Good listener - Page 2

Originally posted by: Momrin

Another point here is when virat was at hospital he allowed sai to take care of him over pakhi even that time sai could doubt that he loves pakhi how can he allowed me when pakhi isn’t liking it clearly but that time she claim her right on virat to take care of him and both her and virat almost insulted pakhi to leave the hospital us waqt bechari pakhi di ki yaad nehi aai..ki use kaisa laage ga uske hote huye agar main patni ban ke virat sir ka kheal rakha to..us waqt kyu nehi chod diya dono ko ek dusre ke sath..she will behave as virats wife whenever she likes but when he wants to treat her like his patni then he is taking her fayda and ruining two lives isn’t it hypocrisy?

Originally posted by: ppnn7191

I completely agree with you! this whole slow burn romance is getting ridiculously stupid now! Also the dialogue writers and the team suffers from severe amnesia! Sai is only going to screw up further once samrat returns and samrat, PP and sai are all going to be behind virats blood! Sunny is useless as ever!

I have no hopes from the CVs as well as they refuse to create a story of their own and are blindly copying KD! Imon and Rono were very very different from sairat! hence I feel the makers should knit a storyline that suits sairat!

Originally posted by: Madhu1000

Sai = big nautanki or big dramebaz and irritating character

staying with virat hugging him even most of the time almost about to kiss him enjoying his royal treatments , after getting many chances also not leaving virat and CN end of the day screaming like deal marriage deal marriage

I stopped watching this show long back I just watch clips in IG one of the main reason is because of sai's irritating fights and her dramas uff can't take it most disliking and irritating character is sai

Unfortunately many people belived shouting screaming creating drama means standing for herself also I saw people praising her acting after every shouting and screaming session 🙄 2 mins silence for such a people 😂😂

I love the actress playing Sai but the character lacks depth.

She was a pampered kid, Papa ki pari. In real life also we can see the arrogance in pampered kids, that's because they always got unconditional love from others. Her achai, sachai all are fine. Even today, I can't understand her rudeness and arrogance towards Virat from the DAY ONE. It's so mannerless, he is not your friend, he is your dad's superior in position. Then that's how the pampering spoil anyone.

Till her dad's death, she was in a protective and happy bubble. After that, her entire world became upside down. If you compare her behaviour in CN, her initial days and present time, we can see lot of changes in her behaviour and her maturity level in handling situations. Even though her rudeness towards him haven't changed, that's because he was always there for her and most of the time he was very patient towards her. Sometimes too much love and care will make a person to take the other for granted. Both are evolving and learning from their experiences, only difference is that he admits his mistakes but she never do that.

At present, there is a war going on between her mind and heart. Need of the hour is, a small separation which will give space to both of them to understand their feelings especially for sai. ❤️

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Now I realize why people say being a good listener is very important in life. I wish Sai had learned this and especially in the medical profession it's very important to have this skill where you pay attention to what others are saying and not cut them off. If Sai had listening skills she would have understood below ones

1.if Sai hadn't cut Virat off and allowed him to speak when she questioned his story, he would have confessed his feelings for her.

2. In the monologue, she says she never heard anything which made her feel he loves her, if she had good listening skills she would remember the words he said which indicated his love for her. He had said she is special to him, he likes her as she is unique, he cannot live without her, he wants to make this marriage work, he is no longer committed to Pakhi, he stopped her from leaving because he cannot imagine a life without her. In numerous ways, he has shown what she means to him.

3. In the monologue Sai says he hasn't said anything to Pakhi not to wait. Ok, I understand she doesn't know what Virat said to Pakhi in her absence but did she forget how he treats her lately. He has stood against her yet Sai feels Virat loves her. What is love according to Sai? Stand against that person, insult them, not talk with a straight face and get irritated with their presence. This is how Virat treats Pakhi lately so I guess this is how you love someone.

She is sympathetic towards a stalker. She has witnessed how uncomfortable he was in her presence in the hospital and at home but yet she feels sorry for the abuser. It's time she gives importance to actions as well.

4. In the monologue, Sai changed the sequence of events. If she was a good listener she would remember, Virat told her about his past before the wedding, not after the marriage. If he was wrong in getting into a deal marriage then she was wrong too to accept it. She wanted him to run away instead of that she could have said the truth to the villagers about his conditions.She is someone who doesn't shy away from saying the truth so why didn't she do that. She agreed because she knew marrying him was a better option because he didn't expect her to be his wife and she was not ready to be one. At least take ownership of your decisions.

5. Sai says this marriage is fake, ok then why she is with him still and why she behaves like a wife to him? The number of times she has claimed her rights on him in public and has said she knows him better. What was that girl?

I tried to sympathize with Sai today but I was more irritated with the way she concluded without letting Virat speak. I hope Virat develops some self-respect and stops running after her. From her words, feel like he is forcing himself on her. It's unfair to her and him.

Sai never listens to anyone except her inner thoughts. Noone matters to her except her own thoughts. Sometimes I feel she's a spoilt brat without any manners or courtesy. Sai doesn't know how to listen,she only knows how to use her tongue like a sharp scissor or knife. Whenever she talks she expects eveyone to listen to her,but when it comes for her to listen she doesn't follow the rule. The rules are only for others specially Virat and not for her.

In the recent past Virat has not given any attention to Pakhi. He has always stood by her and has treated her so badly. He has always ignored her as if she doesn't exist. What more does she want?

Purple - How can she? If she backed out wouldn't the villagers blame her? But, if Virat would have backed out he would have been named as an escapist. Sai knew that since Virat himself asked her not to expect anything from her this was an ideal way of getting married because maybe deep down she herself knew that she won't be able to become a good wife. And, Virat was the ideal choice since any other man wouldn't have tolerated her drama.

Orange - That's perfectly fine. She calls Virat her husband according to her whim and fancy.

To be honest I'm unable to sympathise with her. Infact I want to slap her. grow up,girl before it's too late. At the end of the day you will need Virat even if you consider him as a nobody.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

She was a pampered kid, Papa ki pari. In real life also we can see the arrogance in pampered kids, that's because they always got unconditional love from others. Her achai, sachai all are fine. Even today, I can't understand her rudeness and arrogance towards Virat from the DAY ONE. It's so mannerless, he is not your friend, he is your dad's superior in position. Then that's how the pampering spoil anyone.

Till her dad's death, she was in a protective and happy bubble. After that, her entire world became upside down. If you compare her behaviour in CN, her initial days and present time, we can see lot of changes in her behaviour and her maturity level in handling situations. Even though her rudeness towards him haven't changed, that's because he was always there for her and most of the time he was very patient towards her. Sometimes too much love and care will make a person to take the other for granted. Both are evolving and learning from their experiences, only difference is that he admits his mistakes but she never do that.

At present, there is a war going on between her mind and heart. Need of the hour is, a small separation which will give space to both of them to understand their feelings especially for sai. ❤️

Yes,she's pampered but it doesn't mean she has the rights to be downright rude towards her husband who selflessly took your responsibility specially during the phase where you needed him the most. And,why she's targetting only Virat? I guess she knows whatever she does or says he will forget everything in a jiffy, forgive her and move on and so she can take him for granted? And,how did she forget even though Virat was superior to her Aaba still he used to call him Sir as a respect of him being his teacher and the same way her Aaba used to call Virat as Sir. Both of them respected each other so much. And, Sai she doesn't know the meaning of respect. Pathetic.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Yes, it's hypocrisy. She will call herself his wife in front of all when she wants and will also claim in front of his so-called husband’s love that she knows him better but now she blames him for two timing . Why was she ok kissing him and getting kissed by a man who was two-timing her.

Exactly. She's fine if he comes closer to her but then blames him for two timing. When a person has any feelings for another woman other than his wife will he even come close,let alone take her for an outing?

I can understand what you are saying. She really needs to watch her words. She is too rude to Virat because most of the time he tolerates all her tantrums and arrogance, that's why she takes his goodness for granted.

At present, even though he decided to distance himself from her, it will be very difficult for him to do that since he's a gone case now. I really want him to take a break and step back from this madness so that she too can get a chance to understand how a DEAL marriage really looks like. She needs introspection or else he will be a punching bag for her forever. ❤️

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I can understand what you are saying. She really needs to watch her words. She is too rude to Virat because most of the time he tolerates all her tantrums and arrogance, that's why she takes his goodness for granted.

At present, even though he decided to distance himself from her, it will be very difficult for him to do that since he's a gone case now. I really want him to take a break and step back from this madness so that she too can get a chance to understand how a DEAL marriage really looks like. She needs introspection or else he will be a punching bag for her forever. ❤️

Agree. When Virat will distance himself then she'll realise his importance. Right now he's in front of her eyes so she's taking him for granted but when he'll not be around then she'll know his true value.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Agree. When Virat will distance himself then she'll realise his importance. Right now he's in front of her eyes so she's taking him for granted but when he'll not be around then she'll know his true value.

I can't take this show seriously because makers are confused between their original script and the present show characters. I see serious problem with the writing. Their writing is not at all in sync with the characters progression. That's the reason I don't want to analyze episodes. For example, when Sai said "Virat sir, Maine apke jivako doondliya". Kya bakwas hai, she was saying that as if she went on a search mission. Such an emotional moment, here I was laughing out loud and my hubby and son were staring at me. 😂😂😂

I am just going with the flow. At present, I am just watching it for the Virat's character and the lead pair chemistry, they are very natural and adorable. I usually skip pakhi's scenes completely, she is selfish to the core and I can't bare her emotional blackmailing and victim card. Sometimes I even skip Sai's scenes especially in the initial episodes, can't take that much rudeness and arrogance. Now that she fell in love with her Bechari Pakhi Didi and her Amar Prem Katha. Only God can save Virat and US from the upcoming torture. 🙏