Love for Sai and Virat...who has more for whom?

I read many people's wonderful opinions on SaiRat...

So i wanted to know according to you guys, who is more important to both Sai and Virat...each other or kids...

For Virat, it seems like Sai, however, he was the one who disregarded Sai's every wish, relating to pregnancy/ surrogacy, giving the child to P criminal... He left her alone to get slapped, humiliated by his achhi dost and family after Sammy's death...he isolated her after her miscarriage, he refused to adopt a kid, the reason why Sai was panicked to get the surrogacy done... knowing her stance towards Pakhiya, he still allowed her to be the surrogate...wanted to live pregnancy journey with Sai, did that with Pakhiya while keeping Sai away and the final blow was handing over the kid to Pakhi and getting her back from jail and chosing her over Sai and Vinu...

For Sai, Savi seems most important, she is the reason that she is alive after everything that happened and seems too possessive about her, slowly Vinu might become... however, she always bowed to Virat's desires...he wanted a kid asap, she got pregnant, he didn't want to adopt, she opted for surrogacy...he chose Pakhi as surrogate, she adjusted to that too, without much of resistance...he asked her to stay away from Pakhi during pregnancy, she did that...gave the baby to Pakhi, she handled that too...he didn't investigate the goon attack on Sai properly, she did it on her own...but the final hit for her was him chosing Pakhi over her and Vinu... she even called jagtap for help in procuring medicines for Virat when she never did it for so many years but now had to do it for Virat...

So, my question is who is more important for both Virat and Sai...each other or the kids...

Don't know the relevance of this question but am curious to know about people's opinions on it...

They say for Virat , it's Sai but don't see any love from his side or don't see any possessiveness also.

Makers didn't invest time and scenes in Sai Virat relationship esp after confession, so we r not able to judge anything. They started thorat, Sam s death, career vs bahu, JM, then surrogacy, separation.

Even if it's there, it looks like self victimisation and no love. Love should be selfless , taking care in every scenario.

Even if you are angry, you should keep it aside for your love

After seeing Sai, initial reaction was anger. Ok but next day he never felt grateful that Sai s alive.

But of what they have shown till now, Sai and Virat act as a team for the kids.

Atleast in front of the kids, they stopped the fight and became one team.

Don't know how they will manage that in CN, as so many more people are there to cause misunderstandings. And Virats time will be divided between 4 people now including P.

Don't know how they r going to overcome the misunderstandings.

Makers should make Virat realise his mistakes atleast once before he does the next mistake.

So many family issues will also come. Let's see how they manage.

We know there will be loads of Sai abuse esp if they show ninads health etc.

And P will try to get close to both the kids atleast initially.

Hope makers show Sai and Virat n one team like mimo track

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For Virat it has always been Pakhi and the family that's it. For Sai it has been him and the children. If he is wrong, she would protect her children. If he is right, she will stand by her. And when I say him, it means even his family. Sai has her priorities right. For Virat, it is Family, Pakhi, and Vinu. Useless man!

I can't say for Virat...but going by what they show, it's first his family, then Pakhi and then,in both of these people absense,it's Sai...in that order he prioritises. Now, Vinu surpasses all as he is his family-cum-son.

When no one's interest is there, it's Sai. Like during kidnapping of Savi, rest 3 had zero conflict so he prioritised Sai and saved Savi. Had Pakhi or any other family member wud b thr, Sai will hold less priority.

For Sai, when she loved Virat, it was all about him and his priorities. She did everything for him...now her world revolves around Savi after she realised she never was Virat's priority. She still loves him though, but her priorities have changed.

SaiRat are less important for each other, as of today. Tomorrow, if Sai forgives Virat, then he'll hold same priority as Savi in her life. But I can't say the same about Virat. His priorities are always misplaced and stranger than those of normal humans😆..he reminds me of old age paleolithic era😆

Virat never loved Sai... Because if you love someone you first try to understand their point of view and never ever let anyone be it be your family, friend or any other to insult or call names to your love for e.g. Jungli Mulgi, Devi ji, aye Ladki, Anath, Maharani, Nurse etc etc etc... There is no one such scene where Virat told his family that "my wife do have a beautiful name that is "Sai" and I want everyone should call her with respect that she is my choice and if I am not wrong my family do respect my choices." Atleast I never seen him saying so... (Correct me if I am wrong or missing something) You respect your love's opinion, her feelings... Whenever situation is under his control where he can use his manipulative skill he is team Sai otherwise he is against Sai... Helping someone to get education of their choice is a favour or a good gesture that we can do to anyone... Virat Sai Chavan was also a good gesture but of no use as he drop it later... And Sai that girl is fighting the lost battle since her Marriage right after KJ died... She was manipulated by Virat that he loves her but clearly he didn't... Whatever she have done for him or his family become null and void when Virat have to pick Didi or Sai... HE WILL BLINDLY CHOOSE HIS PAKHI... Like forever... But still even after she is hurt and disappointed she will still help him whenever he needs her but but but Virat will never be with Sai when she needed him the most... Sao loves her Savi... All moms love their children the most and so do Sai... Savi is the only family that poor girl is having... She lost her mom, then dad, husband left her.... Yes she didn't leave her husband rather her husband left her by choosing his criminal first love over Sai, she lost her chil now only she has Savi but now clearly it seems she is on a verge of losing Savi to criminals.... Because after knowing she is still alive and their reactions as if why the hell she is alive says it all... They have already snatched vinu from her they will snatch savi from her too...

Sai loves V despite being burned by that love multiple times. Because unfortunately theres no off-button on feelings. Despite that shes extremely respectful and never crosses a boundary whether with V or with another man. She doesn't want to be loved out of pity or take someone's place. She seeked true companionship which she never got from him. Despite her hurt, she's exercised tremendous restraint in her behavior/words. Anything she's said has been a reaction to UM or V. She is betrayed and broken, yet she's never wished ill upon anyone or allowed her pain or bitterness to cloud Savi. She has ensured Savi is happy, innocent and used the child's innocence and purity to heal her as much as possible. She has focused on only the positives and rebuilding. Theres obviously memories - good and bad but she has almost always done the right thing. till date she has trust in his "skill" as a police officer even though hes actually let her down so much. She doesn't allow UM to compare him to JM.

Sai's love is something V had but never valued.

V's "love" was always conditional and he's failed her every time she needed him. He likes to claim he loves Sai because it looks good on his image. Its not real. All his choices prove he doesn't really love her. It was a habit, a challenge, atteaction, the validation of getting a strong independent slmost unattainable person to bend to his whims. Love for him means other person is taken for granted, power to abuse/manipulate because the other person will stick around despite it all because she loves you .

V loves nobody. Not even Vinu. That kid was his charity case. A means to find purpose in life. Savi ke liye its just admiration for her just like it was for Sai. He doesn't love pp or family either. He always has to be coaxed into doing things for people. Its not out of true love. If he loved his family then he'd have taken the initiative to help his parents, his sister, his brothers, his bua.... But he only does things for validation as raja beta. Bass.

There was a point long ago that no matter what, he genuinely loved Sai. But now I'm not really seeing it...

Very good post..

This is the remake of KD.. But particularly virat's character is way more ambiguous than Rono.. So I can't say whom virat loves more.. His kids or Sai..

He married p* to adopt vinu but he doesn't seem to be very involved with the kid either, leaves him at at night despite the fact vinu is handicapped .. So here also he is shallow..

Sai used to love him.. The day he chose Pakhi over his own family deep down she knew it's a lost cause.. Now seeing him with Pakhi hopefully her residual feelings will be wiped off.. Whatever she did out of gratitude because virat took the bullet to save Savi..

Preleap I agree with you she was just adjusting with virat in whatever capacity.. Virat was just obsessed guy to have her.. That was it..

Originally posted by: nikita05

I read many people's wonderful opinions on SaiRat...

So i wanted to know according to you guys, who is more important to both Sai and Virat...each other or kids...

For Virat, it seems like Sai, however, he was the one who disregarded Sai's every wish, relating to pregnancy/ surrogacy, giving the child to P criminal... He left her alone to get slapped, humiliated by his achhi dost and family after Sammy's death...he isolated her after her miscarriage, he refused to adopt a kid, the reason why Sai was panicked to get the surrogacy done... knowing her stance towards Pakhiya, he still allowed her to be the surrogate...wanted to live pregnancy journey with Sai, did that with Pakhiya while keeping Sai away and the final blow was handing over the kid to Pakhi and getting her back from jail and chosing her over Sai and Vinu...

For Sai, Savi seems most important, she is the reason that she is alive after everything that happened and seems too possessive about her, slowly Vinu might become... however, she always bowed to Virat's desires...he wanted a kid asap, she got pregnant, he didn't want to adopt, she opted for surrogacy...he chose Pakhi as surrogate, she adjusted to that too, without much of resistance...he asked her to stay away from Pakhi during pregnancy, she did that...gave the baby to Pakhi, she handled that too...he didn't investigate the goon attack on Sai properly, she did it on her own...but the final hit for her was him chosing Pakhi over her and Vinu... she even called jagtap for help in procuring medicines for Virat when she never did it for so many years but now had to do it for Virat...

So, my question is who is more important for both Virat and Sai...each other or the kids...

Don't know the relevance of this question but am curious to know about people's opinions on it...

Virat the nautanki only wants Sai but his heart core is for pakhi only. He is wada Prasad.b