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Originally posted by: ssoujanya

Everything is beautifully and perfectly put.....😍

I liked the way how you first raised the questions which are in everyone's mind and then answering....

I was thinking to make a post about the current Sai's situation but could not choose the apt sentences...... but you have made it very beautifully.... you have explained her state perfectly......

She wants him to be hers completely. She wants to love him and also can sense that he also loves her subconsciously. But she is scared of losing him after giving away her heart. She is fearing for a heart break. Now he is her entire world. She even admitted that she has no one other than him. She gets effected by his each and every actions and only Virat does this to her.

She has accepted him as her husband. Deep down she loves him. So she given in momentarily. These are the times when she forgot about everything and sees only him. But everytime she wants to move on she is brought back to reality and Pakhi is already there to make sure she never forgets.

Today Sai raised two points... one.. Virat never showed any sign of loving her... two.. he never told that to Pakhi that he doesn't love her...

One... Virat never showed any sign of loving her... according to Sai it is true because she wants words... but he showed it by actions... and she is also wrong here.... on her birthday when he gifted ring.. she herself stopped him when he was about to express and said he started liking her... she stopped because for me she sensed that he may propose something for which she is not yet ready.. she is fearing to start any such thing before his past is cleared..... the daybhe stopped her he told he doesn't not want to fulfill any commitment but she took it as that he is not doing so because of her... she may feel bad because she knows he cares for her a lot and wants to see her happy. She is still thinking she came in between two lovers ...and in hospital when he said he wants to make their relationship real.. she replied something but did not process it or ignored it... she is not in such state to think about anything because she was hurt and disappointed by him... he has made some attempts to tell her indirectly... and continously showing her that how special and important she is to him.. but she is taking all that like he is doing all these for his zimmedari and vaada just to protect her heart and to stop her brain thinking any further... she is brushing off everything... and sometimes to make her accept and to make her listen to him he is still using zimmedari like in ring incident or regarding AJ.... she is taking it that he is doing only as duty.. she accepts that he likes her but only because she has done so much for his family and devi tai....

Two... he never told Pakhi that he doesn't love her.... he told many times... but not said anything of such sort infront of Sai... somewhere she also knows that he doesn't love Pakhi anymore but not ready to accept... because of many reasons... his promise to Pakhi and he is man of words.... Pakhi always expressing her undying love for him and still expecting him to come back to her.....

She is in emotional mess.. she is confused of her own feelings.... fighting with her own feelings.... one side her heart wants him.. other side she is fearing that he may break her heart.... she is registering what all he doing and getting confused of his actions and his words during their marriage... that's why she keep on mentioning what all he told her during marriage.... she need verbal assurance from him like how he wa verbal about his commitment to other girl.... but he is not able to confess because after that she go away from him... she will definitely if he will confess... she will run away from him to protect her heart.... First she needs to sort out her feelings which she is not ready to do... she need sometime to process everything..... she needs to be pushed to do so.... may be samrat return will do so...

She is letting out of her frustration by showing her anger and hurting him the same way her Virat did earlier... he frustration was in peak during amay incident.... he was jealous.... he was fighting with his own feelings.... like how Sai is now... both are similar yet different... one needs words... one want to express by his actions.... she tells that she will leave him and when he tells the same thing she gets angry and hurt.... same way.. he told that their marriage is deal but when she told that she was forced into marriage and leave him, he got angry and hurt.... both are weirdos yet realistic people...

Credit of their relationship goes to Virat because he is the one who is patient and trying hard to keep it intact...ofcourse he started the problems but now he is putting so much efforts into their relationship by not giving up... but when she feels that he is giving up she steps in and indirectly pushes him to not give up....

Now only thing is he needs to take back step and be silent.... she will only start realising when she feels the she may lose him which she never wants.. whatever she tells and does at the end of the day she can never lose him....

For me her thinking process has started.. she needs to start thinking why..... she needs to find answers for all her questions regarding her feelings and also about his actions...

I don't know what all I wrote, I just wrote what all came into my mind. I hope I made sense...

Forgot to tag you...

Sorry to say this, but end of the day how much ever we analyse, simple baat hai that Sai behaves weirdly from time to time because usme Emon ki aatma ghus jaati hai 😆. There is no correlation between the development they showed onscreen between the couple and the dialogues spouted today. If we look at Sai's character as she is supposed to be, she would not be physically intimate with Virat or say "he is my pati" or that they are coming close to KBA without actually feeling that he really is her husband. It's only about the drama - characters jaaye bhaad mein. It's the same with Virat - he is shown to be so good sometimes - and then phatak! - Rono enters him. I am actually sort of losing interest in the essence of SaiRat because of this 😔

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

So, I watched today's episode and could make neither head nor tail of Sai’s behaviour. I couldn't understand why would she freak out so much at the arrangement. Today, I felt really bad for Virat because it wasn't as if the celebration was just for Sai, it was his marriage anniversary too, and he genuinely wanted to celebrate it. But as much as I hated Sai’s behaviour (her behaviour, not her character), I will still try to make sense of it all, just like I have done in all those other scenarios. But first, let me start with how it all simply don't make any sense, before I try to insert human psychology here.

This point is all about where the makers went wrong, and not about trying to figure out the character's thought processes as intended by them.

The main problem is not just with her outburst, it is with the fact that it all feels completely out of place. Like, kisi ko bhi ye nahi laga kal aur aaj ke episodes mein that it all escalated so quickly? Okay, I get it thay Sai freaked out because she couldn't understand why should they celebrate a relationship which isn't even a real one. She freaked out because she got scared of the developing feelings in both her and Virat's heart for each other. She got freaked out because she was insecure and really desperate to prevent her heart from breaking just in case it turned out that Virat still loved Pakhi. But the thing is, where were these thoughts before? And I am not talking about all those times she inserted her rights as a wife on him. I am talking about all those times when they got intimate. Those five-six kiss attempts, where she was conscious and even a willing participant. What about them? But again, the problem is not them showing it happening, kyuki bhaavnao mein to koi bhi beh jaata h. The problem is the reaction afterwards. This is my main problem with ghum makers. Ye log cheezein to dikha dete h lekin unke repurcussions ko bhool jaate h, un cheezon ka characters pe kya affect hua vo nhi dikhaate. If Sai really was as confused about her feeling regarding Virat as shown today then don't you think that she would have acted even a little bit awkward and uncomfortable around him whenever they got close? I mean they were about to kiss, that is one of the most intimate things you can do with another person, especially regarding the country where they live in. But no, they didn't show any such behaviour. Personally, I really like when they show SaiRat scenes, but everytime they make mistakes like these, they ruin it all a bit for me.

The most ridiculous scene was when Virat tried to kiss Sai at Harini's birthday. Yes, it was cute. Yes, it made us all feel jittery. But did it go hand in hand with the characters? No. First of all, Virat would never do such a thing infront of the entire family. Remember, it is Sai who hasn't been in a joint family, Virat has grown in one. He knows how to act, how to behave in front of various relatives. And secondly, Sai’s reaction. She was neither panicked nor lost in the sensations. She wasn't confused, she wasn't angry. No. She became shy, and tried to deflect the kiss as if it is something which is so normal in their relationship. As if they shouldn't do it in front of the family, but instead can do it later in their room. See what I am talking about? They try to lure us by giving us SaiRat content but then just ignore everything. It is as if SaiRat are toffees to cheer us with and not the bloody main couple of their show.

And if they tried to show Sai normal in those scenes, then why would she freak out here? What is this when compared to all those intimate moments? Why didn't she feel betrayed, or played with, or beizzatified then? Why now? These are the questions that got raised in my mind when I saw today's episode. Ek to in logo ko kuch bhi dhang se krna nhi hota h. Hum ne kaha ki Sai ka inner monolgue hona chahiye, to in logo ne aisa waahiyaad monologue diya ki viewers aur confuse ho gye. But I am still going to try to tod madod it all and somehow fit it in Sai’s character.

First of all, let's start with the why now question. If Sai is so comfortable with being intimate with Virat, hugging him and leaning in for a kiss, then why is she having problem here? This is because these two things are different forms of intimacies. One is physical, and the other is emotional. Both things are pretty interrelated. It is always better to first get emotionally intimate with someone, which make physical intimacy feel right and meant to be. But finding emotional intimacy is really hard and uncommon, which is why we can see so many couples around us skipping this one particular step.

Now, with Sai, the problem is that she is has gotten physically intimate with Virat. She is pretty comfortable with him, but emotional intimacy, that is only partially achieved. She likes to be with him, she loves to talk with him, but accepting it all is something her mind is scared of. She wants to be in a relationship with him, but labelling that relationship is hard for her. To be honest I can understand what she feels, because I am a bit like her. There is this guy who is really into me, and I love to talk with him, I love to spend time with him, but if anyone asks me, then he is just my friend. Because, for the love of God, I cannot bear the thought of having to get out of my comfort zone and actually accepting him as my boyfriend. And as I type it, I think I understand Sai a bit more.

There are things that are different when you actually get in a relationship with a person. There are things which you both expect from each other. There are baggages that comes with both of you which you have to accept. There are feelings and other changed behaviours which you have to make sense of, and hundreds of other things if you truly want a future together. It isn't as if all this is really hard or nearly impossible to achieve. Once you understand and realise the depth of your and your SO's feelings for each other, it all just happens with the flow. But here, the case is not that simple. Neither Sai nor Virat is at the same page. Sai has no idea of Virat's feelings, let alone an understanding of their depth. Subconciously, she might know. As she herself said, women's intentions regarding these things are pretty awesome. But you will be shocked to know just how far our brain can go to maintain it's comfort zone. Sai is not comfortable with her feelings, so her brain has stopped taking in any other information before it can complete processing her own. She is in so much confusion with her own inner counter feelings that her mind refuses to complicate it even more by analysing Virat's feeling rgarding her and his various actions that are indicative of them.

This is why I believe in making peace with our own mindset before getting committed to anyone else. Because one of the worst things that can happen in a situation like this, is being forced to rush all these steps. And unintentionally, my pure hearted, handsome, super duper hot, Virat just-a-man-innocently-yet-passionately-in-love-with-his-wife Chavan, had done exactly that. He wasn't at fault truly, but it just happened. He felt that expressing his feelings to Sai would be the end of their MU, and he wasn't exactly wrong. If he would just confess then too Sai will freak out, she will distance herself from him, but later at least Sai's mind would be a tad bit relaxed, because then at least it would have sorted out one puzzle. But he tried to make Sai realise it through his actions, and that just complicated it all.

Just try to imagine what all must be going through her mind. Her aaba died and now she is married to someone who is a great man but specifically warned her not to expect anything from him because he is in love with someone else. She has to protect her heart because if she lose this guy because of her feelings then she would have no one at all in this world to call her family. But then she starts having these uneccessary thoghts about him. She wants to be with him all the time. But she can't. Maybe she is falling in love with him. But no, she isn't. Because she can't. Wait, why is he acting so nice around her? Maybe he too feels something for her. But no, he doesn't. Because he can't. Wait, he is defending her, maybe he is over that vaada and his lover. But no, he isn't, because his lover is literally always outside their room, listening to their conversations. She wants to be close to him but she can't because they have no privacy. She wants to believe that Pakhi is doing this all just for herself and this is all one sided, but she can't because her husband himself gave the promise to always love only her, and if there is one thing that her husband stands by, it is that he never breaks any promise. After all, she is also a promise, right? She cannot fall in love with him, but then what is this feeling? She doesn't have any rights on him, but then why this jealousy? She must have promised herself to never fall for him. She must daily scold herself for getting one step closer to getting her heart broken, but what can she do, her heart never listens. She has go through everything, every smile, every laugh, every touch, loving it all but deep down knowing that she is going to regret them, because this man, with whom her heart beats a little faster, with whom she smiles a little brighter, and with whose presence her life gets a little happier, this man is her husband but not truly hers. And the proof stands outside their bedroom, spying on their moments, waiting for her one mistake to take him away from her, and criticising her every move, her every efforts. She wants him, she want his love,she wants to love him, but above all she wants to escape this dilemma. And the only way to do this is to just ignore it all as if it doesn't exist... right?

Then now, to top it all off, Virat brought her to celebrate that one day which might have started their relationship, but had bound her in a loveless marriage with man whom she craves to love.

Bandi gussayegi nhi to kya kregi.

PS: But I really feel bad for Virat though. May god give him strength.

For ur title : u didn't try

u poured ur heart out and mine too....loved ur analysis very well explained ❤️

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

Everything is beautifully and perfectly put.....😍

I liked the way how you first raised the questions which are in everyone's mind and then answering....

I was thinking to make a post about the current Sai's situation but could not choose the apt sentences...... but you have made it very beautifully.... you have explained her state perfectly......

She wants him to be hers completely. She wants to love him and also can sense that he also loves her subconsciously. But she is scared of losing him after giving away her heart. She is fearing for a heart break. Now he is her entire world. She even admitted that she has no one other than him. She gets effected by his each and every actions and only Virat does this to her.

She has accepted him as her husband. Deep down she loves him. So she given in momentarily. These are the times when she forgot about everything and sees only him. But everytime she wants to move on she is brought back to reality and Pakhi is already there to make sure she never forgets.

Today Sai raised two points... one.. Virat never showed any sign of loving her... two.. he never told that to Pakhi that he doesn't love her...

One... Virat never showed any sign of loving her... according to Sai it is true because she wants words... but he showed it by actions... and she is also wrong here.... on her birthday when he gifted ring.. she herself stopped him when he was about to express and said he started liking her... she stopped because for me she sensed that he may propose something for which she is not yet ready.. she is fearing to start any such thing before his past is cleared..... the daybhe stopped her he told he doesn't not want to fulfill any commitment but she took it as that he is not doing so because of her... she may feel bad because she knows he cares for her a lot and wants to see her happy. She is still thinking she came in between two lovers ...and in hospital when he said he wants to make their relationship real.. she replied something but did not process it or ignored it... she is not in such state to think about anything because she was hurt and disappointed by him... he has made some attempts to tell her indirectly... and continously showing her that how special and important she is to him.. but she is taking all that like he is doing all these for his zimmedari and vaada just to protect her heart and to stop her brain thinking any further... she is brushing off everything... and sometimes to make her accept and to make her listen to him he is still using zimmedari like in ring incident or regarding AJ.... she is taking it that he is doing only as duty.. she accepts that he likes her but only because she has done so much for his family and devi tai....

Two... he never told Pakhi that he doesn't love her.... he told many times... but not said anything of such sort infront of Sai... somewhere she also knows that he doesn't love Pakhi anymore but not ready to accept... because of many reasons... his promise to Pakhi and he is man of words.... Pakhi always expressing her undying love for him and still expecting him to come back to her.....

She is in emotional mess.. she is confused of her own feelings.... fighting with her own feelings.... one side her heart wants him.. other side she is fearing that he may break her heart.... she is registering what all he doing and getting confused of his actions and his words during their marriage... that's why she keep on mentioning what all he told her during marriage.... she need verbal assurance from him like how he wa verbal about his commitment to other girl.... but he is not able to confess because after that she go away from him... she will definitely if he will confess... she will run away from him to protect her heart.... First she needs to sort out her feelings which she is not ready to do... she need sometime to process everything..... she needs to be pushed to do so.... may be samrat return will do so...

She is letting out of her frustration by showing her anger and hurting him the same way her Virat did earlier... he frustration was in peak during amay incident.... he was jealous.... he was fighting with his own feelings.... like how Sai is now... both are similar yet different... one needs words... one want to express by his actions.... she tells that she will leave him and when he tells the same thing she gets angry and hurt.... same way.. he told that their marriage is deal but when she told that she was forced into marriage and leave him, he got angry and hurt.... both are weirdos yet realistic people...

Credit of their relationship goes to Virat because he is the one who is patient and trying hard to keep it intact...ofcourse he started the problems but now he is putting so much efforts into their relationship by not giving up... but when she feels that he is giving up she steps in and indirectly pushes him to not give up....

Now only thing is he needs to take back step and be silent.... she will only start realising when she feels the she may lose him which she never wants.. whatever she tells and does at the end of the day she can never lose him....

For me her thinking process has started.. she needs to start thinking why..... she needs to find answers for all her questions regarding her feelings and also about his actions...

I don't know what all I wrote, I just wrote what all came into my mind. I hope I made sense...

You explained it really well❤❤. I completely agree with you that Sai really is an emotional mess right now, and the only thing Virat should do right now is to take a step back and let everything fall into place naturally. And from what I heard about KD storyline, I guess Rono did something quite like that, really not sure though.

Originally posted by: Meh_sairat

For ur title : u didn't try

u poured ur heart out and mine too....loved ur analysis very well explained ❤️

Thank you so much!!🥰🥰

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Wow, this is really very beautiful❤️

True, I felt bad for both Virat and Sai today. It was heart breaking. Specially Virat, he seemed to be losing hope🥺

Absolutely loved your way of pointing out the physical intimacy part, something which even I was intrigued with yesterday. I tagged it as 'hypothalamus issues' though😆 But your way of putting this is really awesome.

I share similar views as you do . Sai is seeing it, Sai is understanding it, but she is afraid to tag it as truth, and she desperately wants to escape those moments stating them as illusion. Which accordingly her heart is creating even though there are rules and restrictions which she has to abide, little does she know that the rule book is already burnt to ashes by her dear husband.

So, in her angst to calm her heart from expecting, she lashed out and spit the ugly once upon a time in yoga retreat truth which doesn't exist now🤪 But, the thing is also that. Sai does notice actions and understand it as you said, cuz her words, my way of seeing it were, she was angry at Virat cuz his actions were making her expect, expect from him, from this relation, from them, in any and every aspect, and as you stated, it's not right according to her. Which I feel so as well, cuz if this happens, Sai feels it will be her mistake,for letting her poor little heart slip out of those chains. So she lashed out, blaming the poor guy in the process that why is he making her trust this relation even more when he himself had restricted it at one point. Why?

Your words here are beautiful,true, a girl or woman is never dumb towards chaging emotions. Reminded me of Titanic "a woman's heart is an ocean of secrets".They have depth,they have darkness as well. And Sai wants to push all the things into darkness in one huge go, in one attempt, today she felt doing so. It was like, someone was desperately trying to remove a virus out of their system which they think is ruining them. But, she is doing the same mistake that Virat does, she wanted to put something's into her, something's out if her, but she ended up hurting others. That is not Sai, but she is a human right. At the end of the day, she is someone who also needs normalcy.

Lovely post,loved it❤️

Keep tagging me when you write😳

Just a few questions ma'am.

Soo it is okay for sai to reject the reality and not accept it and live in the world of her own illusions but pakhi doing the same is being delusional and pyscho?

Why?

The same rules and theories should apply to every character na?

No matter how much i hate pakhi isnt this a similar description to what pakhi does?

Live in her own world and try to reject that virat loves sai?

Soo what if the innocent, pure - hearted sai is being hurt in the process?

Lovely analysis. This is what bugs me about Sai. On one side she's so comfortable with his intimacy and on the other she keeps on ranting about the deal. If this is a deal then it's better she stays away from him or if she's so comfortable with him then why to lash out at Virat who's her husband? If she wants to be loved then show him and give him that same kind of love. I have mentioned this in my earlier post too. Virat should leave her alone. Stop running behind her and let her realise his importance in her life.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Just a few questions ma'am.

Soo it is okay for sai to reject the reality and not accept it and live in the world of her own illusions but pakhi doing the same is being delusional and pyscho?

Why?

The same rules and theories should apply to every character na?

No matter how much i hate pakhi isnt this a similar description to what pakhi does?

Live in her own world and try to reject that virat loves sai?

Soo what if the innocent, pure - hearted sai is being hurt in the process?

Absolutely correct. If we say Pakhi is delusional then who is Sai? Isn't she behaving the same way? Sai too is no less than Pakhi. Pakhi has taken Virat's promise to her heart and Sai too is doing the same. Has she ever tried to analyse Virat's behaviour towards Pakhi and towards her? If she does then she'll realise that he loves her and not Pakhi. But, Sai is so stubborn that she will only hear and see what she wants to and no matter however much Virat or anyone else tries to make her understand she will not care about it.

Red - To avoid being hurt she has to listen to her heart but sadly she just doesn't want to and she's tangling herself in a web.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Just a few questions ma'am.

Soo it is okay for sai to reject the reality and not accept it and live in the world of her own illusions but pakhi doing the same is being delusional and pyscho?

Why?

The same rules and theories should apply to every character na?

No matter how much i hate pakhi isnt this a similar description to what pakhi does?

Live in her own world and try to reject that virat loves sai?

Soo what if the innocent, pure - hearted sai is being hurt in the process?

Brilliant questions.

First of all, no it isn't right for Sai to do so. The things is, and it goes for both Virat and Sai, there are several things they do when it comes to their relationship that wouldn't exactly be considered right, but the correct word to use here is understandable. Sai's behaviour isn't right, it is understandable. And understanding the character is something which should be done in every case, be it Sai, Virat or Pakhi.

Now, the reason why Pakhi is criticized for acting like a delusional or psycho is because Virat had already cleared it to her that he is not interestedin her anymore and that he loves Sai, but she still pines after him.

There are various reasons because of which Pakhi is considered wrong and not Sai. First of all, she is married and she wants to be with someone who is also married, but I can ignore this, because I can understand that her husband is not there for her and unpopular opinion, but of course at her situation she would crave someone's love. She is also human afterall. But the problem is not that she loves Virat, the problem is that she forces Virat to love her back, the problem is that using her love as her defence, she hates Sai and use every opportunity to mentally harass her.

Pakhi and Sai's situation are really different, both of them are in an unwanted relationship but here Sai was actually forced to marry Virat by the villagers whereas Pakhi was never forced to do anything. Here, both Sai and Virat had to marry each other knowing full well the boundaries of their relation, but Pakhi, in her fully conscious mind married Samrat to be close to his brother, without even once thinking of his feelings, and now, she blames Virat for him.

Here, you can point out that even Sai blames Virat for their situation, or even Sai doesn't care about Virat's feelings. But, Sai doesn't blame Virat for their marriage, she blames him when he tries to remove the line which they drew in their relationship, when he tries to break down the walls she so carefully built around herself. And it isn't as if Sai doesn't care about Virat's feelings. She did everything he ever asked her to do to make sure she doesn't hurt his family, which would hurt him. So, she tried to make peace with Pakhi, tried to make pace with his family. But Pakhi on the other hand, she never cared about anyone's feelings except her own, not even Virat's. While Sai understood that hurting Pakhi might hurt Virat's feelings, Pakhi never understood how much she hurt Virat whenever she tries to wrong Sai.

This is why Pakhi is delusional. Because she says that she loves Virat, but she never actually thinks about his emotions and his feelings. Everything she ever does feels like a list that she is checking off. How to impress a boy: Impress his family. Check. But impress only those who are actually in power here and never those who remain silent but actually care about him. Think about his wellbeing. Check. But only when it is easier for her to show her care in front of him, not when he actually needs it. Think about his brother and show how much of a good wife she is. Check, but only when it is to gain his attention, otherwise ignore him and ignore his mother especially at a time when she will need her the most.

Everything Pakhi does is to gain Virat's attention and not by her own good intentions or not because she cares for him. Sai, on the other hand, even now, is thinking about everyone's feelings, even Pakhi's. She knows that loving Virat is not easy for her,and she knows that there is a huge possibility that in her attempt to love him she might wrong Pakhi.

So, yes, it does matter if Sai is hurt in the process. Because at the end of the day, she tries to help everyone, she loves everyone, she gives every relationship her everything. Just that this one time, she is unable to do so because she put her own heart above Virat's, because just this one time she wanted to protect herself.

And tbh, to some extent, this is the same case with Virat too.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Just a few questions ma'am.

Soo it is okay for sai to reject the reality and not accept it and live in the world of her own illusions but pakhi doing the same is being delusional and pyscho?

Why?

The same rules and theories should apply to every character na?

No matter how much i hate pakhi isnt this a similar description to what pakhi does?

Live in her own world and try to reject that virat loves sai?

Soo what if the innocent, pure - hearted sai is being hurt in the process?

Pls aap mereko ma'am math bulaiye🤣 Sachme, Shristhi is very much okay with me🤗

I didn't think of this way actually 🤔🤔

Well, I felt very bad for Virat today, but was also trying to reason by Sai's behaviour 🥺

True, Sai maybe also running away from the truth, your questions are really good❤️

But if have to reason I feel (not defending, I am a neutral person, so just trying to figure out the answers), she here is also unaware of the total truth unlike Pakhi.

Sai's actions are based on the incidents which happened with only her, but she is unaware of what happened in yoga retreat. But Pakhi knows every angle of the story right. Cuz she was present and part of every major incident.

Toh, now we have Sai's love for the words spoken on the wedding day, like no expectations wala. There have always been gradual let's say up's and down's equally in the realtionship making Sai go and be motile just around the words, like a good thing made her progress, and some wrong actions and words made her leap back.

In this incident, Let's say a part of story is told to Sai, like the yoga retreat one , she now has two versions, one the lady who met them at the lover's point and one is sunny bhaiya. But, the one which Sai leaning towards more is that lady ka truth. Cuz, Sai's observations with reagrding to Pakhi has made her think so, certain incidents make her think so and she has misplaced the words so that it fits this angle. So, it's all situational. But, if she was clarified certain matters far earlier, maybe this wouldn't have happened. Maybe.. Sai feels there isn't an option called "let's give a chance" here. Cuz, that is what Virat indirectly had refused to that wedding day maybe is her debate.

And Pakhi is sort of rejecting the chance, she was asked to moved on. That was the plot of the vaada right, that Pakhi should move on whereas he won't. And Sai was restricted to even invest anything in this realtion, so seeing that way, Sai and Virat are struggling cuz this is something which was not expected for either of them, but Pakhi wasn't restricted unlike Sairat had to put themselves through. 🤔🤔

Wish, I wish I could rewind and delete those words🤣

So, just tried reasoning this with the question, not defending of offending anyone, sorry if you had felt bad with this or previous post. But, today was really heartbreaking w.r.t. Virat, so was just trying to reason with Sai ka behaviour.

And pls, don't call me mam🤣