Difference then and now - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He is being selfish...He wants his brother in the house.. Also thinks she he is anyway leaving, it might help Pakhi..Since Samrat is a good guy and Pakhi never actually got a chance... So he ignores her vileness and in his mind calls its distress and confusion.. He is also a delusional man that way...

He thinks by being with Sai, realising her goodness, how easily he fell in love with her and also understood that what he shared with Patralekha was infatutation, similarly Pakhi will also follow..Virat does not think from other's perspectives.. He is that man and that's established...He thinks if things worked for him, it worked for others as well.. And he does not learn from his mistakes as well.. I am hoping the whole drama of locking in the room does not happen.. the good point about Neil as Virat is that he conveys Virat's feelings...SO he kept on looking at Sai as well, while explaining things.. And he is upset she misunderstands him.. So he is bit angry and yet cant not look at her while presenting his side...Since they used a BD one wont know the exact transaction, but I am happy the editing was not bad..

In all this I cant see Sai like that, trying to explain to her self, ready herself that Virat does not want to be around her and then get back to thinking he is sacrificing for his brother's happiness..

Regarding Samrat, well he wants a relationship with Patralekha, he has not seen how vile she is, so may be he wants it...SO I guess its not Virat who is forcing him, manipulating him but Pakhi and her beauty. Virat wanted Pakhi to talk Samrat herself and clarified his stance there.. SO yeah that's there..

EVen Samrat spoke good about Virat, Badshah did not, not this early..Samrat meltled, Badshah did not..SO yes thats how it is.. Virat now knows Samrat wants to stay back for this relationship so he wants it to work that way.. He is good friend in all this and he is still seeing Pakhi as a lost case and not a vile woman.. He tries to understand the reason behind everybody's unpredictable/bad behaviour , but not his wife Typical husband EGO!

His look to Sai when Kaku mentioned man mei khot hota toh kya ye dono batate, infuriated me...He planned not to tell and that's a fact...Had Sai not seen him, he would not have...But the sweet talker he is, he evaded the conversation there.. He shows his smartness when he is stuck🤣🤣

Also he should not have brought up Shivani's divorce when he talked about hand hold.. And it was coming out from the person who doubted his voice after being told many times that they are friends, before and after the incident. Here Pakhi and him are not mere friends. That makes him come across a hypocrite.

Also have an issue, with how he said "Taaki hamare baaton ko galat tareeke se dekha na jaye" looking at Sai...After what Pakhi said to him, can he still call out Sai for finding something wrong??🤪

In all this there is a family who rejoiced at the Bahu being assaulted, abused, character assasinated now wants the other bahu of the house to not be insulted. The members who rejoiced a husband wife breaking up, husband throwing his wife out, talks about how issues should be resolved between a husband an wife by talking.. Brilliant Vankar.. Brilliant.. Atleast in original the members were disgusted.. especially Ninad and Ashwini... and also Mansi!

I am sorry rest but I agree with Asmi ..I may sound harsh but in the long run it was best he told the entire con atleast to Sam in private and then left it to him

For me this is part of sibling code , no bs truth above everything. No matter how much it hurts

Even I totally disliked the way he brought up Shivani topic ..

Sai atleast has the guts to voice her mind and stand by what she believes in truth mostly

I have slightly different opinions from you.. What he spoke today was well thought by him,

He wanted to set things accordingly because it will serve his best interest as well...

He told his side of truth and left Pakhi the rest of the truth.. He wanted to clear things with Sai as well indirectly..

After hearing sai's conversation with Shivani he felt if Samrat leaves Sai too will leave.. If Pakhi agrees to stay in this marriage Samrat may stay here ..So everything is connected with each other.. If he didn't react he may end up loosing his brother for good also he still wanted to be loved by Sai..

See its the human nature that we all wanted to be loved but don't know how ..In this process we often become selfish... I am NOT happy with him at all because Samrat deserves the whole truth. Keeping him in dark he js also ruining his life.. This time he again left Pakhi in the cliffhanger.. Difference is the burden of Pakhi's residual feelings will be borne by Samrat

AparnaRenu

Wow. How beautiful an explanation in your words that exposed Sai’s Virat Sir!

Agree with every word...

Overwhelmed to read something like this.. Thank you.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I am sorry rest but I agree with Asmi ..I may sound harsh but in the long run it was best he told the entire con atleast to Sam in private and then left it to him

For me this is part of sibling code , no bs truth above everything. No matter how much it hurts

Even I totally disliked the way he brought up Shivani topic ..

Sai atleast has the guts to voice her mind and stand by what she believes in truth mostly

Thats why I called him selfish , delusional and someone who evades confrontation.. He is being selfish there... and also righteous.. Him looking at Sai and saying people would have misunderstood them, after all she said came true... He is absolutely inconsiderate and clueless about Sai's feelings when it comes to Patralekha's behaviour with him...

Originally posted by: Shaome

I have slightly different opinions from you.. What he spoke today was well thought by him,

He wanted to set things accordingly because it will serve his best interest as well...

He told his side of truth and left Pakhi the rest of the truth.. He wanted to clear things with Sai as well indirectly..

After hearing sai's conversation with Shivani he felt if Samrat leaves Sai too will leave.. If Pakhi agrees to stay in this marriage Samrat may stay here ..So everything is connected with each other.. If he didn't react he may end up loosing his brother for good also he still wanted to be loved by Sai..

See its the human nature that we all wanted to be loved but don't know how ..In this process we often become selfish... I am NOT happy with him at all because Samrat deserves the whole truth. Keeping him in dark he js also ruining his life.. This time he again left Pakhi in the cliffhanger.. Difference is the burden of Pakhi's residual feelings will be borne by Samrat

After the whole Ram Laxman Gatha he does not want to go and tell, Pakhi is S*****kha and not Sita Ram bhaiya.. 😆

Well...I am double minded about the epi after reading the reviews..but here is my opinion .

Virat doesn't see bad in people. He does act hypocritical many times when it concerns sai ..but to him, his family hold a special place including pakhi..he doesn't see how vile kaku is..how ninad is how Sonali is. How his kaka is....Either he doesn't see or doesn't understand or keep his eyes and mouth shut for family peace...with patralekha ..along with this, he is feeling the guilt for putting pakhi in this position.. give her her vaada which convinced her to marry samrat. He feels the same guilt for samrat and he holds himself responsible for samrat -pakhi failed marriage. In his capacity he is trying to mend their relation bec samrat believes he has feelings for pakhi.

I believe there is no question of virat thinking that pakhi is not suitable for samrat. He is hopeful she will understand one day and move on..wishful thinking but aisa hi hai.

Today, I am glad he didn't declare that pakhi is ready to give a chance to samrat...tg for small mercies.. He cleared his own stance to give a closure to family and to sai. And then he left it to pakhi to decide. Tomorrow she will find a way to shift the blame on virat again by her fizool talks "main aur kya karti tumne family ko bata diya main unki nazron mein gir jaati" so on and so forth. But abhi ke liye virat se Bala tali.

Yes he did act smart..lied by omission. Apne aap ko kaun galat kehta hai😆 I take him as he is..as far as sai accepting such a man is concerned....I was watching a show n the guy said a very good thing....mind looks for logic , good and bad , right and wrong ..heart doesn't understand anything...jahan dimag ki hadh khatam hoti hai wahan dil ki duniya shuru hoti hai....jo dil ko chahiye wo chahiye 😍

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well...I am double minded about the epi after reading the reviews..but here is my opinion .

Virat doesn't see bad in people. He does act hypocritical many times when it concerns sai ..but to him, his family hold a special place including pakhi..he doesn't see how vile kaku is..how ninad is how Sonali is. How his kaka is....Either he doesn't see or doesn't understand or keep his eyes and mouth shut for family peace...with patralekha ..along with this, he is feeling the guilt for putting pakhi in this position.. give her her vaada which convinced her to marry samrat. He feels the same guilt for samrat and he holds himself responsible for samrat -pakhi failed marriage. In his capacity he is trying to mend their relation bec samrat believes he has feelings for pakhi.

I believe there is no question of virat thinking that pakhi is not suitable for samrat. He is hopeful she will understand one day and move on..wishful thinking but aisa hi hai.

Today, I am glad he didn't declare that pakhi is ready to give a chance to samrat...tg for small mercies.. He cleared his own stance to give a closure to family and to sai. And then he left it to pakhi to decide. Tomorrow she will find a way to shift the blame on virat again by her fizool talks "main aur kya karti tumne family ko bata diya main unki nazron mein gir jaati" so on and so forth. But abhi ke liye virat se Bala tali.

Yes he did act smart..lied by omission. Apne aap ko kaun galat kehta hai😆 I take him as he is..as far as sai accepting such a man is concerned....I was watching a show n the guy said a very good thing....mind looks for logic , good and bad , right and wrong ..heart doesn't understand anything...jahan dimag ki hadh khatam hoti hai wahan dil ki duniya shuru hoti hai....jo dil ko chahiye wo chahiye 😍

He is that person who wants to not let go the righteous image in many cases.. until and unless the mistakes are too blatant to hide🤣

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He is that person who wants to not let go the righteous image in many cases.. until and unless the mistakes are too blatant to hide🤣

True..he does that..mostly people r like that..they also lie to show themselves good..pakhi is the same.breed 😆 But she is delusional and she hurts those who hurt her . She can be toxic and vicious , virat can be toxic to sai but that's bec of misunderstandings, mistrust and miscommunication ..

In his case , his image is also connected to pakhis. And he know they did wrong in the past. He can't justify it , just admit that they were wrong and move on..complete truth will be harmful to everyone 😆....

he confessed he was wrong to lie that day ..but he will never say he IS wrong bec he has no feelings for pakhi today..not even residual..he isn't doing the needful , I.e to confront Sai with the complete truth in black and white , that's bec he is protecting himself from another heartbreak.

this situation becomes.complex bec one of them has moved on while the other hasn't. Sai doesn't get any assurance from.his "confession"😆 He fails to understand this.

Originally posted by: _charu_

True..he does that..mostly people r like that..they also lie to show themselves good..pakhi is the same.breed 😆 But she is delusional and she hurts those who hurt her . She can be toxic and vicious , virat can be toxic to sai but that's bec of misunderstandings, mistrust and miscommunication ..

In his case , his image is also connected to pakhis. And he know they did wrong in the past. He can't justify it , just admit that they were wrong and move on..complete truth will be harmful to everyone 😆....

he confessed he was wrong to lie that day ..but he will never say he IS wrong bec he has no feelings for pakhi today..not even residual..he isn't doing the needful , I.e to confront Sai with the complete truth in black and white , that's bec he is protecting himself from another heartbreak.

this situation becomes.complex bec one of them has moved on while the other hasn't. Sai doesn't get any assurance from.his "confession"😆 He fails to understand this.

He fails to see her insecurities and her issues in the way Pakhi behaves with him... Sai does not even have an issue if they are friends..Khair in all this, once they have confessed and are fine, will he let her know how Sai was always , always right about Pakhi's intentions towards him, about wanting a life with him until recently..Would he come clean there, since he has shamed Sai and also let the family shame her and has always always called it BAKWAAS!!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He fails to see her insecurities and her issues in the way Pakhi behaves with him... Sai does not even have an issue if they are friends..Khair in all this, once they have confessed and are fine, will he let her know how Sai was always , always right about Pakhi's intentions towards him, about wanting a life with him until recently..Would he come clean there, since he has shamed Sai and also let the family shame her and has always always called it BAKWAAS!!

He can't be responsible for what pakhi is thinking yaar...he can't do anything about her issues and her insecurities can he? He is nobody to ask her to leave ..if he tells everyone that pakhi still loves him, it will ruin her image .... Sai was right about pakhis intentions yes but isse kya hota hai? If he thought so deeply, he would have come clean long ago. He just doesn't realize how Sai looks at this situation . Sai was right about his family too, but he will never see them that way..if his family is wrong he will look the other side , ignore and move on.

He is right in one thing , he has no feelings for pakhi, he loves Sai. Virat and pakhi r kinda tainted now , if they r meeting , talking , or doing anything, it will.be misconstrued...Sai will probably approve of friendship but a doubt will always remain? Virat may confess and assure her there is nothing bit Sai may still believe otherwise bec she has reasons... what if pakhi keeps lurking around , seen in his room etc? He can't stop it.