I haven’t watched KD, and only read about the plot and scenes here. So my understanding and response is pretty much limited to P and hence will have that resemblance.
While I say that, I do agree to a lot of it, yet disagree to the main part of closure for P.
There with you. V's vaada came from his inexperience. This hasn’t been shown but it looks like P was the first that he felt a certain strong attraction towards in his grown up years. And it was also, to do with the prodding of Sunny. It is a normal tendency for people to get attracted to some if they get teased together. So together with her overall appeal similar his liking and upbringing and Sunny's insistence, gave way for that liking. The liking, an infatuation was misconceived as love due to his inexperience. V is very sentimental and wears his emotions on his sleeves. Hence the intensity of the liking and separation and the subsequent loss of that one who he believed to have loved was much higher.
This intensity was the reason for the misjudgment of himself and his feelings and the actions that followed - Vaada.
The real problem lies in the understanding of the promise. V's promise was more for himself than to P, a kind of token in the name of the "love" he lost, but P MU it to be a promise for her, holding that promise as an assurance that their story doesn’t end there. V found his closure in the hope that P will move on and Samrat will be happy. Sai was not even there in the picture. All his emotional outbursts where only the residues which he would have eventually gotten over. With or without Sai, V would not have allowed a reunion with P.
V did realise his mistake in giving that promise and he has gradually realised how wrong he was in judging P. But where he failed was in understanding that his subsequent behaviour which continues has been consequential in the breeding the hope in P. The reason he does what he does is out of guilt, for Samrat's state and a realisation that he did hurt P. He knows what it is to lose his love, with Sai in his life, so he somewhere sympathises with her while he feels helpless.
Apology is something that will not work with P. He has already apologised for his promise and breaking it. But P is too obsessed and blinded in her opinion that she will not register any of it. She is not the sweet, gentle girl that V met. She has a very ugly side to her which only came to fore when she she was denied what she wanted. She is those spoilt, pampered ones, who have always had their way. Only when things didn’t go as per their wishes and plans did their true nature surface. And most importantly, if P really had to understand and move on, she would have done so after realising V loved Sai. Despite knowing the truth she still nurtured that hope. So no amount of apology can make her change her mind. She is too stubborn and possessed that ways. She is so obsessed that all she sees is V, she neither sees anyone including V being hurt by her actions, not does she realise that she is staking her own life and opportunities at happiness.
Edited by sherry_24 - 3 years ago
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