Sai was not wrong ! - Page 4

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I was just thinking about Virat today....

What he is doing now (running... in his hurt) fits his character perfectly...

I don't mind him wanting to take a break.....but he should have done his part of the job of telling Sai everything about his past and assure her that he has moved on. He could have then moved out. The ball would have been in Sai's court and she would have got to the same place as Virat slowly. Right now, his transfer is leaving her high and dry.....and extremely confused.

Virat's emotions are genuine.....he deeply loves and cares for Sai. But in his emotions, he fails to look at things from others POV.

It will take years before he learns to see things from others POV - till then SaiRat will face a lot of discord...and Sai will have to bear the entire burden of the relationship. It is very painful to have an uncommunicative spouse....Sai may not be able to handle it. Their marriage is likely to be very messy.

Sai makes mistakes too....but much can be attributed to their strange situation and her young age (as far as we have known about her).

The same with Samrat.

If you see, even forgetting Pakhi's nature for now, Virat's conversation with Samrat regarding Virakhi past is patchy

This man has got some serious issues with communication.

As for Pakhi's nature, Virat is making a serious error of judgement in concealing Pakhi's vileness and her obsession for him. While I understand his motivations, I'm still not able to see how - the very same woman whom he fell out of love with seeing her crazy behaviour, deems her for his brother. 😂😂

@ bold I would have loved this. This will also answer all the audience questions on why he never spoke up and clarified Didi and his relation since he was the one who drilled these thoughts in the first place. Then Sai could have decided what to do

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Apart from Mental, honestly he is not physically fit as well..

Again the decision is emotional and not professional...had it been professional, I would have criticized Sai, a lot more than I am doing it now..But sadly he did not take this decision as an IPS officer but as a hurt and devastated husband...

That's true. He's not at his best form both physically and mentally. So it's not wrong to postpone it or Sai to cite this as a reason.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

I totally agree with your post. You're absolutely right. Mental health is very much important as much as physical fitness is. If we consider Virat's mental health, he's not in his best form. He took this transfer on an impulse of his heartbreak. Moreover according to him, it's a very dangerous place where he has to be entirely focused to his work so that he can take the right decisions at the right time which is crucial for such jobs. So Sai isn't wrong to mention that, neither is the DIG to consider postponing his transfer coz of this.

The entire situation may look illogical, but it's not unheard of when a family or wife considers a transfer being not right at the moment and asking thr higher officials to introspect further and then take a decision.

And about Ninad's rapport with Ashwini, it seems like finally his son's love and caring nature has caught up on him after his DIL presented him with a harmonium😆. Its surprising but a good welcoming change.

exactly in Indian scenarios it is very common … particularly in Govt organisations..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I am appalled by how this show portrays elders in a family. Nobody handles situation like a sensible adult.

As I mentioned, why is Didi's parents yet to arrive.. there were talks about her divorce and they are MIA..

Ashwini is completely hopeless... When it comes to marital problems...

Bold - Didi will be busy in her new attempts to make Virat Jealous.. ie.. seducing Sammy🤣

Sammy ki toh cherry 🍒 pop hogi hi … didi toh bilkul seductive snake dance karna hi baki hai … he was blushing so much at the breakfast table … but this Sai bai and her Pati had to do their daily Kich kich at table … both are becoming like Kaku mandli .. inko didi Sam ki Khushi digest nahi hoti ..

Waise ashwini ninad me bhi marital harmony hai courtesy harmonium …

Where is Karishma these days and Usha … both cooks are absconding … bechari pakhi didi ko suhag raat ke baad kitchen Jana pada…

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I was just thinking about Virat today....

What he is doing now (running... in his hurt) fits his character perfectly...

I don't mind him wanting to take a break.....but he should have done his part of the job of telling Sai everything about his past and assure her that he has moved on. He could have then moved out. The ball would have been in Sai's court and she would have got to the same place as Virat slowly. Right now, his transfer is leaving her high and dry.....and extremely confused.

Virat's emotions are genuine.....he deeply loves and cares for Sai. But in his emotions, he fails to look at things from others POV.

It will take years before he learns to see things from others POV - till then SaiRat will face a lot of discord...and Sai will have to bear the entire burden of the relationship. It is very painful to have an uncommunicative spouse....Sai may not be able to handle it. Their marriage is likely to be very messy.

Sai makes mistakes too....I'm not diminishing her faults....but much can be attributed to their strange situation and her young age (as far as we have known about her).

The same with Samrat.

If you see, even forgetting Pakhi's nature for now, Virat's conversation with Samrat regarding Virakhi past is patchy

This man has got some serious issues with communication.

As for Pakhi's nature, Virat is making a serious error of judgement in concealing Pakhi's vileness and her obsession for him. While I understand his motivations, I'm still not able to see how - the very same woman whom he fell out of love with seeing her crazy behaviour, deems her for his brother. 😂😂

Like we discussed before..

Right now both are at fault Nethraa...But I see Virat more at fault because he has issues speaking out..Sai holds back her emotions for him..thats it, otherwise she has been pretty clear about herself , her friendship...SHe also understood his jealousy towards her friends and even Amey being that young and even though being a deal wife she handles it as a wife would..Virat has neither understood her insecurities, considering her age , her situation is graver than his ..nor does he address it when she directly asks him..from the very beginning.. The situation that they are in right now is more because of him..In my opinion..

Also w.r.t Pakhi, how many times will he make the erro of judgment, exactly how many times is he supposed to that.. Till when?

Originally posted by: msin

Sammy ki toh cherry 🍒 pop hogi hi … didi toh bilkul seductive snake dance karna hi baki hai … he was blushing so much at the breakfast table … but this Sai bai and her Pati had to do their daily Kich kich at table … both are becoming like Kaku mandli .. inko didi Sam ki Khushi digest nahi hoti ..

Waise ashwini ninad me bhi marital harmony hai courtesy harmonium …

Where is Karishma these days and Usha … both cooks are absconding … bechari pakhi didi ko suhag raat ke baad kitchen Jana pada…

Do you guys think they did it already?

Originally posted by: msin

Sammy ki toh cherry 🍒 pop hogi hi … didi toh bilkul seductive snake dance karna hi baki hai … he was blushing so much at the breakfast table … but this Sai bai and her Pati had to do their daily Kich kich at table … both are becoming like Kaku mandli .. inko didi Sam ki Khushi digest nahi hoti ..

Waise ashwini ninad me bhi marital harmony hai courtesy harmonium …

Where is Karishma these days and Usha … both cooks are absconding … bechari pakhi didi ko suhag raat ke baad kitchen Jana pada…

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I was just thinking about Virat today....

What he is doing now (running... in his hurt) fits his character perfectly...

I don't mind him wanting to take a break.....but he should have done his part of the job of telling Sai everything about his past and assure her that he has moved on. He could have then moved out. The ball would have been in Sai's court and she would have got to the same place as Virat slowly. Right now, his transfer is leaving her high and dry.....and extremely confused.

Virat's emotions are genuine.....he deeply loves and cares for Sai. But in his emotions, he fails to look at things from others POV.

It will take years before he learns to see things from others POV - till then SaiRat will face a lot of discord...and Sai will have to bear the entire burden of the relationship. It is very painful to have an uncommunicative spouse....Sai may not be able to handle it. Their marriage is likely to be very messy.

Sai makes mistakes too....I'm not diminishing her faults....but much can be attributed to their strange situation and her young age (as far as we have known about her).

The same with Samrat.

If you see, even forgetting Pakhi's nature for now, Virat's conversation with Samrat regarding Virakhi past is patchy

This man has got some serious issues with communication.

As for Pakhi's nature, Virat is making a serious error of judgement in concealing Pakhi's vileness and her obsession for him. While I understand his motivations, I'm still not able to see how - the very same woman whom he fell out of love with seeing her crazy behaviour, deems her for his brother. 😂😂

sorry I missed this post .. I agree totally .. virat has poor communication skills .. he has unnecessary made the matter tough for Sai .. by revealing somehow that she should be happy that he’s gone .. .. the hyenas will rip her apart in dinner table .. the moment samrat ( for whom they are behaving zz nicely ) is outside

they had summarily ignored samrat’s issue with pakhi abd given her a wide wide berth .. but Sai will be scolded everyday .. after virat leaves the house

And it is unfair for sai to continue living with these folks ..

virat not revealing everything to samrat .. is a catch 22 .. if everything is out .. samrat if he’s sane will write off from the situation and hand over pakhi to virat ..

Sai herself will feel pakhi needs virat more .. so by keeping quiet .. he’s atleast pushing samrat pakhi to start their marriage.. it’s Machiavellian but .. the more time samrat n pakhi spend together as a couple .. the more impossible and unacceptable it becomes for virat pakhi ( mythical) union in anyway..

Only didi can keep on dreaming .. Sai will stop shipping them the day she sees pakhi even fake happy with samrat .. abd start looking at her future with virat

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Do you guys think they did it already?

Serial hai toh no ways … if they do it … then KD ka pregnancy drama goes Kapoot

In real life the amount of wiles didi was throwing Sam would have done it with her…

With her Mangal sutra drama ,,, Mujhe pyar chahiye , Khushi chahiye ,,, Pati ka sukh

if Sai ne ek line bhi viru ko bola hota … to viru jump Kar jata …

Birthday honeymoon anniversary dance karke bhi deal deal hi reh gaya for Sai Rat

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I liked that Delusional Didi is back.. yesterday she made me worry for a moment there 🤣thought she became positive forever…

Oh is she back? I'm glad cuz I can't digest the sweet version of hers, watching her being all caring and nice makes me feel like I'm in an alternate dimension.