TOXIC SAI JOSHI, DT Reminder Pg 4 - Page 3

I don’t get it! Why is everyone defending Sai?? Of course she’s toxic, I mean she is more bothered about her self-respect than be with a guy who is illegally helping a terrorist and lying about it! I mean who decides to leave when you find out that your so called husband has been lying to you and spending nights in the hotel by saying its an official duty and cherry on top spending nights with some other Mrs Virat Chavan. Sai should be more understanding! Gosh!!!

Sai is really very toxic! Virat is very bechara, who is only betraying his country and his wife.

Virat is a mahaan as he cheated the nation but sai did a great crime by devkit wedding, reuniting ashwini ninad ,bringing back samrat,standing for mohit, saving virat's job

This is what happens when a woman stands for her self respect and dignity. You blame her of being toxic. Please switch the roles and keep Virat in Sai’s place and imagine what he and his crap family would have done to Sai if she would have spent the night in a hotel with a man and tell them that I can’t reveal anything, wait for the bloody correct time.

I wish she could have slapped him once for all his nonsense talks. On top of that the crap family wants her to stay back.

You are right Sai is toxic and I love the toxic Sai💖.

Both Sai and Virat do not have control over their words when they are angry. In this aspect they both hurt each other.

But Virat's actions classify as abuse - he uses his power to humiliate and punish Sai - it has a strong base of patriarchial right to control and punish. He becomes inhuman in his actions. Sai's rudeness and brashness can at the most be called bad behaviour.

So their behaviours cannot be compared.

There are several reasons for Sai's harsh exterior..one can easily connect with it... She had the only person whom she lost.. Hence earth below her shattered within a blink of eye..Next she was forced to marry a man who already had a woman in his life and confuses her with his behavior.. She is NOT badtameez but she speaks without uttering any nonsense.. If she was Badtameez then Virat would have at least gotten numerous slaps from Sai by now given to his amazing actions..

Virat is the guy who got everything so easily.. No wonder he takes everything for granted...He has risked his job, family and marriage for the sake of so called friendship.. This man just grew physically but his mental growth is one of those juvenile.. He is someone who never had to face any hardships hence he just doesn't value anything..we can't label him patriarchal because he supports his wife in education.. But then again he just wants to be sole anchor of Sai's life..

I never saw such a toxic man like virat as male lead of an indian show ! I hate him like I hated Shyam from IPKKND. At least he was called villain and got the punishment he deserved.

Regarding sai, I found her annoying sometimes in the initial days in that stupid house. But I don’t think she is toxic. She was immature and annoying sometimes that is all. But she can’t beat virat in annoying too. His expressions and body languages when sai ask anything are itself so annoying,

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Sai being fierce girl is a big joke , she was fierce initially till February / March but post that she’s all words but no actions .

But atleast she questions her own husband (rightfully) instead of simply fighting with ‘other woman’ and hiding her husband behind the other woman’s fault like majority of women do in this show as well what current prime time show on same channel did .

She doesn’t question Virat’s intentions out of whim, his actions made her do it .

Sai irritates me because she lacks clarity (in terms of what she perceives this marriage as - a deal or not?)

Irritating immature behaviour, shrieking voice, over the top unnecessary hand gestures (however I believe it's more obvious because of the actress's poor performance, Bengali GHKKPM had better actresses performing Sai and Pakhi’s roles so they weren’t as annoying as Hindi ones , Ayesha might be sweetheart off screen but she has very poor acting skills ) a lack of courage (she confronts Virat, but what happens next? She keeps returning to him for the smallest of reasons , I initially gave her the benefit of the doubt, but now it's a routine)

she's strong on the surface but really weak in essence, other fls atleast stand their ground post separation but this one is weakest amongst the current lot , however despite all this, she's far from toxic.

Virat is the show's most toxic character; he frequently plays with other people's emotions, manipulates them, and acts as though he is the most genuine of all the people.

Other characters, even the worst ones like Pakhi and the chavans, are at least honest about their motives, while Virat says one thing, does another, and then behaves like a victim at the end of all the drama he caused.

Originally posted by: SunshineC25

Sai irritates me because she lacks clarity (in terms of what she perceives this marriage as - a deal or not?)

Irritating immature behaviour, shrieking voice, over the top unnecessary hand gestures (however I believe it's more obvious because of the actress's poor performance, Bengali GHKKPM had better actresses performing Sai and Pakhi’s roles so they weren’t as annoying as Hindi ones , Ayesha might be sweetheart off screen but she has very poor acting skills ) a lack of courage (she confronts Virat, but what happens next? She keeps returning to him for the smallest of reasons , I initially gave her the benefit of the doubt, but now it's a routine)

she's strong on the surface but really weak in essence, other fls atleast stand their ground post separation but this one is weakest amongst the current lot , however despite all this, she's far from toxic.

Virat is the show's most toxic character; he frequently plays with other people's emotions, manipulates them, and acts as though he is the most genuine of all the people.

Other characters, even the worst ones like Pakhi and the chavans, are at least honest about their motives, while Virat says one thing, does another, and then behaves like a victim at the end of all the drama he caused.

The Bengali actress was way too irritating and she was pure badtameez... Hindi version has toned down Sai when it comes to her gestures with elders.. Emon even pushed her mother in law and usha maushi... During their reception she was literally screaming..That actress was only ahead in showing sultry attitude which Ayesha needs to work on... Madhumita completely misfit to play a teen..

Sai is more dignified than the Bengali version.. Ayesha brought that rawness in her acting and in her manarism..Post brain surgery Sai was shown more reluctant to be with Virat where as Emon was more into Rono and missing his touch..

Makers made Virat a pure joker..