Whatever happens in Ghum is reality

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Truth is bitter .. the popularity of ghum is because it shows the ugly mirror to society..

Whatever happened to Devyani pulkit .. and how her mother handled harini is not far fetched .. look around you .. you will see such uncomfortable skeletons coming out

and virat being outraged but unable to have guts .. to prosecute his elder is also reality .. humans have feet of clay .. Sai is young .. so she’s idealistic .. as she becomes more mature .. shades of grey will be added in her persona ..


I can clearly recollect .. I have seen an exact case happening like pulkit devi and harini happening with a family friend .. where the lovers who were married for a short period separated.. I don’t know whether the foetus was aborted or child given away ..

and the girls parents not having an iota of guilt .. after 2-3 years we got invite for the second wedding of the girl .. so it happens ..


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Very few have the ability to defy

I still can't believe he is a IPS if you cannot be true to the uniform u have no right to wear it

So much wrong has happened to the child , what if pulkit had not rescued her

How can people be allowed to get away after committing a sin such a big crime

I honestly have no words I am outraged today

Stay safe all

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree... despite the show being regressive it actually show a mirror to our society. Not all but there is section of society that does participate in things like these...

It’s a sad reality and I hope people learn from it.... I hope we can re evaluate all this and understand this does happen and where we go wrong as a collective group to stop this from happening...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Absolutely agree

Hope, I am not deviating from the topic but they present Virat as righteous man who respects women but his actions say otherwise, he is definitely not a good citizen of India with him hiding his family's crime and protecting them despite of it, it is worse because he is an IPS officer


Why can't they present him as who he is instead of forcing this good guy image? The journey of change in him would make a better story than Virat doing Kands and still being the nicest guy

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Originally posted by: Svt611

I agree... despite the show being regressive it actually show a mirror to our society. Not all but there is section of society that does participate in things like these...

It’s a sad reality and I hope people learn from it.... I hope we can re evaluate all this and understand this does happen and where we go wrong as a collective group to stop this from happening...


Absolutely... we must try to stop this from happening.. but it is very difficult to convince if it is not ur immediate family ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I wish they showed Virat in different profession but not in police force. That doesn’t mean those who are in other professions should not live up to basic human values and posess sense of justice.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Truth is bitter .. the popularity of ghum is because it shows the ugly mirror to society..

Whatever happened to Devyani pulkit .. and how her mother handled harini is not far fetched .. look around you .. you will see such uncomfortable skeletons coming out

and virat being outraged but unable to have guts .. to prosecute his elder is also reality .. humans have feet of clay .. Sai is young .. so she’s idealistic .. as she becomes more mature .. shades of grey will be added in her persona ..


I can clearly recollect .. I have seen an exact case happening like pulkit devi and harini happening with a family friend .. where the lovers who were married for a short period separated.. I don’t know whether the foetus was aborted or child given away ..

and the girls parents not having an iota of guilt .. after 2-3 years we got invite for the second wedding of the girl .. so it happens ..


I agree to all the points. In real life I don't think any police officer will send his family members to prison just like virat. If they get to know something similar to virat they will get shocked angry and later try to move on

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Truth is bitter .. the popularity of ghum is because it shows the ugly mirror to society..

Whatever happened to Devyani pulkit .. and how her mother handled harini is not far fetched .. look around you .. you will see such uncomfortable skeletons coming out

and virat being outraged but unable to have guts .. to prosecute his elder is also reality .. humans have feet of clay .. Sai is young .. so she’s idealistic .. as she becomes more mature .. shades of grey will be added in her persona ..


I can clearly recollect .. I have seen an exact case happening like pulkit devi and harini happening with a family friend .. where the lovers who were married for a short period separated.. I don’t know whether the foetus was aborted or child given away ..

and the girls parents not having an iota of guilt .. after 2-3 years we got invite for the second wedding of the girl .. so it happens ..


True , I happens all around us... Some cases in my state are famous too... Like father killing his son in law because their marriage is against their will 💔💔... It happens all around us

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree that this DevKit- Harini situation is something that happens in our society, around us too. There are many couples who are separated because of the so-called family reputation. Many are even killed off for this reputation. And many children thrown away by the family members without an ounce of guilt. It is one of the horrors that can even happen near us. Also I will not be surprised with Virat's decision even if he don't send his family to jail. Not many people have the guts to go through the very things they preach. That is a human flaw.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Truth is bitter .. the popularity of ghum is because it shows the ugly mirror to society..

Whatever happened to Devyani pulkit .. and how her mother handled harini is not far fetched .. look around you .. you will see such uncomfortable skeletons coming out

and virat being outraged but unable to have guts .. to prosecute his elder is also reality .. humans have feet of clay .. Sai is young .. so she’s idealistic .. as she becomes more mature .. shades of grey will be added in her persona ..


I can clearly recollect .. I have seen an exact case happening like pulkit devi and harini happening with a family friend .. where the lovers who were married for a short period separated.. I don’t know whether the foetus was aborted or child given away ..

and the girls parents not having an iota of guilt .. after 2-3 years we got invite for the second wedding of the girl .. so it happens ..


Completely agreed, I've seen worse. I've seen the father and the brother actually murdering their daughters bf (they were put behind bars thankfully, didn't happen in India).

I don't know about the people here, but I know that I don't have the guts to step up. If something like that would happen in my family, I'd probably cut all ties, but I still wouldn't be able to involve the police. I know it's morally wrong, but I'm not that a strong person. There are few people who actually could do that.

The show however, I don't have any problems with them showcasing all that, but the problem is first establishing righteous characters and then butchering them. It's just so out of character for Sai and Virat.

Not only DevKit situation, also the way they mistreat Aai. I've seen happing that too (bit different, the husband was abusive (he has bettered as in no physical harm but mental still) and he is next level selfish) and I know that her children want to defend her and support her, they even tried, but she herself doesn't want to. She has her own reasons, but her children actually behave as if nothing happened in the past because their efforts won't pay off as long as their mother doesn't decide to do something. Theie mother is a bit Gopi Bahu type, she still has respect and love for her husband and there's also financial aspect and 'log kya kahenge' and no she's not uneducated, she's really well-educated. It's really beyond my understanding. But again, that's not how Virat's character was established initially so hate that he doesn't speak up for Aai.

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