Originally posted by: sherry_24
For me it is not the delay in confession, it is the unnecessary toxicity and drama being plugged in. Some things are logical but there are others that don’t tie up and are only means to stretch it.
One of my thoughts on the track
Sai should confess first. Yes. But there is a twist on how I see it because of my inability to see V worthy of it. Also because Sai is more reasonable and receptive at this point. I’ll start with the love aspect. I feel Sai has reached a stage where she believes that V cares for her and is true to the marriage. There will be no infidelity. She isn’t sure if he loves her. Right now its her love realisation that has her intoxicated. V still isn’t sure. And currently he is on the “she didn’t trust me” mode to see anything further. Though I feel it still is “angoor khatte hai”. He is pissed by the fact that she hasn’t reciprocated his love. But emotionally they are aligned with themselves and physical attraction is definitely simmering up.
For a start while she is making efforts from her end this should be limited only as a remorse of not trusting him. She should slowly start seeing his faults too and not get carried away in guilt and completely surrender. She needs to hold her ground when and where he is wrong. And she should get overwhelmed with the way he treats her and his inability to disconnect from P. The mistakes of his he is not ready to accept in their relationship. She should then have a conversation where she bares it out to him, accepting her mistakes and how he has wronged her. How he still does, and how that led her to believe what she believed. Not taking away her faults but giving her reasons. She should leave him after telling him that she loves him.
The realisation that she loves him will be the catalyst to make him hopeful and introspection. And the fact that she still left him will make reflect for the fear of losing her forever. A separation, an isolation is required. Away from each other, away from any external influences to see through things in solitude. He should then seek out for her after the realisation of his mistakes. Reveal everything about his past and how and why he behaved in certain way and apologising for his side of mistakes while she does for her own. She may confess first but their union should be phased to see through things. The longing will facilitate the realisation and importance.
@bold
Exactly this they need clarity on. They are dependent on each other emotionally. They are tied up here from the beginning. The only thing missing is the physical love to go forward in this relationship. Sai has no clear answers from him till now. Remember her valentine's day dream, she has this bockage in her mind that he finds pakhi attractive. they need to address this. Sai got some clues during holi but Virat has to know he never showed any indication to her in this aspect.
@pink bold
I agree. She has to clearly state where he is mileading her. It is not okay. And she should have that converstaion. She has her own reasons why she suspected him and they are all valid.
@blue bold
cant agree more! He should also bare his heart. He had his faceoffs with jealousy, insecurity and his fear of losing her. He also feels he is not desirable to her owing to the age gap etc. he has to come clean what drove him to behave like he did with her.
Thats why I think there should be a passionate confession. The angst should come out and also the fact that they were indeed attracted to each other, Virat from the beginning and it took a toll on him and his psyche, to remain unaffected in her presence. Most of his behavior is due to the frustration that his feelings are not being alighened or understood with/by her.
I think thats why there should be an emotional converstaion, in clear words and then passionate union that clears their doubts at physical level.
I will try to write something.
tagging shaome, as she expressed similar thoughts before. did you?😛
Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago