Did Virat respect Sai’s consent when she refused to marry him? - Page 3

Sai's state of mind at that time would have been anything but sound, the woman attempted suicide FFS

Physically abused, nearly molested, lost only relationship she had and these people got her married to Virat. They didn't respect the fact that she needed time to get out of this grief of losing her father

I can understand why she didn't want to fight with villagers, it was easier for Virat to refuse marriage than her, I mean when she attempted suicide, one should know she is not thinking clearly

Virat involved her in a messy relationship with crazy ex and roj morning me chik chik karne wale in laws

The woman would have been happier if she was living her college life like normal teenagers instead she was forced into marriage and she has to fight for every small thing

Originally posted by: Roseee12

Hey,

I understand your point but I have a slightly different view

I believe both were forced but Virat took a conscious, informed decision. So Virat is wiser in age & stature. If he would have refused Villagers couldn’t have forced him again. They hold no right over him. They can’t compel him like Sai. Even if Virat refused they would have married Sai off to someone else. Sai would have been more submissive because of courtesy and obligation towards the villagers. She’s young & not earning, she would have been a burden on them. She herself wouldn’t have preferred that. Virat’s’No’ matters to villagers because Sai can be convinced into an yes by them for whatever affiliation they have towards her. Plus her helplessness as an orphan in that context matters. I remember her saying to Virat she can’t say No to villagers because she values them a lot & even if she says no they won’t listen to her. Looking from the Villagers pov they did love Sai but they thought a marriage is the most secure way for her future. She wouldnt have been able to fight them. Like may be she could have strictly refused to KJ because thats her father & the freedom to refuses comes with it. But here for the villagers Shes already a burden. She really couldn’t choose.

But Virat wasn’t bound by these constraints except for KJ’s promise- which wasn’t to marry her but take care of her. Villagers interpreted it differently & he gave in because ultimately he cared for her future & safety. But he could have refused. If he refused marriages wouldn’t have happened. As far as Sai’s refusal if not this some ones else would have married her sooner or later. What Sai said is right hes an IPS officer he can’t forced to do something. Keeping apart the villagers pressure I believe he took a fully conscious, informed decision. I think the expectations come from the fact that he’s 27-28, an IPS officer, more mature & not bound by wishes of villagers whereas has nothing to weigh her decision on- she’s an orphan, just 18, jagtap fear is still fresh, she’s already a burden to villagers & is bound by the well-wishers opinions.

I hope I made sense:)

Virat accepted twice Sai's decision. Once when after her Aaba's death she didn't want his help. He was about to leave. And another time after she attempted suicide. Then obviously the villagers brainwashed him and he dreamed that without him she won't survive in this cruel world. But that's not what's the topic about. It's not why he did that and how helpless she was. The topic was about Sai's consent. Where does it come from. It was like an arranged marriage. The ladka said yes and the ladki said no. So why should the ladka say no on behalf of the ladki ? And if he refuses it is labeled as Virat didn't care about her consent ?

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Virat accepted twice Sai's decision. Once when after her Aaba's death she didn't want his help. He was about to leave. And another time after she attempted suicide. Then obviously the villagers brainwashed him and he dreamed that without him she won't survive in this cruel world. But that's not what's the topic about. It's not why he did that and how helpless she was. The topic was about Sai's consent. Where does it come from. It was like an arranged marriage. The ladka said yes and the ladki said no. So why should the ladka say no on behalf of the ladki ? And if he refuses it is labeled as Virat didn't care about her consent ?

Also, If I remember correctly Virat did say this to Sai that if she wants to say no to this marriage she can, to which Sai said she can't say no to Usha Maushi and the neighbours.

I know Sai didn't want to marry him but decision of saying Yes was taken by her. In no way Virat forced her.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Also, If I remember correctly Virat did say this to Sai that if she wants to say no to this marriage she can, to which Sai said she can't say no to Usha Maushi and the neighbours.

I know Sai didn't want to marry him but decision of saying Yes was taken by her. In no way Virat forced her.

Exactly my point. And if I am not wrong she didn't say the villagers and Usha Maushi won't agree to her no but she said she can't say no to them and upset them or something like this. Had she herself said no, Virat wouldn't have forced her. And if he did toh tab hum haq se bash kar lete Virat ko like we always bajao him. 🤣

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Exactly my point. And if I am not wrong she didn't say the villagers and Usha Maushi won't agree to her no but she said she can't say no to them and upset them or something like this. Had she herself said no, Virat wouldn't have forced her. And if he did toh tab hum haq se bash kar lete Virat ko like we always bajao him. 🤣

Bold: FD Viru ki bajane meiin ek second delay nahi karti🤣

During the whole SaiRat shaadi, GC people were irritating AF. If Sai wouldn't have been related to them, she would have thrashed them left and right.

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Bold: FD Viru ki bajane meiin ek second delay nahi karti🤣

During the whole SaiRat shaadi, GC people were irritating AF. If Sai wouldn't have been related to them, she would have thrashed them left and right.

That's my favorite thing to do. Bash the characters I love the most. 🤣 SaiRat I bash equally though Veeru sometimes more because his actions are harsh or maybe I love him more. 😳

They were really annoying. Bechare SaiRat. 🤣

In India arranged marriages are common, acceptable & successful, wherein men & women marry for practical reasons like security, and it does not matter that they are strangers to each other as long as their backgrounds are well known. In that context Sai’s well-wishers wanting her to marry Virat - whom she did not love & did not know well - is not in the least unusual or wrong. And Virat did not marry her by force. He only refused to withhold his consent or to run away, after she attempted suicide, because after her rash act how could he honestly overlook the practical reasons for their marrying for her security & education.

It is another matter that he could have taken up her guardianship without marrying her also.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

He did but he wasn’t ready to say NO because Sai was not ready to refuse . He was very clear he will not say NO from his side and he wouldn’t have married her at gun point if she has refused .

I absolutely agree with u. He clearly said from his side it was an yes. And he had taken a measured decision after looking at the circumstances. If Sai didn't want the marriage she shud hv refused. The scene where she tries to convince him to run away, was so half hearted. She somewhere felt she can trust this guy better than her own people at gc and was at the back of her mind prepared to get married to Virat.