Sai means trouble - Page 4

Is it possible you started watching the show post leap?

The narrative is very one sided where Virat n PL r shown victims despite committing crimes.

Is Sai problem maker? NO

Sai is not problem maker but CN people hate her so much that everything she does is a problem.

Just to give example of their hatred- If you remember old episodes- In Amay track argument started because Elders saw her standing the doir. JUST STANDING THERE!
She eats out its problem.

She eats home its problem

She works its problem

These are very basic things and they made mountain out of mole because they never accepted Sai.

ON THE OTHER HAND they love PL so much that her infidelity towards their own Son Samrat is ignored. Her criminal acts towards Sai and her fetus were ignored and they not only accepted her but worship her.

Sai can not be forgiven for speaking up for Devi n Mohit but PL can be forgiven for Criminal acts like hiring goons to attack Sai!! Devi would still be living in hell hole if Sai did not rescue her. Ofcourse there would have been no tamasha but Harini would have been motherless and Devi would be locked in room.


I Know you asked not to mention Virakhi but they have to be mentioned to highlight the hatred CN people had towards Sai. Few loved Sai at some point because she helped them or they loved Virat but in large scheme neither Virat nor his family accepted Sai wholeheartedly that is why they made til ka taad of everything she did, good or bad (mostly good). Blamed Sai for everything wrong in their life without reflecting on their own actions.

Sai is victim of domestic abuse at hands of in laws. How they break a person bit by bit.

Yeah, I agree with you Sai is problematic usko kabhi bhi khud k kam se kam rakhna aya hi nhi... Kayko khali pili dusro k phate mein aapna legs dalti hai... And she do have her own independent approch and thinking mostly different or opposite to CN thought process and CN wants a robort and not such Person... Sai was always out of syllabus for CN... Like on her 1st reception party bk insulted her death parents but Sai gave it back... That was a problem she should have kept her mouth shut... Then she united devi with her husband and child.... Another problem because she was thrown out of the house in the middle of the night with UM... She helped Shivani in Amey thing .. uski vajese Amey ka ghar mein problem hua na yar... Kayko us Rajeev ka bachake Shivani se shaadi kari... Ek aur member bada diya CN k ghar ka khana extra banana pada na because Rajeev stayed in CN post marriage... Then she helped mohit too... Why did she help him to get some food khud khana kha k nikal leti mast college but nhi gyan dena tha voh bhi bk and co ko... Lo bhaishab mohit ko khud k sapne tak follow karne bola aaisa nhi hota hai yar CN... Then she helped Ashwini.. matlab kyu??? Waise bhi that woman is good for nothing... Ninad pe itna paise khar kiya itna nuksan hua CN ko... Virat ko extra expenses as she wasted her scholarship k paise on ninu aur BK lost her faithfully servant to some extent voh alag... Why did she brought Samrat to CN matlab that was disaster baba... Samrat k Bhai ko, samrat ki biwi ko aur Samrat k pure k pure dil k acche gharwale ko nhi padi uski toh Sai ko kya zaroorat thi mahan baneki... Didi ko kitna dukh dard peeda hua usse... Virat ki 1st anniversary kharab hui na yar... List aur bhi hai but filal mobile ki battery low ho rahi hai... Sach mein...

Chavans are dumb and regressive that if Sai thought enough and planned ahead, she could have convinced and controlled them nicely. Like if dumb Patralekha could with her plotting and fakeness, then so could Sai with her intelligence, but she took her way or highway route, which was correct per her, but wrong per Chavans.

Many times she doesn't know when to let things slide vs when to fight vs when to let Virat take lead and step back. She went all extreme to help everyone but when it was her turn, no one took the initiative. Also, she always interferes in others matter when she decides what is right vs wrong and who is the right person, but refuses to listen when people advice her. Not her fault and nor did she help thinking she will get anything in return , but not once did she stop and think if it was all worth it after each bad incident and if she could have handled it differently. I hated that she will tell Pulkit one thing and when he would support her, she will do opposite and he will be left looking stupid. Why will he then fight for her against Chavans again when she did it to him few times? Also hated that if she eventually choose to forgive Bhavani n other for kidnapping Pulkit as well as abandoning Harini. Though I understood her helplessness during surrogacy, hated that she went along with it coz of her own selfish reason, if she was that right, she should have complained against them right then and there. Selecting righteousness is not attractive trait.

Even now I wonder if she ever looked back at her own actions and life and how she could have handled it differently. Only after being insulted by Ashwini, she had some realization and maintaining her distance from "aai baba". I liked that she didn't get involved in Harini's incident post leap. OLD Sai would have done exactly that.

Sai is my fav character in this show, but she has her own flaws too. I wouldn't say Sai means problem or she brings problems along with her. It's just that her ways of handling things are different from normal people in GhumLand I want the kids with Sai and for her to move away without caring for VP or Chavans and just like her, I will be okay not knowing what happens to Chavans after Sai leaves with kids. Virat can choose to follow her around coz of kids leaving Chavans, but at the point am not rooting for them yet. Also none of what I said means I support anything that Virat or Chavans have done till now.

Originally posted by: UpTheHill

I have not seen most episode as they drag single track for months. Virat's family was not with Sai in the city to which she had located after her accident, but did absence of his family or Virat cease troubles in her life?

E.g. A politician sent goons to abduct Savi and Virat saved her, what do you see Sai doing? Does she act like a normal citizen and mother going to nearest police station to lodge an FIR and seek protection? She visited politician's house and warned him as if that is going to change anything for her, do you not see that as an act which invites trouble for her and her daughter?

IMO no. Police is in pocket of politicians its better to be in public eye. Whole Village knew about them so he could not go berserk. She was managing her issue with GR well for years, it was Virat who made it worst by beating an MLA. In his heroism he beat an MLA n that made him go after Sai n Savi in extreme way. Being an IPS officer he should know how to deal with politician. (Its well established that the character was brought to distract while they establish Virakhi story, now its gone n has no relevance)

Plus Sai was married to an IPS OFFICER who asked her to forget about goons who attacked her, when Sai herself proved that his bhabhi was after attack, he bailed her and asked Sai to forgive her. Seeing such things no person would have trust in police.

Reason you are feeling the way you do is because of bended narrative. Its Virat centric and because they want to show him with PL but also want to keep him white as he is ML, they never emphasize on Sai’s POV, her traumas are brushed off as if its a casual thing. Fir example they have not shown anything about Sai, how she came to KK, how did she manage with Savi, how did UM n JM came to know about her. Nothing. No story whatsoever ever.

Originally posted by: UpTheHill

Hi

You have more insight into her than I do, I had recently seen an episode where goons attempted to kidnap Savi and Sai decided to warn the politician responsible for it.

If you haven't seen the past episodes, you can't relate to Sai. The show spends multiple episodes abusing her in living room area and then move on to next track without addressing it or giving any closure unlike other shows. Sai hardly had any happy scenes in the show, even those end with Chavans and Pakhi creating scene. The stuff that virat character has done will make you question the writers thought process.

I dont watch it regularly, just on and off coz Virat's character is off-putting and the abuse to Sai's character was at its peak by end of surrogacy track. I just hope the show ends and frees all the people in forum who are trapped by Ghum.

Kamal, samrat n vinu with broken legs agree with you🥺

Originally posted by: UpTheHill

Hi

You have more insight into her than I do, I had recently seen an episode where goons attempted to kidnap Savi and Sai decided to warn the politician responsible for it.

I don't know if you have watched the previous episode but it was Virat who escalated the matter between Sai and mla otherwise it was Sai's win as she had taken the entire village into confidence for making a hospital, so the actual troublemaker was Virat 😆 Also Virat as a police officer couldn't stop or arrest him, what would a normal citizen do??

Originally posted by: UpTheHill

I respect and accept your opinion on my view, I never assumed everyone will agree to my view as I know most in this forum or any other site love Sai. I am not being condescending towards people who do not see Sai as I do, over the episodes my feelings have changed for her. I dont know what came over me that I decided to be a rebel in my head and posted this as I told you I was in hurry. You are being nice to me so I am asking you tell me truthfully, do you think the replies I recieved came from a place of acceptance or a will to engage in a productive discussion with me or everyone decided my view on Sai is not worth being discussed? If it's not worth discussing for you then let people comment who would like to discuss it with me. If there are no takers and I had received no replies, I would have left without any hard feelings for anyone

I would have gladly elaborated my stand on Sai, there has to be an outcome for a debate but I was never given an opportunity when all replies are about how Sai is better than other characters, being better than others doesn't make me love her, do you see where I am coming from?

Love for her is surely justified ,she does make mistakes which she even apologise for and even come forward to correct them so real unlike other characters who need the whitewashing to show them saint.

No matter what others say you still have time to keep your pov that what made you feel so.

And trust me your post was seen as something fun, don't know if in hurry you wrote a wrong word that's "trouble maker" or one who ruin the peace, because it's not true, she is the one begging for peace at the moment.

See writing in short often create misunderstandings I won't blame others too,no matter what Sai is not trouble maker for others specifically even if I like her or not, or even if seen individually.