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Posted: 4 years ago
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She is really a pure soul. I really think she should leave CN and focus on her studies, her career. This daily attack on her self respect where she is tolerating her husband's ex 24x7, and tolerating the behavior of these two faced CN peeps who didnt bat an eyelid when pp ended up being guilty of everything they denied in the past....this is too much. Why should she put up with so much on a daily basis. If she leaves and virat truly loves her, he will eventually realize that the only way to live together is to be in an apartment just the two of them. Away from his ex n his horrible family.

Virat keeps saying Sai cant read his eyes/emotions. But is he any better?! How does he not read Sai. Dont her actions clearly potray her love and affection. When Virat told Sai that he appreciates that Sai is always honest n says what she feels with no filters, and its a good quality which she should not change Sai says- do you have the quality...If not cultivate it! And virat acts clueless that he doesn't understand what she means. She is referring to him not speaking clearly about him- pp. If he could speak what is on his mind there would be no misunderstanding. Virat appreciates the quality of her straightforwardness but cant take the heat when its directed at him and is retorting with indifference. He knows somewhere that this behavior is hurting Sai....but he doesn't want to acknowledge it. And i dont understand his expression when Pp is once again creating unecessary drama as Sai walks in to the room. Why does he look pained exactly ?! Here pp is pretending - saying sorry to Sai for coming to the room n saying room n insaan are both yours n in precap in coffee shop she is saying she wants a fresh start with virat. This woman has filth in her mind. No brain. Just garbage.

Its ridiculous that the oldies of the house have so casually brushed away virat-pp like it is no big deal. I am truly appalled at their double standards. Like really they all are utterly shameless.

Samrat though has recognized that Sai cares a lot for virat-but is held back due to virats words. He is the only one who cares about giving Sai some counsel and direction. He wants the best for Sai n Virat. But sadly everytime Sai thinks about giving her marriage a chance, circumstances always become unfavorable.

I really am not able to empathize with virat. I am trying to but i am unable to understand his pov. Aisa kya baat karegi pp that he has agreed so easily to go to cafe. He does not seem to care about repercussions of his actions on Sai/Samrat.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why do makers have to copy Shitty KD man🤬

That Virat, who didn't want to speak ro speak even a word with Sai, agreed to meet Didi at a cafe without giving it a second thought. Ughhh. Why do the makers show Virat this inconsistent🤬🤬🤬

Makers are hell bent on making us hate SaiRat, maybe it'a part of their 'Make SamrAkhi the leads' mission🤬🤬🤬🤬


I Like Virat, but only the Virat no.2, as described by Sai during Shivratri.




Now don't even quote my post if it's for DEFENDING Virat. I don't feel like listening. No offence to anyone, I just don't want to get into an arguement.

Edited by Devikadish - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think a lot of people have stopped empathising with Virat. It's not that the audience doesn't want to empathise with him but that opportunity is not given because they just show him so dumb at times. The moment people do start empathising with Virat, the scenario changes by showing him like someone who has no common sense or logic to his words or actions. Meeting with an ex who is the cause of all his problems and his family's too and that too away from home!! What sane person would do that? As for the Chavan Niwasis, don't even let me get started! It's funny to even think of the scenario had Mohit or Virat said that they wanted to divorce their respective partners. I think they would have started a never-ending celebration. But because didi is such an important member even more than Samrat, divorce is a no-no in the family.

Thank you for the update NJ 😊

Edited by Dee10 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Devikadish

Why do makers have to copy Shitty KD man🤬

That Virat, who didn't want to speak ro speak even a word with Sai, agreed to meet Didi at a cafe without giving it a second thought. Ughhh. Why do the makers show Virat this inconsistent🤬🤬🤬

Makers are hell bent on making us hate SaiRat, maybe it'a part of their 'Make SamrAkhi the leads' mission🤬🤬🤬🤬


I Like Virat, but only the Virat no.2, as described by Sai during Shivratri.




Now don't even quote my post if it's for DEFENDING Virat. I don't feel like listening. No offence to anyone, I just don't want to get into an arguement.


@bold wrong information. He did give it a thought

Pakhi: I want to meet you in private outside. It's really important

Virat : Image

I gave it a deep thought. Since you are saying it's important it must be important.

Ok, I'll meet you for our date at 4 👍🏼

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thank you for the update Neerja❤️

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Originally posted by: nethraa_99


@bold wrong information. He did give it a thought

Pakhi: I want to meet you in private outside. It's really important

Virat : Image

I gave it a deep thought. Since you are saying it's important it must be important.

Ok, I'll meet you for our date at 4 👍🏼

Sai be like: Tuada important important, sadda important bakwaas.



OK bye🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat’s point of view

Virat can not read Sai’s love through her expressions because she herself told Samrat that she has no feelings for Virat. Not only that she ridiculed Virat’s anniversary plan and straightly told him that theirs is a deal marriage and so no need to celebrate.

In the wake of such oral confessions,why would Virat think that Sai has feelings for him? He was thinking that she is doing her duty as a deal wife. Sai even called him a two timer and one who made ghatia plan.

Considering all this Virat would never believe that she has feelings. He thus asked her to be formal and not to interfere in his matters.

Now while accepting Pakhi’s date proposal,Virat won’t bother to think about Sai’ because anyway she believes he still nourishes something for Pakhi in his heart.

I feel Virat’s line to Sai in cafe that was shown by SBS indicated the same..

There is a big difference between Virat of today and Virat Of pre honeymoon days.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well no need of you guys to empathize or defend a guy two timer🤪. It's okay if he went to meet Patralekha to a cafe, because that's what a two timer does na? It's okay there also he will tell her to move on, he loves Sai, but the sad truth is that he's a two timer


It's okay if Sai calls him a two timer, but he should always comply to her, without thinking of his self respect. What's the problem if a loyal guy is called a two timer? Not once but twice in the same day. No character assassination is only reserved for woman and man can be character assassinated many times.

Edited by AninditaB - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am absolutely loving Samrat. He has pieced together Sai and Virat's entire situation in just a few days. I keep saying that he is a fresh pair of eyes, but he also knows Virat better than anyone else and deeply understands Sai's pain. It seems clear that he is going to be the person Sai has been needing this entire time... and not just in terms of figuring out her relationship with Virat, but also in terms of having a person who will stand by her side unwaveringly.


Seeing most people in zillat today praising Sai instead of bashing her was a refreshing change. Even the usual vultures didn't have much to say to counter her praises.


Coming to Virat's attitude towards Sai. There is an important distinction between him acting this way to hurt her and him acting this way to protect himself. And, it is quite clear from the past few episodes that the reason he is acting is this way is the latter. He is doing exactly what Sai has been doing this entire time. His heart will never stop loving her, but his mind has put up walls, causing him to act harsh and indifferent in order to cover up his vulnerabilities. He does not think that Sai will ever understand him. He does not think that she will ever accept this marriage. So, he has lost all hope and he has given up. He wants to save himself from any further heartbreak...exactly like Sai has wanted to save herself the heartbreak, using her brash exterior to cover up how she truly feels.


The morning scene between Sai and Virat was so painful. Virat told Sai not to take care of him, but Sai told him point blank that she does not need his permission. With Virat growing distant, Sai is asserting her rights over him more and more clearly. She is fighting for and reminding him of her rights over him, because these rights have been real to her all along. She just has been unable to let herself accept them. Again, Virat is failing miserably in his indifference- he went on a long tangent complimenting how Sai always stands up for the truth and got so carried away that he did not even realize what he was doing. The second he saw her face, he stopped and shook his own head...he himself knows that he is being quite unsuccessful at what he is trying to do. Sai basically told Virat that he has to tell the truth now, because there is no other option left. She once again indirectly asked him for clarification, but he was unable to comprehend what she was saying. In his mind, he knows bright and clear what the truth is, and again, he expects everyone to just understand his truth without him saying anything. Because, he is once again wallowing in his own emotions.


Virat saying that he is uncomfortable with Sai taking care of him absolutely broke Sai. Ayesha killed this scene. She was trying so hard to keep herself composed, but she could not stop her tears. This attitude from Virat is destroying her piece by piece....and she does not even understand why it is happening. Virat using the word "uncomfortable" impacted her more than anything else he said, because to her, there is nothing more comfortable than her relationship with Virat. Up until this point, regardless of the deal, zimidari, and guardianship, both of them have been each other's comfort. She has accepted it fully...but for Virat to say this, was an attack on everything she holds to be true. Despite all of her hurt, she said she does not care and will take care of him regardless. She can tolerate this behavior...she can tolerate anything...she just cannot tolerate Virat in pain.

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Coming to the dreaded cafe invitation. First and foremost, I want to say that it is absolutely wrong of Virat to agree to go to the cafe. There is no denying that. But, I think there is more to it than just that... it is more complicated than that.


Virat thinks that Sai has already made up her mind. He thinks that no matter what, she will continue believing that this marriage is a deal, and that he feels for Pakhi. He thinks that nothing will ever change that. He has lost all hope in that regard. So, when he agrees to go to the cafe, he does not think it will impact Sai nor his relationship with her. Had the anniversary fight not happened, perhaps he would have given it a second thought...but since then, he has given up. This was evident when Sai came into the bedroom and told Virat and Pakhi that she did not want to interrupt their personal conversation. To Virat, there was no such thing happening...but, Sai's words just reaffirmed, to him, what he is already believing. That, Sai has made up her mind, and that is all. He looked extremely frustrated, and he looked even more pained and frustrated when Pakhi said that Virat is Sai's. Because, that is not true for him anymore. No matter what he does (in his mind), nothing will be able to make him her's and her his. He thought that his actions should have been enough for Sai to understand him, and he now believes that nothing will clear her misunderstanding. I'm not undermining the fact that this entire mess has been created because Virat did not clear up the past in the first place. Rather, I'm trying to look at things from his perspective.


In terms of Virat being inconsiderate towards Samrat. Virat is so deep into his own guilt regarding his role in ruining his marriage, that he will do anything he has to do to fix it. If meeting Pakhi outside the house can make things better, he will do that too. He is not going to think about how this will all look to Samrat, and that is just who he is. His emotions prevent him from considering other people's POVs. In his mind, he assumes that what Pakhi wants to talk about has to be about Samrat. Also, it is clear how cold and distant he was acting towards Pakhi. He was shocked that she even entered his bedroom, and his eyes were wandering searching for Sai. The second their conversation ended, he turned his back towards her. He asked her if she spoke to Samrat, again showing his desperation for them to work things out. All in all, I really do believe that Virat has assumed that Pakhi's important talk is about Samrat and her marriage with him. That is why he has agreed to meet her... no matter how dumb his decision is.


Sai seeing them both together in the room broke my heart even further. She was trying so hard to not let it impact her. And even so, she still suppressed her feelings in order to be able to take care of Virat. She does not deserve any of this even in the slightest. I don't understand those who think that she had this coming 😭


Virat's dialogue at the end spoke volumes- he said that he cannot understand Sai... these are the exact words that Sai has said about Virat time and time again. Virat said that Sai cares about his health, but not his feelings. He cannot see that the reason she cares so deeply about his health is because she is in love with him. He is misunderstanding her actions as something other than love, and this is exactly what Sai has been doing this entire time too. Both of them are unable to understand each other. Virat isn't realizing that the reason Sai is unable to see his feelings is because of how the past is haunting her and how he himself has failed to clear everything up time and time again. And again, even in Virat's indifference, he was still concerned about Sai missing her college and her studies suffering because of him.

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A quick thing about Pakhi. It is so vile how she is manipulating this entire situation in attempt to get Virat to meet her at the cafe. She is acting all innocent, trying to appear as if she understands the boundaries between herself and Virat. Her telling Sai that Virat is her's was honestly a despicable act. She is again trying to save her face in front of Virat so that she can accomplish what she is intending to do at the cafe. Sai looked so confused and kind of taken aback when Pakhi said this... she looked towards Virat, almost in search of some type of affirmation that this could be true. But, he was too deep in his own pain to see this....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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So very wonderfully put!!!!

Agree completely with everything you have written, Pooja ❤️

I'm heartbroken over the pain these two are in.... but the pacing has been excellent this week, and I'm hoping after Cafe scene, things start exploding and clearing up.

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