Originally posted by: cheekukabeej
We like to assume that everything has a single definition and we judge people, characters etc. With that definition. But. Everyone has different definitions of different things such as success, love, family.
What we do think is the definition of love for us might not be the same for our heart. Because while making that definition and telling it to others we think from our minds mostly. And teens to believe it is our hearts choice. When mind believes, heart makes it easy for you to move away. When heart loves mind makes it sceptical and refuses to accept this definition. So they come to a compromise until one of them finally wins the battle.
Virat: Patralekha is the ideal for him. You know there are many people that make a list about the kind of spouse they want. Patralekha is the list wali girl. And he made his heart sure it's love. Later he met Sai. The kind of person his heart wanted, who matched his values. His heart started falling for her without his mind's knowledge😆. So his head kept fighting and his heart kept doing what it does-love😆 Now is the phase when his mind and heart have come to a compromise where they both have accepted her with a different term than love. Soon one of them will win😉
Sai: is still a teenager and she had been shown in a phase where she never got to design an ideal partner for herself. But she had witnessed two kinds of love. One was the kind of Jagtap. Obsessive, controlling, abusive and demeaning. The other kind of love was her Aaba's. Respectful, protective, caring. Even her Aaba used to scold her and she would get angry but she never doubted his love for her because she knew it stems from his care. Her being the only child with no competitor for her Aaba's love helped too. Virat fills those shoes. This is why she keeps comparing him to her Aaba. But here she has a competitor. For the kind of person Sai is, she gives as much as she gets whether it's love or something else😆Aayi, Devyani and Shivani loved her from the very beginning and unconditionally and there was no competitor for their love just like her Aaba's love. The three of them equally dislike Patralekha.😆and openly favour Sai. So Sai is open to them and admits her love for them openly. But Virat's love comes with a competitor and he openly told her from the very beginning of their relationship. This is one thing where he does not match the criteria to be in her love circle.😆Virat is yet to openly admit (and maybe prove) that he loves only Sai.
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