Originally posted by: Nja91
Silsila show was cringe because that's the subject nature. but the plot was very real- a husband cheats on his wife that too with her best friend and as far as i know- didn't watch the show- there was no glorification. He had an EMA. Plain and simple. And his family disowned him.
But in ghkkpm they show all that cringe BUT ML has the audacity to claim himself mahaan, act as if he's done nothing wrong, everyone in his family supports him and the villainize the victim Sai who is already in pain and suffering.
In that sense a clear cut EMA show is WAY better than a story like ghkkpm where a husband crosses boundaries repeatedly, prioritizes other women repeatedly and still never gets called out. This is WAY more dangerous. Sai keeps getting manipulated into believing V "loves" her but whenever time comes to prove it , he will falter 100%.
Sure, credit to him for supporting her education and career but even in those 2 situations she stood up for herself. Even without his support, she'd have accomplished what she wanted to. And really those dont prove his "love" as a spouse.but It is matters like this- an ex flame, a 3rd person, a lustful bhabhi, another friend ki biwi hitting on him, issues of miscarriage, infertility, surrogacy- these are the SPOUSE issues that V needs to show sensitivity in and thay barely happens. For it to happen, Sai needs to be in life-threatening danger or Sai needs to compromise and agree to his and his bff terms. The godh bharai day things were good but if Sai had revealed to V what PP said, immediately he'd have shown who his priority is.
He has already proved that he does not care about Sai because he allowed an illegal surrogacy to happen. V is wrong that it was their last chance. They could have adopted. He should have taken the tough but righteous decision ro NOT allow the impregnation to happen illegally on a woman his wife outright rejected.
His love is proven to be false when he violated het consent on a matter like pregnancy.
V is the worst kind of guy. The one who is perceived as kind, righteous but is NONE of those things.
If Sai saw him sleeping with Pp, she could get her heart broken and walk out once and for all. But this situation roz roz zaleel hona, thoda hurt hona, khud ko console karna but cant show it and strong dikhana, then see one random sweet gesture from V and melt only for the abuse cycle to repeat over and over and for him to walk all over her feelings- its the worst!
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