Is he worthy?

Keeping Didi ki beizzati aside but i have one serious question. Why do we let men to get away so easily with everything?

I know the scenes of virat sai romance are cute n all but still can i dare to ask if he is man any woman would want.

He who promised a girl that he gonna love her forever but breaks his promise. Yes promise was stupid still he broke it.

He who promised a dying man to take care of his daughter in every situation, throw out the same girl on streets in middle of the night.

He who ignored the pukeworthy attitude of his family towards his mother.

He who himself asked Sai to behave for tit for tat attitude to his family members but then call her ill mannered.

He who knows that his father and uncle do not do anything without their bhabhi but he did not doubt any of them for one second let alone punished.

He who manhandled his wife in front of his whole family.

N this list is never ending....

N indian tv shows us two educated females quarreling over this man like hell.

No matter what they do now but as a character Virat is a failure. This just reconfirms our own pathetic pancountry attitude in which a man gets away with all his ill deeds just because he is a man n feeling sorry 🤐🤐🤐

Let's awwwwwwwwwwwww now

I agreed with each words... if leave Pakhi a side ... Virat is really culprit if he starts to maintain his relationship wisely than Pakhi wouldn't have guts for any Advance toward him... just start to call her Vahini and half of the problem will be finished from his life... other side try to understand his mother plight ... rest half will be finished too

Originally posted by: -Mitu-

I agreed with each words... if leave Pakhi a side ... Virat is really culprit if he starts to maintain his relationship wisely than Pakhi wouldn't have guts for any Advance toward him... just start to call her Vahini and half of the problem will be finished from his life... other side try to understand his mother plight ... rest half will be finished too

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If I'm not wrong, you were on JNDSD forum right? I wasn't member then, but used to read posts. The atmosphere there kept me from joining India forums😆

In JNDSD forum Vividha was excused for all the behaviour too by her fans maybe because she was a woman 🤷 I know many disliked her too. I disliked everyone on the show for separate reasons and thought Suman was the biggest victim. I'm happy I wasn't there otherwise I would be hated by everyone equally😆

Coming to your post I don't think the issue is of man and woman. Or maybe it is. I'm not sure. One thing I totally agree with is that two women fighting for a man shown in a tv show is what I hate among many things that I disliked on a tv show. The reason why I don't watch many tv shows.(But Ghum just lured me in. And the things that lured me in were both Sairat and Sai's talk back attitude which I hadn't seen before❤️)

So the thing I think is its not about gender. It's about favouritism. When fans like something, they like something. When they like someone, they like someone. There is usually no logic. Logic is given later only to justify their liking for one character and dislike for another. Did I just deviate from the topic

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This Forum's speciality is that people are not blind to the leads' faults. People love them and bash them🤣

Virat was bashed for his behavior too when all that was happening. People wanted to make him wear shoemala😆. I'm also not blind to his faults. I (mostly) just choose to make posts for my stress relief and creativity. Life is already full of drama😆

I think one thing helps in coping up with what's happening in this show. That it's a remake. Many people signed up knowing what was to come🤷 I'm not saying it's justified. It's just that people accept it knowing everything fully well (almost)

And why the hell am I explaining?🤣 I haven't watched the show for such a long time for to personal reasons now. Just watched two episodes now.😆

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

If I'm not wrong, you were on JNDSD forum right? I wasn't member then, but used to read posts. The atmosphere there kept me from joining India forums😆

In JNDSD forum Vividha was excused for all the behaviour too by her fans maybe because she was a woman 🤷 I know many disliked her too. I disliked everyone on the show for separate reasons and thought Suman was the biggest victim. I'm happy I wasn't there otherwise I would be hated by everyone equally😆

Coming to your post I don't think the issue is of man and woman. Or maybe it is. I'm not sure. One thing I totally agree with is that two women fighting for a man shown in a tv show is what I hate among many things that I disliked on a tv show. The reason why I don't watch many tv shows.(But Ghum just lured me in. And the things that lured me in were both Sairat and Sai's talk back attitude which I hadn't seen before❤️)

So the thing I think is its not about gender. It's about favouritism. When fans like something, they like something. When they like someone, they like someone. There is usually no logic. Logic is given later only to justify their liking for one character and dislike for another. Did I just deviate from the topic

🤣

This Forum's speciality is that people are not blind to the leads' faults. People love them and bash them🤣

Virat was bashed for his behavior too when all that was happening. People wanted to make him wear shoemala😆. I'm also not blind to his faults. I (mostly) just choose to make posts for my stress relief and creativity. Life is already full of drama😆

I think one thing helps in coping up with what's happening in this show. That it's a remake. Many people signed up knowing what was to come🤷 I'm not saying it's justified. It's just that people accept it knowing everything fully well (almost)

And why the hell am I explaining?🤣 I haven't watched the show for such a long time for to personal reasons now. Just watched two episodes now.😆

Haha JNDSD was another level riot. But Atharva Sujata promised to come back n he did every god damn time whether needed or not. 😂😂😂😂 Here Virat Chavan is shown as pathetically male egoistic making unnecessary promises to people when no one asking him to make it in first place 😂😂. Honestly speaking it is character of Pakhi who is saving Virat. If they would hv shown Pakhi also as a positive character then Virat wouldn't hv any place to hide his nonsense deeds. But its ITV sab chalta hai 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

If I'm not wrong, you were on JNDSD forum right? I wasn't member then, but used to read posts. The atmosphere there kept me from joining India forums😆

In JNDSD forum Vividha was excused for all the behaviour too by her fans maybe because she was a woman 🤷 I know many disliked her too. I disliked everyone on the show for separate reasons and thought Suman was the biggest victim. I'm happy I wasn't there otherwise I would be hated by everyone equally😆

Coming to your post I don't think the issue is of man and woman. Or maybe it is. I'm not sure. One thing I totally agree with is that two women fighting for a man shown in a tv show is what I hate among many things that I disliked on a tv show. The reason why I don't watch many tv shows.(But Ghum just lured me in. And the things that lured me in were both Sairat and Sai's talk back attitude which I hadn't seen before❤️)

So the thing I think is its not about gender. It's about favouritism. When fans like something, they like something. When they like someone, they like someone. There is usually no logic. Logic is given later only to justify their liking for one character and dislike for another. Did I just deviate from the topic

🤣

This Forum's speciality is that people are not blind to the leads' faults. People love them and bash them🤣

Virat was bashed for his behavior too when all that was happening. People wanted to make him wear shoemala😆. I'm also not blind to his faults. I (mostly) just choose to make posts for my stress relief and creativity. Life is already full of drama😆

I think one thing helps in coping up with what's happening in this show. That it's a remake. Many people signed up knowing what was to come🤷 I'm not saying it's justified. It's just that people accept it knowing everything fully well (almost)

And why the hell am I explaining?🤣 I haven't watched the show for such a long time for to personal reasons now. Just watched two episodes now.😆

Hey, so you are not the only one who had compared jndsd to this. Except that there the FL marries her lovers bro but still keeps physical relationship with her lover. It was a few levels above this in terms of abusing relationships!! And bcoz it was FL all was maaf! At least here Virat has no such relationship with his bhabhi or vahini/and has no intention to keeping such a relationship alive.

But I agree Virat has to be more point blank in addressing this devar-bhabhi relationship, otherwise its pointless for Sai to return!!

Bdw Did Virat Say I love you to Pakhi? Or reciprocated when Pakhi said I love you too? He said he won't let anyone to take place in his heart, but never said he would love her. He said she would be his friend all the lifetime. The day Virat knew Pakhi as Samrat's bride, honestly the relationship between them ended here. And even if Virat kept Pakhi in "dark" , he clearly told her the food denying episode, he didn't love her! Only there's a friendship between them! It was Pakhi who accepted the stupid vaada and married Samrat (for being "close" to Virat).

Baaki the points you mentioned about Virat, he's still being called out for that. Infact the Characters of Virat still seeking Forgiveness from Sai for that. His redemption isn't done fully, it's better than his other counterparts, since it's a remake, we can't expect him not to do anything as many here knows what will happen next. Every audience, every person on other SNS, In this Forum didn't forgive him till now, we still talk how he's problematic and may be worst ML of ITV because he's an IPS officer too. I'm sorry to say, I hate guilt tripping people who wants to forgive him and give him a second chance. It's Sai's department to forgive him, not us. Once Sai knows his growth, it's her to decide to forgive him or to not . Baaki, any type of life lessons should not be taken from a fictional show where FLs are also pseudo feminist sometimes..

And yes, I don't consider Virat at fault for Pakhi's conditions, there are many proofs to show how Pakhi is at fault for her own condition. Yes, he's fault not to draw a line between them after his marriage, but may I ask why Pakhi didn't draw a line?

Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee

Haha JNDSD was another level riot. But Atharva Sujata promised to come back n he did every god damn time whether needed or not. 😂😂😂😂 Here Virat Chavan is shown as pathetically male egoistic making unnecessary promises to people when no one asking him to make it in first place 😂😂. Honestly speaking it is character of Pakhi who is saving Virat. If they would hv shown Pakhi also as a positive character then Virat wouldn't hv any place to hide his nonsense deeds. But its ITV sab chalta hai 🤣🤣

you are right.

About Patralekha, yes, as I commented somewhere else, she gives me second hand embarrassment.😆but that doesn't lessen what Virat did to her at all (at least for me) I always tell this to my mother. So for me, Patralekha is not a saving grace for Virat.

She isn't positive. But I don't see her as completely negative too. There are worse criminals in the show then her. So I don't hate her. I hate her for only one thing i.e. killing an innocent soul. That's it.😆

Apart from that, I kind of understand her.

I hope someday he apologizes to Patralekha too. And I want Patralekha to do the same, not to him 🙈🙈 but to Sai.

I want her to move on. I don't know if it will ever happen🤔

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Bdw Did Virat Say I love you to Pakhi? Or reciprocated when Pakhi said I love you too? He said he won't let anyone to take place in his heart, but never said he would love her. He said she would be his friend all the lifetime. The day Virat knew Pakhi as Samrat's bride, honestly the relationship between them ended here. And even if Virat kept Pakhi in "dark" , he clearly told her the food denying episode, he didn't love her! Only there's a friendship between them! It was Pakhi who accepted the stupid vaada and married Samrat (for being "close" to Virat).

Baaki the points you mentioned about Virat, he's still being called out for that. Infact the Characters of Virat still seeking Forgiveness from Sai for that. His redemption isn't done fully, it's better than his other counterparts, since it's a remake, we can't expect him not to do anything as many here knows what will happen next. Every audience, every person on other SNS, In this Forum didn't forgive him till now, we still talk how he's problematic and may be worst ML of ITV because he's an IPS officer too. I'm sorry to say, I hate guilt tripping people who wants to forgive him and give him a second chance. It's Sai's department to forgive him, not us. Once Sai knows his growth, it's her to decide to forgive him or to not . Baaki, any type of life lessons should not be taken from a fictional show where FLs are also pseudo feminist sometimes..

And yes, I don't consider Virat at fault for Pakhi's conditions, there are many proofs to show how Pakhi is at fault for her own condition. Yes, he's fault not to draw a line between them after his marriage, but may I ask why Pakhi didn't draw a line?

I don't blame him for Pakhi's condition vo to un mata ka alag hi problem hai. My point was not forum or fans forgiving him but the halfcooked redemption storyline being served by ITV when male protagonist at fault. Female protagonist ko to itna perfect bana dete ki dimag ka dahi ho jaye 😂😂 Nahi bhi to mano ki humare show ki heroine perfect hai 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee

I don't blame him for Pakhi's condition vo to un mata ka alag hi problem hai. My point was not forum or fans forgiving him but the halfcooked redemption storyline being served by ITV when male protagonist at fault. Female protagonist ko to itna perfect bana dete ki dimag ka dahi ho jaye 😂😂 Nahi bhi to mano ki humare show ki heroine perfect hai 🤣🤣🤣

Atleast you're getting a better redemption than it's original counterpart 😆. And here Sai didn't forgive him yet, so I don't think so they'll not show his redemption more. Virat as a Character still seeking forgiveness from Sai for the hand holding, so his redemption isn't complete yet