Why doesn’t Samrat understand that something is wrong with Virat? - Page 3

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simmi988

I’m not talking about Samrakhi relationship. I agree it is not healthy

but Samrat has acknowledged that Virat has moved on. Their relationship is independent of what happens between Samrat and Pakhi


as for comparing Sai and Virat, both have been good and bad. So, I don’t want to drag that conversation.


Since you asked why Sam isn't doing this, why isn't Virat doing the same, maybe they both have the same reason, maybe Sam feels Virat should come to him for advice instead of him going to Virat giving unsolicited counsel. Who knows Virat might feel offended and Sam's interference might bring other problems as well.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat is not in the right mind and it is difficult for people on verge of depression to ask for help

Virat’s introvert nature is not helping


so, as a brother who at one point at least, loved him unconditionally, he can offer help


as I mentioned, if my brother is not behaving normally, I’ll at least try to help and talk even if yells at me because I truly love him and want him to be happy


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simmi988

Virat is not in the right mind and it is difficult for people on verge of depression to ask for help

Virat’s introvert nature is not helping


so, as a brother who at one point at least, loved him unconditionally, he can offer help


as I mentioned, if my brother is not behaving normally, I’ll at least try to help and talk even if yells at me because I truly love him and want him to be happy


In psychology I have studied that unless a person himself wants help we can't intervene, that is ethically wrong. We can't go giving unsolicited opinion as it might also have a negative impact. What after Sam's counsel Virat decides to end his life, tired of dealing with crap? Possible right? People like Virat, who always consider themselves to be the good one, can't handle being criticized or shown the error of their ways. It might have a bad impact on Virat if Sam talks so it's better if Virat takes a break for a few days and thinks rationally out of the toxic household. No one there is good for his mental health.

Best option would have been if Sairat moved out of CN and lived in a separate household, just the two of them. By now they could have resolved all of their issues.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Absolutely agree! It would hv not been such a big mu!👍

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pointing out that Virat was wrong has not ever been detrimental. In fact he has apologised as soon as he has realised that it was his mistake after all. In fact if you tell this to Sai may be she would consider to end her life because she has previously shown suicidal tendencies.

I agree with you that you cant offer help to people who haven't asked for it. However in case of your own kith and kin, I think there is no problem in offering to help. He could have at least told Virat that he can lend an ear but no Samrat didn't want to hear anything about it from Virat and he chose to hear it from Sai which I feel was wrong. Virat should have been given a chance to explain before Samrat concluding things. There are always two sides for a story.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I was glad Samrat observed his anger issues that no one has been able to see , not even he himself...He loses his mental semblance in anger... He starts harming people in anger... He needs to really go for some anger management class.....In emotional anger he forgets the thin line between right and wrong...And he has always been like that....Many might say Sai brings that in him...He had not been emotionally angry before Sai entered...His life was secured, conditioned...He was a raja beta of the house, well educated, aankho ka taara of the house... Nothing really was against him at his house...Nothing made him angry...Does not mean he did not have it in him....He always had, just that he did not have to bring it out, because things were mostly not out of his control....The Virat that Samrat saw back then is also the Virat who loses control when it comes to handling his emotions, his insecurities....

Takes me back to what a counsellor said when a couple married for 10 years went for some counselling...The couple said I have never been this way, the other person brings out the worst in me...And the counsellor said , no its not the other person bringing it out a version that you are not..This is you, the hidden you, the real you and you need to keep a check on that you...You need a counselling for that you...It just takes things not going as per you for some time to bring this "you" out of the other "you"..

I am sure this is Indian TV and all such things would be brushed under Virat crying unconsolably and Sairat having a confession...But the matter remains...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes I agree Virat has anger mgmt issues. Both Sairat need counselling.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Samrat I have no expectations but why is Ashwini not trying to act like a mother. Why can't she sit with Virat and ask him what's bothering him ? Why can't she push him to speak ? Why can't she hug like a mother and tell him that everything will be fine once he will confess what's in his heart ? Ashwini has become bekaar in the show. Before we used to get good scenes of her with Sai and Virat. She used to guide both. But now the only thing she does is stand in the crowd and feed Sai.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Buddy!! You smashed it 👏👏take a bow 🙏

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Samrat I have no expectations but why is Ashwini not trying to act like a mother. Why can't she sit with Virat and ask him what's bothering him ? Why can't she push him to speak ? Why can't she hug like a mother and tell him that everything will be fine once he will confess what's in his heart ? Ashwini has become bekaar in the show. Before we used to get good scenes of her with Sai and Virat. She used to guide both. But now the only thing she does is stand in the crowd and feed Sai.

Nowadays the story had no heads or tails. It is just running for the sake of it that's how most of us is feeling.

If we think about it every character present in chakram niwas are useless. Sai's solace is pulkit and devita and her friends who are outside. Samrat just came back,have no expections and if he blasts devar- bhabhi in the hospital scenes, I will count him as a sai supporter then.

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