Ghum Hai Kiskey Pyar Mein: Episode Discussion Thread #47 - Page 73

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

People who have seen the episode, please help me. Virat is coming across as a jilted lover to me. His dialogues are indicating that he's unable to handle Sai's NO. He hasn't clearly told Sai that he loves her and he has nothing to do with Pakhi and now he's using words like beizzati and insult when he's thinking about Sai's refusal. Itna kyun butcher kiya ja raha hai iss bande ko

Both are paheli boojho husband wife. He assumed she might have figured out that he has feelings for her , and she rejected him ..nai..she said love is forbidden between them and she also implied that he is committed to pakhi so he can't think abt loving another girl.

Imo she did insult virat. It was just a celebration and sai made a tamasha out of it by lashing out on virat in front of mohit and sunny... She was furious that he lied to her and brought her to mahabaleshwar. Like why? Can't he take her out on a vacation ? She can give as many shocking surprises but he can't. As husband wife they r sharing a room so why can't they stay in a hotel room.and celebrate their anniversary? Her words were hurtful..I know she wants virat to clear pakhi connection but she didn't ask him that..she assumed he has something going on with pakhi hence their relation is forbidden. What happened between them in 1 yr was not just deal..khair ..ab aisi bhi insult nai thi ki virat zindagi bhar na bhoole😆

He has insulted sai quite a few times and she forgave him. He can also be the bigger person and try to understand her and talk to her. I won't say insulted but badly humiliated her. When he threw her out without listening to her side and again , ajinkya.

He wants sai to read his actions and his feelings but sai is reading his words. Both irritate me....What does sai want ? More than pakhi , sai confuses me. At least pakhi knows where her interest is . Sai sometimes acts like she is waiting for the verbal validation from virat ..sometimes she acts like virat means nothing to her..sometimes she acts like she can't live without virat ...sometimes she is pakhis lawyer kabhi family ki..In each episode they decide their mood Nd go with it.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Both are paheli boojho husband wife. He assumed she might have figured out that he has feelings for her , and she rejected him ..nai..she said love is forbidden between them and she also implied that he is committed to pakhi so he can't think abt loving another girl.

Imo she did insult virat. It was just a celebration and sai made a tamasha out of it by lashing out on virat in front of mohit and sunny... She was furious that he lied to her and brought her to mahabaleshwar. Like why? Can't he take her out on a vacation ? She can give as many shocking surprises but he can't. As husband wife they r sharing a room so why can't they stay in a hotel room.and celebrate their anniversary? Her words were hurtful..I know she wants virat to clear pakhi connection but she didn't ask him that..she assumed he has something going on with pakhi hence their relation is forbidden. What happened between them in 1 yr was not just deal..khair ..ab aisi bhi insult nai thi ki virat zindagi bhar na bhoole😆

He has insulted sai quite a few times and she forgave him. He can also be the bigger person and try to understand her and talk to her. I won't say insulted but badly humiliated her. When he threw her out without listening to her side and again , ajinkya.

He wants sai to read his actions and his feelings but sai is reading his words. sai is not the innocent party here imo.....What does sai want ? More than pakhi , sai confuses me. At least pakhi knows where her interest is . Sai sometimes acts like she is waiting for the verbal validation from virat ..sometimes she acts like virat means nothing to her..sometimes she acts like she can't live without virat ...sometimes she is pakhis lawyer kabhi family ki..In each episode they decide their mood Nd go with it.

See, I agree that Sai behaved very rudely with Virat when he planned the anniversary trip. She used some words which she shouldn't have. But usne jo kuch bhi kiya, that's nothing infront of Virat manhandling Sai infront of the family and ousting her in the midnight without thinking about what she will do and where will she go. The makers are really stretching the episodes and testing the viewers patience. There are absolutely no monologues indicating Sai's thought process. The dialogues are being written very very badly. Poora kachra bana diya hai show ka.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

He didn't confess his love for his Bhabhi. He clearly said whatever they had in the past, isn't existing now!!! He will clearly He Loves Sai. And she's only his friend even when she'll bawl that she loves him. He literally said her to cut the crap.

Well that was my sarcastic answer directed towards the writers..because till now they have been over stretched non existence love which sounds both unrealistic and comical..

One needs to clean the past garbage to walk ahead on the road.. Pakhi knows that Virat has moved on..But sai has no clue of that, because Pakhi is always accusing him for betraying her.. In Sai's mind their love must have been so strong that Pakhi has the audacity to question her husband's entigrity ???!! Even he has maintained his distance from her but sometimes he did give mixed signals.. Maybe out of guilt..

What I could see that Virat wants Sai's love despite knowing everything and her feelings should be independent of his past.. Because that love would be purer, As they say love doesn't see past future present..He wants her to read his actions.. But all those deep feelings are hard to fathom for a 19 years old teen especially when his past is harassing her for no apparent reasons..

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

See, I agree that Sai behaved very rudely with Virat when he planned the anniversary trip. She used some words which she shouldn't have. But usne jo kuch bhi kiya, that's nothing infront of Virat manhandling Sai infront of the family and ousting her in the midnight without thinking about what she will do and where will she go. The makers are really stretching the episodes and testing the viewers patience. There are absolutely no monologues indicating Sai's thought process. The dialogues are being written very very badly. Poora kachra bana diya hai show ka.

That's what I said .

But nevertheless , both their actions were wrong . It doesn't matter who is more wrong. They just don't keep up with their words. Apne mood se chalte hain dono.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Both are paheli boojho husband wife. He assumed she might have figured out that he has feelings for her , and she rejected him ..nai..she said love is forbidden between them and she also implied that he is committed to pakhi so he can't think abt loving another girl.

Imo she did insult virat. It was just a celebration and sai made a tamasha out of it by lashing out on virat in front of mohit and sunny... She was furious that he lied to her and brought her to mahabaleshwar. Like why? Can't he take her out on a vacation ? She can give as many shocking surprises but he can't. As husband wife they r sharing a room so why can't they stay in a hotel room.and celebrate their anniversary? Her words were hurtful..I know she wants virat to clear pakhi connection but she didn't ask him that..she assumed he has something going on with pakhi hence their relation is forbidden. What happened between them in 1 yr was not just deal..khair ..ab aisi bhi insult nai thi ki virat zindagi bhar na bhoole😆

He has insulted sai quite a few times and she forgave him. He can also be the bigger person and try to understand her and talk to her. I won't say insulted but badly humiliated her. When he threw her out without listening to her side and again , ajinkya.

He wants sai to read his actions and his feelings but sai is reading his words. sai is not the innocent party here imo.....What does sai want ? More than pakhi , sai confuses me. At least pakhi knows where her interest is . Sai sometimes acts like she is waiting for the verbal validation from virat ..sometimes she acts like virat means nothing to her..sometimes she acts like she can't live without virat ...sometimes she is pakhis lawyer kabhi family ki..In each episode they decide their mood Nd go with it.

Because when she was going on a trip like that with him, without the family knowing it , she was insulted and abused for trying to go on a trip with her husband. SHe is also insulted when she even goes out for an outing with her husband. She has after that seen Pakhi and Virat's confrontation and also seen Pakhi accusing Virat for cheating her with Virat being silent. She did tell Virat that family will get upset if they go together. She asked him already too many times and he has either half answered or served jalebis..

Now coming to this trip, dialogue writers removed the dialogues where she told if everyone knew about this trip , she would have seen this relationship as real. Since he hid from the family and also the woman outside his room who claims to have rights on him, she sees that this relationship is not real. She was also coming from the yoga trainer's words on their love and Virat's brilliant story!!She chose the wrong words but was she wrong, considering she is being taunted yet again by the family when she comes back..The family did make an issue about it yet again.. If the family can have issues with them going out in a way that they abuse her, why would she not question him on getting her out this way, without letting them know!! She was also taunted by Pakhi before leaving , that they are of to a honeymoon..WHich wife would be okay with it..Husband as usual made faces..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Because when she was going on a trip like that with him, without the family knowing it , she was insulted and abused for trying to go on a trip with her husband. SHe is also insulted when she even goes out for an outing with her husband. She has after that seen Pakhi and Virat's confrontation and also seen Pakhi accusing Virat for cheating her with Virat being silent. She did tell Virat that family will get upset if they go together. She asked him already too many times and he has either half answered or served jalebis..

Now coming to this trip, dialogue writers removed the dialogues where she told if everyone knew about this trip , she would have seen this relationship as real. Since he hid from the family and also the woman outside his room who claims to have rights on him, she sees that this relationship is not real. She was also coming from the yoga trainer's words on their love and Virat's brilliant story!!She chose the wrong words but was she wrong, considering she is being taunted yet again by the family when she comes back..The family did make an issue about it yet again.. If the family can have issues with them going out in a way that they abuse her, why would she not question him on getting her out this way, without letting them know!! She was also taunted by Pakhi before leaving , that they are of to a honeymoon..WHich wife would be okay with it..Husband as usual made faces..

Family will abuse her for breathing also. In normal circumstances , if sai virat were a normal couple , they would have made an issue out of it . They are biased ppl..they never treated ashwini nicely , they hate Sai.. ..they don't like him getting any gift for her , celebrating her bday, her college , her friends , literally everything.every action of hers will be criticized so how far will she go as per their wish ? It's really not her problem but virats . Pakhi is also his problem and chavans bhi.

I know where virat is wrong but her reaction was unwarranted. She trampled upon his efforts to make her happy, to make her feel special...he didn't tell anyone because it was a surprise for her.. mohit didn't let ashwini wish them on their anniversary..Sai can never be wrong in asking for clarification from virat . She must know ...But the crux of her lashing out was that virat is characterless , he should be focused on his vaada and deal , not eyeing her. ..she suggested that he and pakhi have something..this is like..insulting to virat bec he can't be having an affair with his bhabhi. But he never clarifies ..n we go ringa ringa roses 😆 I enjoyed their scene today . But sai is bk to I am your wife with full haque in the precap 🤢 now where is the deal and vaada ?

Originally posted by: _charu_

Family will abuse her for breathing also. In normal circumstances , if sai virat were a normal couple , they would have made an issue out of it . They are biased ppl..they never treated ashwini nicely , they hate Sai.. ..they don't like him getting any gift for her , celebrating her bday, her college , her friends , literally everything.every action of hers will be criticized so how far will she go as per their wish ? It's really not her problem but virats . Pakhi is also his problem and chavans bhi.

I know where virat is wrong but her reaction was unwarranted. She trampled upon his efforts to make her happy, to make her feel special...he didn't tell anyone because it was a surprise for her.. mohit didn't let ashwini wish them on their anniversary..Sai can never be wrong in asking for clarification from virat . She must know ...But the crux of her lashing out was that virat is characterless , he should be focused on his vaada and deal , not eyeing her. ..she suggested that he and pakhi have something..this is like..insulting to virat bec he can't be having an affair with his bhabhi. But he never clarifies ..n we go ringa ringa roses 😆 I enjoyed their scene today . But sai is bk to I am your wife with full haque in the precap 🤢 now where is the deal and vaada ?

I dont find it okay to normalize Chavhan's behaviour just like that, like Virat has done it all this while in the name of her trying to adjust!!

No she clearly told Samrat , Virat has maintained his distance with Pakhi.

She also clearly asked Virat when he called "that" past, if it was past why does she keep waiting for him?

ANd he had no answers.

She has in the past clearly asked Virat if he is not commitment, because it hurts her ? He without answering that he is not in commitment because he does not love Pakhi, said does it hurt you?

From Sai's perspective what has ended between them..She heard the confrontation and sees Pakhi crying for Virat and taunting him to which Virat never denies..She talks of crushed dreams ..the dreams they saw together....Sai pointed it out to him and said he has to chose between one.. From any woman's perspective an ex barging in and taunting her husband

She did not say in the precap that.She said its difficult to live with him...and she makes him suffer a lot, but since he has tolerated her so much, he can as well tolerate her for two more days..

If its about the Kiss, they copied KD but not correctly, there she tells him how much important he is to her and how she fights with him, hurts him..almost says loves him.. and in flow of emotions kisses him crying..Yet again butchering her character, like they did by not giving her proper dialogues , or say copying it from KD during confrontation also.

Virat's actions is understood and words are not needed..But her words have to be weighed and actions not understood..😆

BTW Hi from and ARSHI fan

The episode was actually good. I liked it. A storyline always needs balance. So yeah it was mix of all the main storylines according to this show. Even the Samrakhi scene was fine to me, coz it showed the maturity Samrat is displaying with a heart wrenching situation, hiding the hurt and pain he is in, while he is calmly discussing the divorce with her.

Liked the Sairat scene, their tiff is important for the story. Sai is expecting Virat to get back to normal like they always used to and hopes to discuss house related topics normally like they do but things aren't the same for Virat as he is hurt beyond words. Today's episode brought another thing to notice. Samrat just witnessed one conversation between SaiRat and heard the details and he got an inkling that Virat has feelings for Sai or else he'd not have arranged their anniversary celebration. So Sai's inability to grasp the truth, despite many saying that to her blatantly is really unfortunate. No wonder Virat's heart has broken and he's too devastated that despite everything they've gone through this Past one year, she's still refusing to see the change of his feelings and refusing to realise that this marriage was never a deal for him.

Waiting for the hasty forehead kiss tomorrow😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I dont find it okay to normalize Chavhan's behaviour just like that, like Virat has done it all this while in the name of her trying to adjust!!

No she clearly told Samrat , Virat has maintained his distance with Pakhi.

She also clearly asked Virat when he called "that" past, if it was past why does she keep waiting for him?

ANd he had no answers.

She has in the past clearly asked Virat if he is not commitment, because it hurts her ? He without answering that he is not in commitment because he does not love Pakhi, said does it hurt you?

From Sai's perspective what has ended between them..She heard the confrontation and sees Pakhi crying for Virat and taunting him to which Virat never denies..She talks of crushed dreams ..the dreams they saw together....Sai pointed it out to him and said he has to chose between one.. From any woman's perspective an ex barging in and taunting her husband

She did not say in the precap that.She said its difficult to live with him...and she makes him suffer a lot, but since he has tolerated her so much, he can as well tolerate her for two more days..

If its about the Kiss, they copied KD but not correctly, there she tells him how much important he is to her and how she fights with him, hurts him..almost says loves him.. and in flow of emotions kisses him crying..Yet again butchering her character, like they did by not giving her proper dialogues , or say copying it from KD during confrontation also.

Virat's actions is understood and words are not needed..But her words have to be weighed and actions not understood..😆

BTW Hi from and ARSHI fan

🤗 ARSHI

@bold. The reason is , her words and actions don't match. 😆 I have no other issue against her..stay consistent and fight with all her might , for her self respect. I have zero sympathy for virat , mostly .. ..he may be bewakoof, idiot, confused , he has flaws , he has done a lot of damage with his silence ..but..at the end of the day , he is good at heart ..I feel for him when he is down and out... like today 😆

I beleive whatever is happening is happening for good..pakhi is on crossroads. From.now on her decision will decide her fate..now there won't be any bakwas on vaada , the past , yoga love,.virat will get a closure ..pakhi won't have anything to complain...although , she is a tarsi hui rooh, she will find an excuse😆 , but for everyone else and the audience, this chapter would be closed...Sai,once and for all will get her answers And deal nonsense must not come up again....samrat will get his closure .

Originally posted by: tptwi

It will be the entire next week! I keep saying this but no one is believing me.

What happened to our positive Pooja 😒