It is absolutely unfair to compare one form of abuse with another. The amount of self doubt, fear, anger and helplessness that stems in a victim for lifelong is unexplainable.
Because you have asked a question above answering it with what comes in my mind when I think about it:
The third incident you mention was done for safeguarding his daughter not to teach her lessons or molest her. Not justifying the action at all but it does not have a moment's impact w.r.t intentions involved on the victim's mind. She does not in any manner feel her father's actions are intended towards humiliation or physical harm or are negative towards her.
There is a world of difference in intentions, emotions, danger involved & corresponding trauma.
It's not fair to put the first two against the third in any manner or even against each other.
Strictly my opinion, no offense at all.
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