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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat doesn't need to showcase his feelings to the world. He has never claimed that he has no relationship with Sai except a deal one with the family. Its only Sai who has washed the dirty laundry in public so she feels the need for everything to be done in public. She was the one who has time and again claimed its a deal marriage to every tom dick and harry. She was the one who gave up rights on Virat (I think Virat is not even aware of it!) - In front of the whole family. I dont feel Virat is wrong at all in this scenario. If Sai always thought Virat was such a sick guy who two timed her always why did she even come back to Virat?? She is indeed a stuck up tape recorder!! Its getting damn boring now 😓


@bold- from what I have understood, Sai has never come back to Virat with an intention to make the marriage work or make it a real one...she is clearly seeing her marriage as a deal which she and Virat strictly have to follow for 5 years...during this deal period, she is getting to know new people, experiencing life, facing few tough situations, solving problems. She maybe considering it like going to college for 4 years...whether u like it or not .. doesn't matter, u have to attend college for 4 years to get a degree or like a fresher who signs bond of 1-2 year with company...but even with the deal circumstance, she doesn't like to be ill treated and therefore,she fights with Virat.

Talking abou two timing....Sai knows Virat is physically loyal to her but she don't know to whom he is emotionally loyal and she doesn't want Virat to be physically close to her but emotionally attached to Pakhi. This is the two timing which I think she is speaking about and this conclusion she has made from Virat's actions, lack of words and other people's words also instead of listening to her own inner voice. for example: Viewers are impressed by Virat for arranging such a trip for wedding anniversary but Sai is hurt thinking that he had to lie to everybody to take his wife out for a trip because she knows if pakhi had known the real reason, she would have asked for an explanation and Virat would have given her the explanation. Same action can be viewed both in positive and negative light and currently, Sai is taking it negatively. Here, words are necessary but as we know that's a weak department for Virat.

This is how I think she treats her marriage in her conscious state.

In her subconscious state, it's a different story altogether where she has started falling for Virat, caring for Virat and whenever she behaves acc to her subconscious, she is harshly brought back to reality.

Hopefully, Virat maintaining distance from Sai will make her realise her feelings for Virat.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepzz


@bold- from what I have understood, Sai has never come back to Virat with an intention to make the marriage work or make it a real one...she is clearly seeing her marriage as a deal which she and Virat strictly have to follow for 5 years...during this deal period, she is getting to know new people, experiencing life, facing few tough situations, solving problems. She maybe considering it like going to college for 4 years...whether u like it or not .. doesn't matter, u have to attend college for 4 years to get a degree or like a fresher who signs bond of 1-2 year with company...but even with the deal circumstance, she doesn't like to be ill treated and therefore,she fights with Virat.

Talking abou two timing....Sai knows Virat is physically loyal to her but she don't know to whom he is emotionally loyal and she doesn't want Virat to be physically close to her but emotionally attached to Pakhi. This is the two timing which I think she is speaking about and this conclusion she has made from Virat's actions, lack of words and other people's words also instead of listening to her own inner voice. for example: Viewers are impressed by Virat for arranging such a trip for wedding anniversary but Sai is hurt thinking that he had to lie to everybody to take his wife out for a trip because she knows if pakhi had known the real reason, she would have asked for an explanation and Virat would have given her the explanation. Same action can be viewed both in positive and negative light and currently, Sai is taking it negatively. Here, words are necessary but as we know that's a weak department for Virat.

This is how I think she treats her marriage in her conscious state.

In her subconscious state, it's a different story altogether where she has started falling for Virat, caring for Virat and whenever she behaves acc to her subconscious, she is harshly brought back to reality.

Hopefully, Virat maintaining distance from Sai will make her realise her feelings for Virat.

@Bold. You put it perfectly. He has never clarified what happened with Pakhi nor his feelings now. Does he physically want Sai, but still love Pakhi? She was right to call him out. He was still emotionally attached to Pakhi and continued to let her stay in the middle of his marriage until recently. Sai is young; how does this look from her eyes? Viral told her not to expect anything from him; she overheard Pakhi say they would have been married. Till date he has not cleared any misunderstandings. He doesn’t say in front of the family the true reason for the trip, maybe so Pakhi is not upset with him. That is how Sai’s young mind will see it. Sai said herself that Pakhi is still waiting for Virat. Has he given any indication that he’s clearly let Pakhi know his feelings no longer exist? She clearly said you have to choose one of us. Still he stands there with his ā€œpoor meā€ look and tells her we have no relation after this. This poor girl! I wish they would truly show a separation and Sai enjoying her youth and studying. I would want to see Virat depressed, not her. Also how many accidents can these poor people have?
BTW I looove Samrat!!!! Finally someone to get in Virat and Pakhi’s face and say, ā€œI know all about you two and that’s why I left!ā€ They both acted selfishly by continuing any communication once they decided to go their separate ways, finally someone other than Sai knows their truth.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepzz


@bold- from what I have understood, Sai has never come back to Virat with an intention to make the marriage work or make it a real one...she is clearly seeing her marriage as a deal which she and Virat strictly have to follow for 5 years...during this deal period, she is getting to know new people, experiencing life, facing few tough situations, solving problems. She maybe considering it like going to college for 4 years...whether u like it or not .. doesn't matter, u have to attend college for 4 years to get a degree or like a fresher who signs bond of 1-2 year with company...but even with the deal circumstance, she doesn't like to be ill treated and therefore,she fights with Virat.

Talking abou two timing....Sai knows Virat is physically loyal to her but she don't know to whom he is emotionally loyal and she doesn't want Virat to be physically close to her but emotionally attached to Pakhi. This is the two timing which I think she is speaking about and this conclusion she has made from Virat's actions, lack of words and other people's words also instead of listening to her own inner voice. for example: Viewers are impressed by Virat for arranging such a trip for wedding anniversary but Sai is hurt thinking that he had to lie to everybody to take his wife out for a trip because she knows if pakhi had known the real reason, she would have asked for an explanation and Virat would have given her the explanation. Same action can be viewed both in positive and negative light and currently, Sai is taking it negatively. Here, words are necessary but as we know that's a weak department for Virat.

This is how I think she treats her marriage in her conscious state.

In her subconscious state, it's a different story altogether where she has started falling for Virat, caring for Virat and whenever she behaves acc to her subconscious, she is harshly brought back to reality.

Hopefully, Virat maintaining distance from Sai will make her realise her feelings for Virat.

@bold: if this is her thought process, then each and every time Virat has tried to kiss her, she has neither stopped him voluntarily nor has she has shown any uncomfortable feeling after that. Had their been no interruptions, there wud hv been a proper kiss by now. So how would u justify this act of hers? She has also been physically close to Virat quite a few times now. Then we can easily say that she was leading Virat in so far! She might hv gotten close to him in the heat of the moment but still there wud hv been guilt or uncomfortable feeling later. Sai has nvr been shown to regret or guilt. Else the actor Ayesha is so bad that the audience has not been able to recognise that kind of expressions on her face.

Its utter non sense what they r showing!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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@bold: if this is her thought process, then each and every time Virat has tried to kiss her, she has neither stopped him voluntarily nor has she has shown any uncomfortable feeling after that. Had their been no interruptions, there wud hv been a proper kiss by now. So how would u justify this act of hers? She has also been physically close to Virat quite a few times now. Then we can easily say that she was leading Virat in so far! She might hv gotten close to him in the heat of the moment but still there wud hv been guilt or uncomfortable feeling later. Sai has nvr been shown to regret or guilt. Else the actor Ayesha is so bad that the audience has not been able to recognise that kind of expressions on her face.

Its utter non sense what they r showing!!

You have taken only one part of my sentence. Sai is not uncomfortable in being physically close to Virat if she thinks that it is she who is in Virat's heart and not pakhi. She has problem when she thinks Virat is physically coming close to her while having Pakhi in his heart.

Now coming to the question why she never stopped Virat from coming close to her, Sai has already given her reason...in those moments, she forgot the reality of her marriage. We as viewers always know pakhi is lurking around...infact whenever Sairat scenes happens, we get a pakhi scene side by side but in the Sai, the character's head, in those close moments, she forgets that Pakhi, vaada is present in their marriage.

From Sai's point of view, a the cycle is going on which looks like this: Virat does something good for her, she get pull towards him and start believing it to be true, starts enjoying but then reality strikes in form of ousting, pakhi, yoga teacher, character questioning etc and she is pulled down to face the truth of her marriage , next Virat does again something grand to make her forget all the problems and this cycle repeats. Sai is trying to put full stop to this cycle and is asking Virat to do it by picking a side and sticking to it and not only in their room but infront of everyone.

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