditionally and that is our relationship But he is also her husband and has a different relationship with her which is separate of him as my father. So don’t mix the two.
I see that happening here too.
I totally agree with you and that is a rout a mature adult would take but its only faur till difference between parents are normal n dealt with maturity.
For kid to witness dirt like father wrongfully arresting mother n knowingly keep her away is trauma inducing. I just mentioned about my cousin yesterday in different thread. She took this moral high ground, however what she went through was severe abuse. Now kids r grown up 20 n 25. At this age its hard for them to understand why their mother holds that man in high regards be it as father. They r extremely conflicted.
What Virat is doing is no small thing to brush off. Imagine if he succeeded- Savi would have yearned for mother while Sai rot in jail. He would have come around?? May be may be not. His anger n hatred are extreme, so no one knows.
Now Savi find this out when she grows up n then hears Sai praising this man. Sai’s daughter owes truth.
My point being how intense parental conflict is and how well parents deal with matters. What Virat is doing is abuse and Sai should not hide from Savi (once Savi is at age to understand)
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