Aswini - hypocritic & selfish

I saw many people saying aswini loves sai more & doesn't care about virat. They should watch today episode. She saw virat sai fighting, she saw how sai is upset over the bitter words virat told her but she could see pain of only virat. But want sai to fix everything in virat's life & make him happy. She doesn't care what & how sai feels. Her son being happy is her priority. As a mother why can't she sit with her son & talk to him about his problem instead of expecting sai to do everything. It's okay if she acts only mother in law to sai but she should stop pretending she loves them equally.

Well I dont know how they say she loves her more...She loves her as a daughter in law and she knows she is the right woman for her son...and right daughter in law for this family...So she loves Sai that way but not beyond her son...She made faces when Sai denied Virat's money and she also is ready to send Sai away missing her college with him...wherever he goes.. 🤣

I completely agree with you I always made a topic on her, she how many times created problems for Sai....

She keeps crying unnecessarily.

She's not a support as in other few shows where the mother has a say and is a real support to the DIL.

Even Ninu was trying to knock some sense into her today…that’s when you know it’s bad 🤣

She behaved absolutely selfishly today. This is not new behavior from her. Her goal is always keeping Sairat together…this is more important to her than Sai’s emotions and wellbeing. Even in the hospital scene, she immediately asked Sai to think about why Virat acted in the way he did…not even for a second did she try to understand what she was going through….

When Sai told samrat that she wishes someone would love her like the family loves him, this is exactly what she meant. She has no one who loves her unconditionally…the family is Virat’s, not her’s…and they love her through her relationship to him…

Originally posted by: tptwi

Even Ninu was trying to knock some sense into her today…that’s when you know it’s bad 🤣

She behaved absolutely selfishly today. This is not new behavior from her. Her goal is always keeping Sairat together…this is more important to her than Sai’s emotions and wellbeing. Even in the hospital scene, she immediately asked Sai to think about why Virat acted in the way he did…not even for a second did she try to understand what she was going through….

When Sai told samrat that she wishes someone would love her like the family loves him, this is exactly what she meant. She has no one who loves her unconditionally…the family is Virat’s, not her’s…and they love her through her relationship to him…

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I completely agree.. She did not speak to Sai like any sensible mother in law after the confrontation or even after Sammy’s return fiasco..

She must speak to Sai and understand what she must be going through in all these..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

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I completely agree.. She did not speak to Sai like any sensible mother in law after the confrontation or even after Sammy’s return fiasco..

She must speak to Sai and understand what she must be going through in all these..

She went and talked to Pakhi about her feelings towards the samrat situation, but not even once did she consider how all of this must have traumatized Sai…🤢

Originally posted by: tptwi

She went and talked to Pakhi about her feelings towards the samrat situation, but not even once did she consider how all of this must have traumatized Sai…🤢

Originally posted by: tptwi

When Sai told samrat that she wishes someone would love her like the family loves him, this is exactly what she meant. She has no one who loves her unconditionally…the family is Virat’s, not her’s…and they love her through her relationship to him…

Exactly she is a good mother in law only, she never cared for Sai like a mother. Everyone who supports Sai in that family does so in order to bring her closer to Virat. There is no one who thinks about Sai's real happiness or self respect.

And Ashwini being sweet towards Pakhi is just so lame just cuz she started acting like the ideal bahu. Till date she has been taunting Pakhi more than Virat but the moment she declares she's back with Samrat, Pakhi becomes good for her. Ashwini wants Sai to do the same, just forget whatever issues she has with Virat in one night and become a happy couple. She doesn't care how it happens, she just wants a happy couple who makes babies! Basically internalize all the bad feelings and continue to act like a normal couple in front of the family like she has been doing with Ninand all these years.
How one feels or their mental well being doesn't matter to her.

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Exactly she is a good mother in law only, she never cared for Sai like a mother. Everyone who supports Sai in that family does so in order to bring her closer to Virat. There is no one who thinks about Sai's real happiness or self respect.

And Ashwini being sweet towards Pakhi is just so lame just cuz she started acting like the ideal bahu. Till date she has been taunting Pakhi more than Virat but the moment she declares she's back with Samrat, Pakhi becomes good for her. Ashwini wants Sai to do the same, just forget whatever issues she has with Virat in one night and become a happy couple. She doesn't care how it happens, she just wants a happy couple who makes babies! Basically internalize all the bad feelings and continue to act like a normal couple in front of the family like she has been doing with Ninand all these years.
How one feels or their mental well being doesn't matter to her.

Honestly she always wanted Sai to fix things, Sai to see things...She has not even once reprimanded Virat for how him being with PP can affect her.. the way he should be...She never questioned his ways in too many situations...I have had issues with her being strict to Patralekha and not Virat...Only time she did was after the accident track.. But again lacklustre there as well.. I hated how after accident , she immediately had to tell Sai to think from Virat's perspective.. Beta prem beyond any prem for every mother.. Any good mother would have slapped him at 2-3 instances

When Sai says she has no one who loves her the way Samrat is loved, she knows what she is saying...

Ashwini is a good mother-in-law to Sai, not a mother.

Ashwini might be a good person but she is one of those indian ladies whose entire life revolves around their son. They have no other identity except being someone's wife/mother.

Sometimes I feel the only reason she accepted Sai when Virat first came home with her was because the rest of the family wasn't accepting her, to against all of them she accepted and later on understood that Sai is a good person.