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Posted: 3 years ago
#31

Or maybe she has moved on. Focused on what she has right now other than thinking what could have happened. Like she has Savi now to fill the void

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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I don’t know why is the whole discussion on Sai not telling Virat about Savi. They are separated. They are not together. Even in real life, people cut ties and then don’t tell their ex partners anything.

I mean can someone enlighten me with other view which is sane.


They are not divorced right? Even divorced, the parent needs to be informed. May not be a legal obligation but a moral one.

Otherwise, they could have shown that Sai is heartbroken with Vinu's death...and she was not sure of the pregnancy. Moreover, she might be feeling unsafe at CN. Or she was willing to deny herself any happiness or hope she might find going back to Virat as his pregnant wife. Mother's guilt would be weighing on her too.

All these aside, this time Sai was truly heartbroken. Virat bailed Pakhi out and got her back home, knowing that she put the baby at risk, knowing that she was eyeing VIrat all along. It is not easy for her to accept that her husband did not understand her fears. So she might be worried that she would face the same intrusion from Pakhi with her children that she faced with Virat. Sai had seen Pakhi in her cruelest form, she will have her doubts. Sai has been operating as a mother from the time surrogacy happened, so I understand her hesitancy. But she could have informed the father who craved for this baby, if not as a wife or mother, but as a person who knew his wishes. I understand her reservations, but could have been nice if she had made an attempt to inform him.

But that will not move the story/conflict ahead, so I will take it as creative liberty.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Or maybe she has moved on. Focused on what she has right now other than thinking what could have happened. Like she has Savi now to fill the void

Ok like Virat not shown thinking about Sai.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I don’t know why is the whole discussion on Sai not telling Virat about Savi. They are separated. They are not together. Even in real life, people cut ties and then don’t tell their ex partners anything.

I mean can someone enlighten me with other view which is sane.

In general, if a husband and wife are not legally separated then husband has every right to know about the child. A father has equal rights on the child . Even if they are divorced( rare case as divorce take longer by then they will know if the wife is pregnant unless they were getting physical during divorce proceedings 😆) , morally it’s wrong not to inform about the child . The child deserves both the parents love and if they decide to become parents then they need put their differences aside for the kid and should be comfortable in co parenting .

In case of Sairat , Sai has a strong reason not to reveal . Anger and misunderstandings are not strong reasons but the fear of losing the kid to some Pakhi or any other women CN will consider worthy of raising the child . There is no guarantee that tomorrow Virat and CN will not snatch the child from Sai if Pakhi conspires against them again . They did it once and can do it again . The only way for them to gain Sai’s trust was by keeping Pakhi away but they failed there . For this reason alone I wont blame Sai . Any other reason is not strong enough for a mom to keep the child away from its father especially if the child craves for father love . Sai shouldn’t have given hopes to Savi saying baba will come . It’s unfair to the child

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Posted: 3 years ago
#35

I am all for Sai not informing V about Saavi with the kind of behaviour he showed to her.

My point was to stress the same.

Why would she tell him when he didn't come back for her? Didn't look for her? And especially when he said he will be breaking all ties with her!!!


Koi jarurat nahi hai.

If you remember I had mentioned this to you earlier... Sai would have gone back to him if and only if there was a medical emergency with the kid and it would be absolutely necessary to have the father around.


I would like to see though why and how she did she come to the conclusion that Vinu is dead? Doesn't fit with her character.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Ok like Virat not shown thinking about Sai.

both are happy in their individual lives. Sai only thinks about Virat when Savi asks her. Not otherwise
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Posted: 3 years ago
#37

Episode was nice n light hearted. They shows Sai as angry wife by showing fb n her dialogues if he wanted her he would have searched her since he is police this part doesn't looks convincing for me because in her pov both are separated and virat n CNwasis would have thought that sai and vinu are living somewhere so she should have informed virat about vinu Also she was guilty n imagined virat blaming sai that because of her they both last their son . Then usha who is biggest fan of her damad virat chavan was the one informed ashwini about sai's bus accident so it is impossible that she didn't informed about sai to virat n his family when they assumed sai is dead .

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Posted: 3 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: sadiltl


They are not divorced right? Even divorced, the parent needs to be informed. May not be a legal obligation but a moral one.

Otherwise, they could have shown that Sai is heartbroken with Vinu's death...and she was not sure of the pregnancy. Moreover, she might be feeling unsafe at CN. Or she was willing to deny herself any happiness or hope she might find going back to Virat as his pregnant wife. Mother's guilt would be weighing on her too.

All these aside, this time Sai was truly heartbroken. Virat bailed Pakhi out and got her back home, knowing that she put the baby at risk, knowing that she was eyeing VIrat all along. It is not easy for her to accept that her husband did not understand her fears. So she might be worried that she would face the same intrusion from Pakhi with her children that she faced with Virat. Sai had seen Pakhi in her cruelest form, she will have her doubts. Sai has been operating as a mother from the time surrogacy happened, so I understand her hesitancy. But she could have informed the father who craved for this baby, if not as a wife or mother, but as a person who knew his wishes. I understand her reservations, but could have been nice if she had made an attempt to inform him.

But that will not move the story/conflict ahead, so I will take it as creative liberty.


Exactly my thoughts.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Moor278

I am all for Sai not informing V about Saavi with the kind of behaviour he showed to her.

My point was to stress the same.

Why would she tell him when he didn't come back for her? Didn't look for her? And especially when he said he will be breaking all ties with her!!!


Koi jarurat nahi hai.

If you remember I had mentioned this to you earlier... Sai would have gone back to him if and only if there was a medical emergency with the kid and it would be absolutely necessary to have the father around.


I would like to see though why and how she did she come to the conclusion that Vinu is dead? Doesn't fit with her character.

Yes and if Vinu s no more, then there are chances that Virat and BK may take the 2nd kid also and give to Pakhi...in case Sai goes back saying Pakhi s upset about Vinu etc.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#40

Thank you so much for unbiased views. I couldn’t place my finger as to why Sai is blamed. Thank you girls 🤗

Edited by nutmeg7 - 3 years ago

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