Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown
This is exactly what the makers want to show. They want to show that love is beyond everything... even abuse. No matter how much your abuser ill-treats you, tortures you, makes your life living hell and walks over you, if he tells you that he loves you, he does, and you should believe it. What more, you should also appreciate it and reciprocate it. If you don't reciprocate, he's going to lovingly abuse you even more.
Do you guys agree??
I have no words ...due to stupid movies and ITV that romaticize abuse and sometimes make it look like devotion and blind love can change peeps
Some cases they try and try and sometimes too late or the repurcussiions are really bad when they walk away
Is it possible not really unless there is some therapy involved or counselling ?
What's the sad part is they are counselled that having kids will improve the situation..but either the kids end up normalizing abuse and cycle continues. Here abuse refers to emo abuse too, deny affection respect food all incl or those kids end up p scares not ready to make lasting relationships. And this is irrespective of gender
People are blind to notice the red flags in the relationship and when others try to tell them they block them out
Maybe i come across bitter or rude in some of the posts or pessimistic. But believe me I have been Der .
So on prime time when to they show a ML who is a cop normalizing abuse the impact it has 🥺
When I walked out believe me lot of them gave me many stupid examples of ITV ..it was so hard ..
Edited by AnjuRish - 4 years ago
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