Heart wrenching but one of the best!!

My take on the episode

One of the best scenes of Ghum so far!! Infact the entire episode barring the last scene🙄 Like they have to put “kaala teeka” everytime 🤷‍♀️

First thing first! We got the answer to “Why Virat gave up on Samrat so easily” yesterday? Well, he has lost the will to fight, he has given up! He met Samrat after the anniversary debacle and all that he has gathered out of it about setting Sai free was already playing heavy on his mind. And with Samrat refusing to recognise him and the fact that Samrat somewhere felt cheated by him further aggravated that sense, infact extinguished whatever fight was left in him. He was not in a state for any more confrontations. He actually has no energy left to fight the 2 people who matter the most. This is not about whether he is right or wrong. Infact everyone here is right and wrong to certain extent. So it will be unfair to shift the entire blame on Virat. Everyone had a role to play, and a particular stage. One’s action led to others reactions and there goes the vicious cycle. But Virat portrayed how he has lost any hopes, and the will to fight any more. He has given up completely!

The scene was so intense, so powerful, yet so quiet and calm. The undercurrent of the restrained emotions was done with finesse. No hitch pitched, screaming or shouting. So well enacted by both of them👏👏

The other thing which I doubt we will ever see, is Sai acknowledging and apologising for her mistakes to Virat. She never does that, and he never pushes. It was her insecurity at its peak with Samrat talking about leaving Pakhi, and yes its high time Virat came clear. But her choice of words was downright pathetic! She accused him of doubting her character, and saying his silence spoke louder than any words. What did she do here? She did the same thing, loud and clear. Atleast she has known him for a year to understand that he will not stoop so low! She may be acting up based on her partial knowledge of his past, and he has not confided yet, but how would you agree to stay with such a guy and come back again and again to him if he is so downright sick?

Time to break down the problems

There are too many issues between Sai and Virat. And they have just piled up. To clean up this mess, it has to be a step wise breakdown and addressing of them.

Space to introspect

This is primarily for Sai right now. Virat is there, he is clear on his feelings. For them to be on the same page to move on and address the MU it is imperative that Sai understands and acknowledges her feelings for Virat. And in her case reverse psychology works. Virat will have to retreat and the vacuum created will make her introspect. He has showered her with too much attention and she has become used to it. She takes it for granted and hence everytime they have an argument and she lashes out or accuses him, she knows he will come back and they will get back to normal. But here, when he distances himself and ignores her, she will feel the pinch. She has been jealous, insecure without knowing it. Virat’s indifference will make her realise the value of his existence in her life, her feelings. Its like you dont value what you have until you lose it. This will be a classic case.

Only after this can they move on to address the other issues of MU, past, communication etc. And for a change she will have to take the initiative and make an effort towards this relationship, since Virat has given up on it. Because if Sai doesn’t really love Virat and if he also believes that, there is no point in a taking the pains of resolving their differences. So to deal with the mammoth pandora box they have created, they need to atleast know how they feel for each other, and the importance of each other in their respective lives. Virat knows it, Sai needs to know. It’s time the tables turned!

PS - Just want to know how much more time before we get to watch some nice happy scenes😔

Loved your post.

One of the best episodes of the show. I am in awe of Neilsha for brilliantly portraying the emotions with such utmost perfection ! I couldn’t forget Neil’s face ...detached,stern,calm,poised,hopeless,with subtle display of underlying pain in those expressive eyes!

On her part, Ayesha expressed her insecurity through her eyes. Instantly we would feel her anxiety and fear of losing him totally to the other woman. She is superb.

Yes it is time for Sai to realise the value of Virat Chavan in her life. That happens only when he distances himself and already he did in today’s episode which is worth watching many times for the way it was enacted by Neilsha. Kudos to them!

Actually if you see at it Sai's way she did not.. You see the moment she realised Samrat left Pakhi to not come in way..She realised she would lose him this time...Also her questions on Virat getting her to honeymoon without letting anyone knwo specifically Pakhi, would make her feel insulted for sure..She was ready to celebrate it with the family but not hiding it from them...Hiding it also makes her relationship "not real" right? Yet again she being herself went beyond limits and Virat lost it here...and hence he could not gather it from her words that she is with him, she want him when she said how she wants him to chose between her and Pakhi once and for all, how "Samrat dada ki saari galatfehmiyaan door kar dijiye" and she let him know how she is with him and how she wants him..But I guess Virat this time gathered nothing and this time for his self respect took a back seat..

Like he mentioned she would see a Virat that she has never seen, well that's going to happen...She would fight in the beginning , sure, but eventually would lose the zeal to fight..WIll break bit by bit and in the order would also forget her dreams of studying.. She is going to get depressed and Virat probably would see it/unsee it....

I hope he sticks to it, because I think somewhere she still is hoping that these are mere words and he doesn’t mean then and he will be back to normal soon!! Dare i say .. High hopes??

Originally posted by: sherry_24

I hope he sticks to it, because I think somewhere she still is hoping that these are mere words and he doesn’t mean then and he will be back to normal soon!! Dare i say .. High hopes??

He will stick to it, and rigidly at that , if they go by KD, till she meets an accident...he will!! She meets the accident and comes out to be very depressive, quitting the will to live.. after the operation..

I completely agree with you. She is hurt, insecure, she is wanting him to clear things. And she is not the only one at fault, Virat has pushed her to it.

But my point is so has she. Its not if Virat is wrong or right, I agree he is, more so in the entire fiasco. She has her reasons. Then again, today she crossed those limits with her choice of words. You can’t demean or raise finger at someone’s character if you are hurt. During Ajinkya’s sequence, everyone ripped Virat, but was she any less today. And the question I asked, if he is such a characterless guy, how can one stay with that person? And despite everything, Virat is one who has put efforts into this relationship, Sai does her bit as per convenience. And it is not her character , bcz she goes out of her way for others. Then why does she not do the same with Virat. With him its more of take than give.. and of course no apologies either.

For me Virat vs Sai, Virat has been more wrong on the weighing scale, but today I felt more sorry for him, bcz Sai pushed it this time and even now she is only assuming that he doesn’t mean any of it.

Another accident? Back to square one with MU? No confession😭

Originally posted by: sherry_24

I completely agree with you. She is hurt, insecure, she is wanting him to clear things. And she is not the only one at fault, Virat has pushed her to it.

But my point is so has she. Its not if Virat is wrong or right, I agree he is, more so in the entire fiasco. She has her reasons. Then again, today she crossed those limits with her choice of words. You can’t demean or raise finger at someone’s character if you are hurt. During Ajinkya’s sequence, everyone ripped Virat, but was she any less today. And the question I asked, if he is such a characterless guy, how can one stay with that person? And despite everything, Virat is one who has put efforts into this relationship, Sai does her bit as per convenience. And it is not her character , bcz she goes out of her way for others. Then why does she not do the same with Virat. With him its more of take than give.. and of course no apologies either.

For me Virat vs Sai, Virat has been more wrong on the weighing scale, but today I felt more sorry for him, bcz Sai pushed it this time and even now she is only assuming that he doesn’t mean any of it.

Oh she was entirely wrong there..I have been questioning it since yesterday on how she was wrong there.. She had no rights to call it out the way she called it..There is a limit to what you say and when you lose control, you get what is deemed to happen..Virat's anger would be bigger than Sai's anger all this while..Like I mentioned in my post, this time he chose his self respect rather than his love for her and rightly so..

Not going out of way, she did too many times..I disagree there..Everytime she forgave him for the crimes, the physical and emotional abuse he caused her, she had forgiven him within days.. She never even discussed about what it feels to be thrown out of the house because he was feeling guilty..The Sai that we know, would never have done that, she chose him beyond her self respect every single time..ABout the way she behaves with him,there has been too many discussion on that already.. There are a lot of agreements/disagreements there..

Originally posted by: sherry_24

My take on the episode

One of the best scenes of Ghum so far!! Infact the entire episode barring the last scene🙄 Like they have to put “kaala teeka” everytime 🤷‍♀️

First thing first! We got the answer to “Why Virat gave up on Samrat so easily” yesterday? Well, he has lost the will to fight, he has given up! He met Samrat after the anniversary debacle and all that he has gathered out of it about setting Sai free was already playing heavy on his mind. And with Samrat refusing to recognise him and the fact that Samrat somewhere felt cheated by him further aggravated that sense, infact extinguished whatever fight was left in him. He was not in a state for any more confrontations. He actually has no energy left to fight the 2 people who matter the most. This is not about whether he is right or wrong. Infact everyone here is right and wrong to certain extent. So it will be unfair to shift the entire blame on Virat. Everyone had a role to play, and a particular stage. One’s action led to others reactions and there goes the vicious cycle. But Virat portrayed how he has lost any hopes, and the will to fight any more. He has given up completely!

The scene was so intense, so powerful, yet so quiet and calm. The undercurrent of the restrained emotions was done with finesse. No hitch pitched, screaming or shouting. So well enacted by both of them👏👏

The other thing which I doubt we will ever see, is Sai acknowledging and apologising for her mistakes to Virat. She never does that, and he never pushes. It was her insecurity at its peak with Samrat talking about leaving Pakhi, and yes its high time Virat came clear. But her choice of words was downright pathetic! She accused him of doubting her character, and saying his silence spoke louder than any words. What did she do here? She did the same thing, loud and clear. Atleast she has known him for a year to understand that he will not stoop so low! She may be acting up based on her partial knowledge of his past, and he has not confided yet, but how would you agree to stay with such a guy and come back again and again to him if he is so downright sick?

Time to break down the problems

There are too many issues between Sai and Virat. And they have just piled up. To clean up this mess, it has to be a step wise breakdown and addressing of them.

Space to introspect

This is primarily for Sai right now. Virat is there, he is clear on his feelings. For them to be on the same page to move on and address the MU it is imperative that Sai understands and acknowledges her feelings for Virat. And in her case reverse psychology works. Virat will have to retreat and the vacuum created will make her introspect. He has showered her with too much attention and she has become used to it. She takes it for granted and hence everytime they have an argument and she lashes out or accuses him, she knows he will come back and they will get back to normal. But here, when he distances himself and ignores her, she will feel the pinch. She has been jealous, insecure without knowing it. Virat’s indifference will make her realise the value of his existence in her life, her feelings. Its like you dont value what you have until you lose it. This will be a classic case.

Only after this can they move on to address the other issues of MU, past, communication etc. And for a change she will have to take the initiative and make an effort towards this relationship, since Virat has given up on it. Because if Sai doesn’t really love Virat and if he also believes that, there is no point in a taking the pains of resolving their differences. So to deal with the mammoth pandora box they have created, they need to atleast know how they feel for each other, and the importance of each other in their respective lives. Virat knows it, Sai needs to know. It’s time the tables turned!

PS - Just want to know how much more time before we get to watch some nice happy scenes😔

Very nicely written..I too got a feel that Virat has given up on the will to fight for himself..if he is misunderstood let it be...he is no mood to clarify himself or give explanations...this is very much required for the relationship to gain meaning n move forward rather than lurking in the mud of doubt n accusations..

Hope to c them back happy soon!!!!

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Another accident? Back to square one with MU? No confession😭

I was never in favour of confession, till Virat clears his relationship with Pakhi, but it wont be that way.. With accident and Sai's depression and her need to be with him, will make him realise she is probably in love with him... the sequence at the hospital when he meets her is very very emotional and heart wrenching.. The Emon who spoke at length was all quite and had to have a psychiatrist to make her speak..Lets see what these guys do..Anyway as per KD thats about 30-35 episodes apart!