Ghum in a nutshell - Page 3

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Her coming back to virat again and again despite his abuse made others treat her like that. If she is like aswini whose world is just family and house then I could have sympathised with her. But she is a educated woman who has exposure to outside world. She very well knows what virat did with her is domestic abuse which samrat pointed during lock up drama, her own friends talked badly about virat (rightfully) because he doubted her character during ajinkya time. Despite all these she feeling herself as inferior and agreeing to misogynist and disgusting statements about her is 🤐. She has pulkit as a guider. Now too he adviced her to stay away from virat's business and stop being too helpful to him. Did she listen? No. She is insulting her own father and his sacrifice by letting chavan family talk ill about her father upbringing and his sacrifice. Why can't she for once remind everyone that virat didn't done favour on her as a charity,he did that as a repay back because he is legit breathing now because of her father sacrifice. It's not about counting favours. It's about giving reality check. How long she will be okay with virat and his family abuse just because they did favour on her in past. She became too casual to chavan family and pakhi's disgusting taunts which is infuriating. How come a woman listen to comments like you lack something as a woman, did you choosed other man for yourself, you are selfish, shameless, doing natak, you will come back after getting some attention,you are attention seeker. She listened all these comments silently and being docile to the people who passed such comments on her. I am sad by seeing how they reduced her character into.

Since they are going copy pasting everything the character V** will turn more animal..And Sai will keep coming back.. That's why I didn't like emon.. Sai is lot more different than Emon..

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Her coming back to virat again and again despite his abuse made others treat her like that. If she is like aswini whose world is just family and house then I could have sympathised with her. But she is a educated woman who has exposure to outside world. She very well knows what virat did with her is domestic abuse which samrat pointed during lock up drama, her own friends talked badly about virat (rightfully) because he doubted her character during ajinkya time. Despite all these she feeling herself as inferior and agreeing to misogynist and disgusting statements about her is 🤐. She has pulkit as a guider. Now too he adviced her to stay away from virat's business and stop being too helpful to him. Did she listen? No. She is insulting her own father and his sacrifice by letting chavan family talk ill about her father upbringing and his sacrifice. Why can't she for once remind everyone that virat didn't done favour on her as a charity,he did that as a repay back because he is legit breathing now because of her father sacrifice. It's not about counting favours. It's about giving reality check. How long she will be okay with virat and his family abuse just because they did favour on her in past. She became too casual to chavan family and pakhi's disgusting taunts which is infuriating. How come a woman listen to comments like you lack something as a woman, did you choosed other man for yourself, you are selfish, shameless, doing natak, you will come back after getting some attention,you are attention seeker. She listened all these comments silently and being docile to the people who passed such comments on her. I am sad by seeing how they reduced her character into.

Again she is too stubborn, use jo karna hai vahi karna hai, like Pulkit told her not to indulge into Virat's job matters but she still did and got backdated divorce papers to save him. Again she always has been a one person human, first that person was aaba, now Virat, and she tried everything to fit in his family, till the time she could...i have always loved sai Joshi and not sai Chavan because she was not the typical ITV doormat bahu but she is being made one and that's sad...whatever you wrote about taunts she faced, made me uncomfortable to watch that and also sad by her state, especially when we know that she was not this but maybe that's the defeat she accepted, like she always keeps repeating i never failed but failed in the test of life, she is in self loathing phase, happens...we experience that when we feel helpless, she doesn't have that haq to question Virat, since deal never converted to real but is disappointed...so that gussa is being diverted to herself...

Originally posted by: Shaome

Since they are going copy pasting everything the character V** will turn more animal..And Sai will keep coming back.. That's why I didn't like emon.. Sai is lot more different than Emon..

Reason why arranged marriages work around...Leena jee is realistic story teller...vankar made a khichdi.

Marriage is a difficult institution where one has to bow down to be in the relationship, here it is sai and mostly it is women, be it for status, society or anything else.

Anyone that is repeatedly told she is a misfit,she is lacking, she is not a good wife will have self doubt creep in though. But i hope she will overcome that.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Anyone that is repeatedly told she is a misfit,she is lacking, she is not a good wife will have self doubt creep in though. But i hope she will overcome that.

Exactly that, can't forget her breakdown post Pakhi's parents wedding anniversary due to that saree drama, where she just falls down and cries repeating i don't know how to live in joint family...

She has changed... anyone would, she survived that was the greatness of fierce Sai Joshi...any other would have either become another Ashwini or ran away.

She can overcome this when she lives in a health environment for a long time surrounded by people who morally support her but she will be back soon to CN🤦

Ghum is a jalebi where story goes as a circle

Lmao the rant 🤣