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Hey!

Just realised the context to all this.
I respect your freedom of opinion. I understand that the show is toxic at many levels if not all. Sanity is above all. Would love to see you around often if not always.

Having said that, I want to apologise to you for the comment I have put up on your other post regarding the reality show. It has nothing against you. In fact i did comment on it myself before that. But my only disconnect was with the DT and their comment which I feel is a lil contradictory. As rule makers they are more obligated and responsible for the rules they make. It was solely intended for that one note by them. But still if my comment in any way was disrespectful at any level.. my apologies.

❤️
Sherry

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Hey!

Just realised the context to all this.
I respect your freedom of opinion. I understand that the show is toxic at many levels if not all. Sanity is above all. Would love to see you around often if not always.

Having said that, I want to apologise to you for the comment I have put up on your other post regarding the reality show. It has nothing against you. In fact i did comment on it myself before that. But my only disconnect was with the DT and their comment which I feel is a lil contradictory. As rule makers they are more obligated and responsible for the rules they make. It was solely intended for that one note by them. But still if my comment in any way was disrespectful at any level.. my apologies.

❤️
Sherry

Hey, like I said I will answer if anyone of you tags me so not going permanently but from now on will refrain from posting or commenting.

I understand what you said about DT and I know they are somewhat biased, I have always been on Team Sai and saw how they treat her fans, my many topics where I have posted on why Sai is unique and doesn’t deserve hatred has been closed or removed so I know what are you saying.

But what people failed to understand that I post that video to show the difference in his acting, he looked a somewhat better actor in that video but in the show he acts horrible and they thought I have posted that to promote them, I don’t like them, don’t follow them on SM and don’t watch the show regular, so why would I spread negativity for Ayesha, I am not her fan but I am Sai’s fan.

I hope you understand the difference and I have faced the same situation with respect to DT.

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

Hey, like I said I will answer if anyone of you tags me so not going permanently but from now on will refrain from posting or commenting.

I understand what you said about DT and I know they are somewhat biased, I have always been on Team Sai and saw how they treat her fans, my many topics where I have posted on why Sai is unique and doesn’t deserve hatred has been closed or removed so I know what are you saying.

But what people failed to understand that I post that video to show the difference in his acting, he looked a somewhat better actor in that video but in the show he acts horrible and they thought I have posted that to promote them, I don’t like them, don’t follow them on SM and don’t watch the show regular, so why would I spread negativity for Ayesha, I am not her fan but I am Sai’s fan.

I hope you understand the difference and I have faced the same situation with respect to DT.

Dude I think many of us pointed out that no need to share their videos or anything related to them even if you have other intentions.. Our purpose is to reduce views for that video. And that's not something related ghum at all.. Many of us don't want to milk them for their demands..

If we keep on sharing their video or articles it will obviously trigger people be it negatively or positively leading to increase views..

By the way thanks for coming back ❤️

I understood that aspect. And hence did share my views on the show. I agree to what you wrote as well. So, in sync with your opinion and intent there. Its just that the DT note was made on your post which I wanted to address.

Hope we see better days, with peace and happiness here and you are drawn back❤️😉🤞

Originally posted by: Shaome

Dude I think many of us pointed out that no need to share their videos or anything related to them even if you have other intentions.. Our purpose is to reduce views for that video. And that's not something related ghum at all.. Many of us don't want to milk them for their demands..

If we keep on sharing their video or articles it will obviously trigger people be it negatively or positively leading to increase views..

By the way thanks for coming back ❤️

It’s on YouTube and everywhere else so it’s views definitely gonna increase and I didn’t do that to trigger anyone I saw people sharing these videos and then making fun of how they behaved with each other and with other co-stars and how they treat Ayesha which is bad so I put it too.

And I don’t follow them anywhere, don’t replies on their post and don’t care what they do to their lives and career. I know you don’t want to comment on thread just tagged you to clear my point.

Thank you, but I am not back I was tagged here so I replied like I said I would but will not post on my own or comment on anything from now on, and I have decided to stop going on other forums too cause of some misunderstanding, where I said that being friendly doesn’t mean you are attention seeker or enjoy other’s advances (it was a comment on girl just because she trust her friend who by the way loves her so her character was assassinated) but I guess that was also my fault for saying this to my friend and she thought I am questioning her views but I only answered the question.

I didn’t intend to speak between you two, yet commenting here, because I agree to both of you and I feel responsible for restarting this conversation

My personal opinion - I agree to both your stands. It’s just a different perspective that both of you have and hence the disagreement despite supporting a common basic cause. One is viewing it from impact and the other from intent. The intent was to only compare the acting and the other aspects of the show which we all do on the threads. The impact of making a separate post with a link only adds to the number of views that the video/article will garner. See how your others harmless posts were closed and see how this got encouraged and supported. Unintentionally making you the means of achieving a goal that you oppose yourself. Using us and beating us at our own game and we are allowing it.
We all have everything going wrong here. The only thing right is that we all have common sore points and we are together in it. Don’t let these things divide and make it merrier for others.

Will end it here. Hoping this sorts out things❤️

I agree with both Sherry and Shaome to an extent.

Your intent behind the post was something, the effect was something else. And thats mainly because the 2 people in question have earned only unpopularity and frustration from audience. Thats why we realize how even negative publicity is something they are ok with and we dont wanna give them the satisfaction of that. They dont deserve it.

If you as an individual continues to put up threads sharing things about these 2 actors, i genuinely respect your freedom to do so. But my problem is when the team of the forum that makes these so called " rules" starts bending it per convenience. Thats it. Its not personal against you at all. And I'd hate to know that your reason to quit forum or stop posting is only because of our responses on that thread. Heartfelt apologies for any offense/hurt that you personally felt.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I agree with both Sherry and Shaome to an extent.

Your intent behind the post was something, the effect was something else. And thats mainly because the 2 people in question have earned only unpopularity and frustration from audience. Thats why we realize how even negative publicity is something they are ok with and we dont wanna give them the satisfaction of that. They dont deserve it.

If you as an individual continues to put up threads sharing things about these 2 actors, i genuinely respect your freedom to do so. But my problem is when the team of the forum that makes these so called " rules" starts bending it per convenience. Thats it. Its not personal against you at all. And I'd hate to know that your reason to quit forum or stop posting is only because of our responses on that thread. Heartfelt apologies for any offense/hurt that you personally felt.

The team has did the same thing to me if you don’t remember then let me tell in initial days of ghum I made a post why all are hating Sai in that I stated that the reason given by others were that she is childish but technically she was a child so someone reported this and my topic got closed on the basis of personal opinions are not allowed but few days later same topic on Virat and Pakhi was not closed. Even though many of us reported that so what mods do regarding my post is their decision and even though I post that topic just read the first page I wrote he is acting better in this, and in no way it was promoting negativity but when others start commenting, I can’t stop them and I didn’t forced anyone to do that but then some people attacked me personally saying disgust for this topic give us disgusting emoji to use on this, on first page I just wrote 2 lines that we don’t want to see this and he is acting better in this than he does in show. I posted that cause it was shot on ghum’s set they used ghum’s reference by showing some kind of shooting arena.

And with same video 2 more threads were created and I didn’t see any negative reaction on that people thought I am promoting them so they took it in other way.

You can always say that you don’t like this post or comment but using disgusting word and indicating that I am spreading negativity is not acceptable cause I have never done that, you all have been there since starting of the show and know this that I have never spread negativity.

I'm sorry you feel offended. I do agree that those comments come across a tad harsh when you see it as being addressed to you as the TM. But i think even that has come out of misdirected anger, frustrarion and not personally directed at you at all. I think even the request to have a "disgust" emoji is a reaction to the content of the video that shows blatant misuse of a coactor to further their gains and tag on her popularity. So disgust is not directed at you/your post perse.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I'm sorry you feel offended. I do agree that those comments come across a tad harsh when you see it as being addressed to you as the TM. But i think even that has come out of misdirected anger, frustrarion and not personally directed at you at all. I think even the request to have a "disgust" emoji is a reaction to the content of the video that shows blatant misuse of a coactor to further their gains and tag on her popularity. So disgust is not directed at you/your post perse.

I understand but there was clearly written that this thread is disgusting as far as I know no one said anything which was too disgusting to read.